Raleigh Wedding Minister


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About Raleigh Wedding Minister

Raleigh Wedding Minister

Reverend Kayelily Middleton

Co-creating Ceremonies with couples and Officiating Weddings for 26 years. Seminary ordained and legally recognized in North Carolina to solemnize marriages. Great storyteller and love to honor your family and guests,

Close collaboration with couples so that their ceremony is their choice, not mine. Provide guidance and expertise and my exclusive collection of ceremony material as we together develop their ceremony script which also includes the story of how they met and fell in love and their journey to their wedding day--full of laughter and joyful tears!

In three words: Calm, Collaborative, Flexible


Services

Ceremony types

  • Civil Union
  • Commitment Ceremony
  • Elopement
  • Interfaith Ceremony
  • Legal License Signing
  • Multicultural Weddings
  • Non-religious Ceremony
  • Religious
  • Vow Renewal Ceremony

Religious affiliations

  • Christian
  • Hindu
  • Interfaith
  • Jewish
  • Secular
  • Spiritual
  • Unitarian

Raleigh Wedding Minister packages

Bells & Whistles Ceremony

Description

Complete custom personalized ceremony we create together that includes the story of how you met and fell in love and your journey to your wedding day plus special paragraphs of what you love about each other and what you are looking forward to in marriage. We collaborate on the ceremony so you will love hearing it on your wedding day and your guests will enjoy it too. Honoring of your families and guests. Typically 20-25 minutes in length.

What’s included
  • Officiating and rehearsal. Handling of license.

LoveNote Ceremony

Description

Custom written ceremony based on what you tell me you want then you review and make changes. A brief synopsis of how you met and fell in love then special "love notes" about the things you love about each other, why you want to marry, and what you are looking forward to in marriage. Honoring of your families and your guests. Can be spiritual, secular or religious in tone. Typically 12 to 15 minutes in length.

What’s included
  • Officiating custom ceremony. Handling of license.

Sweet & Simple Ceremony

Description

Custom ceremony I write based on what you tell me you want--secular, spiritual or religious in tone. Includes vows and ring exchange and honoring of your guests. You get to review ceremony and make changes. Choose vows. Typically 5-7 minutes in length.

What’s included
  • Officiating, handling of license, guidance

Reviews

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  • 10/10!!

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    Allison L.Nov 5

    We absolutely loved working with Kayelily as our wedding officiant! She was kind, attentive, and made the whole process so easy and enjoyable. We actually knew we were in great hands because not only was she recommended by our venue, Highgrove Estate, but she also officiated my sister’s wedding at The Bradford back in December 2018 — such an unexpected and special connection! Our ceremony was everything we hoped for and more. Kayelily shared our love story in a way that was sweet, funny, and perfectly us. It flowed beautifully, had everyone smiling (and tearing up!), and was the perfect length at under 30 minutes. We received so many compliments from guests who said it was one of the best ceremonies they’d ever seen. If you’re looking for an officiant who truly listens and crafts a meaningful, personalized ceremony, Kayelily is it. We can’t recommend her highly enough!

    Response from vendorNov 5, 2025
    Thank you so much, Allison! What a great review and what a wonderful wedding you and Patrick planned. I loved telling your love story and the responses from your guests. I wish you had more sisters I could officiate for! Wishing you and Patrick all the best!
  • Kayelily is an Amazing Wedding Officiant!

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    Amber F.Nov 3

    Kayelily is a true professional!  From the first time meeting with her, throughout the entire process - Kayelily made sure that our wedding ceremony was very “us”.  She went above and beyond in her duties as the officiant and I couldn’t recommend someone more to be part of your big day.  Kayelily came prepared with handkerchiefs and wiped tears away during the ceremony.  We had a brief audio issue and she handled the entire situation with ease!   All of our guests commented on how lovely and personal the ceremony was.  It truly set the tone for the rest of the evening.  Truly can’t thank her enough for being part of our life moment!  We are very grateful she was recommended to us and cannot stress how amazing she is! Cheers!

    Response from vendorNov 4, 2025
    Many thanks, Amber! It was my honor and privilege to join you and Chad in marriage. I loved working with you to co-create your fun romantic ceremony! Blessings!
  • Kayelily is wonderful!

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    Jennifer V.Sep 28, 2025

    Kayelily is wonderful! We hired her to officiate our small elopement ceremony with our immediate family. From the start she was responsive, kind, and professional. She took the time to ask for my vision, what aspects of the ceremony were most important to us, and provided us with a script that we were able to edit if desired. Our wedding ceremony could not have been more perfect. It was the perfect blend of honoring our love, acknowledging everyone who was there to support us, and even a little humor. Our families agreed that she was absolutely wonderful and they enjoyed listening to her speak about us. We are so happy that Kayelily was able to be part of our most special day and we cannot thank her enough for the most perfect memory!

    Response from vendorSep 29, 2025
    Many thanks for your kind words, Jennifer! So honored to have joined you and Kyle in marriage before he was deployed. Loved meeting your families too! I wish you the best always!
  • The BEST officiant!

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    Ellie P.Sep 26, 2025

    Rev. Kayelily is an amazing officiant! She helped us create a ceremony that was uniquely ours and beautifully reflected our love story. On the wedding day, everything was seamless. She brought out both happy tears and laughter, and helped us feel completely comfortable standing in front of all our loved ones. We received countless compliments on both Kayelily and the ceremony itself!

    Response from vendorSep 26, 2025
    Many thanks, Ellie. I loved working with you and Andrew to co-create the ceremony script. Your careful and thoughtful planning really paid off on the wedding day. 🥰🥰

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