The Out Officiant


Pricing

Prices start at $187

Packages

Prices start at $300


About The Out Officiant

The Out Officiant

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Hola, I’m Ernesto (he/him/él), The Out Officiant! Ordained by the ULC, I began officiating in 2019 and bring heart, humor, and authenticity to every ceremony. As a gay Latino who’s been through wedding planning myself, I know how vital it is to feel seen and supported. I specialize in LGBTQ+, bilingual, and multicultural weddings—always inclusive, personal, and stress-free. Based in El Cerrito, my fee varies by distance. Let’s create a ceremony that celebrates your love story!

I blend heart, humor, and high emotional IQ to create ceremonies that are as unique as the couples themselves. I specialize in inclusive ceremonies and bring cultural fluency, bilingual capabilities (English and Spanish), and a personal understanding of what it means to have your identity celebrated, not just tolerated. Whether it’s a queer, interfaith, or multicultural union, I make sure your love story is the star of the show.

In three words: Collaborative, Flexible, Thoughtful


Services

Ceremony types

  • Civil Union
  • Commitment Ceremony
  • Elopement
  • Interfaith Ceremony
  • Legal License Signing
  • Multicultural Weddings
  • Non-religious Ceremony

Religious affiliations

  • Catholic
  • Christian
  • Interfaith
  • Secular
  • Spiritual

The Out Officiant packages

Love Out Loud: Locally

Description

For the couple that’s not shy about showing up, standing out, and sealing it with style. This package is all about crafting a ceremony that sounds like you, with heart & humor. Must be within 25 miles of El Cerrito, CA.

What’s included
  • Initial consultation
  • Custom ceremony script shared in advance
  • Officiating a ceremony that reflects your love
  • Rehearsal run-through
  • Filing of marriage license, if applicable

Love Out Loud: On The Road

Description

For the couple that’s not shy about showing up, standing out, and sealing it with style. This package is all about crafting a ceremony that sounds like you, with heart & humor. Must be between 25 - 50 miles of El Cerrito, CA.

What’s included
  • Initial consultation
  • Custom ceremony script shared in advance
  • Officiating a ceremony that reflects your love
  • Rehearsal run-through
  • Filing of marriage license, if applicable

Love Out Loud: Wherever You Are

Description

For the couple that’s not shy about showing up, standing out, and sealing it with style. This package is all about crafting a ceremony that sounds like you, with heart & humor. For ceremonies 50+ miles from El Cerrito, CA packages start at $550. Final pricing depends on the exact location and time commitment, including factors like traffic, parking, tolls, and lodging (if needed). I’ll always confirm the full cost before booking—no surprises!

What’s included
  • Initial consultation
  • Custom ceremony script shared in advance
  • Officiating a ceremony that reflects your love
  • Rehearsal run-through
  • Filing of marriage license, if applicable

Love Out Load: LA Edition

Description

For the couple that’s not shy about showing up, standing out, and sealing it with style. This package is all about crafting a ceremony that sounds like you, with heart & humor. As a proud LA native, I’m always happy to return home to officiate love. This special package reflects my personal connection to the area and a reduced rate compared to other 50+ mile travel ceremonies. Dates may be limited depending on travel availability—reach out early to secure your date!

What’s included
  • Initial consultation
  • Custom ceremony script shared in advance
  • Officiating a ceremony that reflects your love
  • Rehearsal run-through
  • Filing of marriage license, if applicable

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  • The BEST Officiant!!

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    FahimaMay 29, 2025

    Ernesto is the best officiant! He met with us prior to see what we would like incorporated into the ceremony, he showed up last minute to our rehearsal after we forgot to tell him about it, and overall incorporated his humor/personality to make our ceremony truly special! Highly recommend him!

  • Helped Us Tie the Knot (Literally)

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    AshleyMay 29, 2025

    We had a wonderful ceremony with The Out Officiant. He was very responsive, took lots of feedback, and was a joy to have for the ceremony. And getting to know as he was able to capture our feelings for each other and he worked hard to make several things happen. For example, we wanted to physically tie a knot together since that was something that was happening in our relationship a lot and it was very sentimental. He actually crocheted the rope and then did a knot tying ceremony. Again we were very blessed to have him in our lives. He’s a great officiant.

  • 5 Stars

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    ChristianMay 28, 2025

    My experience with Ernesto was outstanding! I highly recommend you to hire Ernesto as your officiant. He personalized everything to my liking and his deliverance was superb. He takes his time with you making sure everything is to your liking.