The Best Retreat Wedding Venues in Stillwater, NY

The Best Retreat Wedding Venues in Stillwater, NY

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12 Wedding Venues in Stillwater, NY

Lodges, retreats
150-200 guests
Available on May 30, 2026
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Blenheim Hill Farm 

5.0

Jefferson, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $30,000

Blenheim Hill Farm is a heavenly wedding destination in the Catskills mountains. We grow the food and cook it for you in ​our ​own kitchen. You don't have to worry about outside catering, rentals, or even a planner. Our in-house team—at the farm and at our NYC restaurant—help you every step of the way, and everything is included. Our historic farmhouse ​onsite ​is a gorgeously appointed sanctuary for you and your family, and sleeps up to 20 guests. With over 15 years in farm-to-table dining and destination weddings, we are committed to hosting your best-day-ever with extraordinary attention to detail, making it a very personal experience. Please read our couples reviews. Blenheim is located a little over 2.5 hours from NYC.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Classic, vintage atmosphere
  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Unique barn setting

Venue considerations

  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
  • No free parking
Awarded Best of Zola
My husband and I had our wedding at Blenheim Hill Farm this past weekend 10/26/2024 and it was an absolute dream. Not only was it the dreamiest wedding because we got married in front of all of the people we love, but because of the absolutely beautiful venue and the team that brought it to life. Morten & Min, the owners were so helpful, kind and just the brightest lights from the moment we met them when we toured the venue through the planning phase and our wedding day. They clearly have a very buttoned up and efficient process, which showed the day of. Now let me talk about the rest of staff … they are AMAZING. We worked with Lawrence and Rosie the weeks leading up to our wedding and the day of and not only did they go above and beyond at their jobs, they truly seemed so happy to be there. There were a number of other team members behind the scenes that helped bring together a seamless wedding (we barely even noticed them - in a good way!) so thank you to the team. This includes the chefs cooking it up in the kitchen, while we didn’t see you … we were told by friends and family how delicious the food was / it was the best wedding food they ever had. The risotto…. Oh my was it delicious!! Another amazing benefit of Blenheim Hill Farm was their recommended babysitter, Victoria - she watched 5 of the kids who attended ceremony but not reception right on the grounds. She made arts and crafts and carved pumpkins with them! The parents and kids were very happy with her. Lastly, all we have to say is….. GET MARRIED HERE!!!!
Zoe S., 6 months ago
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Anne's Washington Inn 

5.0

Saratoga Springs, NY
  • Up to 275 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor

We are excited you are considering Anne’s Washington Inn as a potential venue for your celebration! Situated on four acres, conveniently set amid the arts, culture and natural beauty that define Saratoga Springs, Anne's Washington Inn is the perfect setting for weddings, rehearsal dinners, and bridal brunches. Consisting of two Victorian country houses, with a total of 18 overnight rooms, our accommodations welcome and pamper your guests. Victorian decor with traditional accents follow you throughout bright, cheery rooms enhanced by antique furnishings, fluffy comforters, tapestries, sparkling mirrors and sunny windows. The key to your wonderful weekend is that when you reserve our dining room, grounds and all 18 guest rooms, you and your family and friends are the only people at the inn, giving you exclusive use of our venue.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Multiple event spaces
  • Has onsite accommodations
  • Private area for the wedding party

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • Additional event staff required
As a floral designer working in and around Saratoga NY I am always thrilled when a bride tells me they have selected Anne's Washington Inn as their wedding venue. Why you ask? Because they do weddings right! Conveniently located in charming Saratoga Springs AWI oozes warmth and hospitality. Genuine hospitality, that extends past the patrons to the vendors as well. I sure sign of true professionalism! Big enough to accommodate and small enough to care AWI will not disappoint. Come experience the charm! -Roxanne Branches and Blooms Floral Design
Roxanne, 3 years ago
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Brookledge Wedding Venue 

5.0

Middle Grove, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • Raw space
  • Outdoor
  • Starts at $10,000
  • Offer

Brookledge is a 60 acre, magical oasis set in the rolling hills of Saratoga, NY. We offer a serene space for weddings and private events, as well as cabins and glamping tents for rent. Brookledge is for the nature loving couple who wants to get married amidst the elements - think running streams, moody woods, sunshine, and crackling brooks. Located only 10 miles from Saratoga Springs, couples choose Brookledge for their weddings based on the location, privacy, and on-site lodging in a beautiful and serene setting.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Bridal suite on site
  • Raw space for complete customization
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Not for you if you prefer a more modern aesthetic
  • No all-inclusive dining options
Awarded Best of Zola
I feel so blessed and grateful to have found Brookledge for my wedding day. Helen, Brooke, and the rest of the Brookledge team are simply the best. We chose Brookledge after a FaceTime call with Helen. We live 5 hours away and wanted to make a decision. After speaking with Helen, we just knew that this was the place. We were so supposed through the planning stage. They recommended excellent vendors. Our guests loved the food! We chose the wedding weekend option where you could stay Friday to Sunday and had friends and family members stay on the property as well. My husband and I decided to add on Thursday night, and I would definitely recommend if you are traveling to Brookledge! Being the space early was so helpful. Brookledge really is a gem and if you have the opportunity to get married there, do it! You won’t regret it.
Lisa S., 9 months ago
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Stablegate Farm & Vineyard 

5.0

Castleton On Hudson, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $14,500

From the minute you arrive at Upstate New York’s finest farm and vineyard venue, you will be enamored by the historic charm and rustic elegance that defines Stablegate Farm and Vineyard. Fall in love with the 19th-century Stablegate Barn filled with charming antique decor and ambient market-street lighting. For more intimate gatherings, our Stablegate Lodge provides guests with a warm, inviting atmosphere to celebrate. Choose from a private vineyard, a hilltop view of the Catskill mountains, a 200-year-old Dutch barn door, or a fossil stone fireplace for your Upstate New York ceremony.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Pets can join the celebration
  • Rustic yet refined style
  • Multiple event spaces

Venue considerations

  • No on-site guest accommodations
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • On-site parking not available
Awarded Best of Zola
I don’t even know where to begin. At the beginning of our wedding journey, finding a venue was the hardest thing we could’ve done. My husband and I had a specific vision in mind and had an incredibly difficult time finding a place that we loved that was also within our budget. We’re from the LI area but knew we wished to get married upstate. We must have visited at least 10 venues. Then on our way home from one, my husband found Stablegate on a whim. We looked everything over and it had the barn that I wanted, and the catering included that my husband wanted and I said “if we visit and we like it, I’m putting a deposit down the next day.” And that’s exactly what we did. Birch Hill is an incredible family owned company with so many aspects attached to it, it was hard not to fall in the second we saw it. Over 2.5 years, I never once regretted that decision and once the wedding day came and went I knew it was the right choice for us. The food is amazing and a ton of different options (including catering to my vegan guests), the staff are incredible, and the vibes are immaculate. Our wedding coordinator Jared was really the star of the show. He was super accommodating to all of our needs, organized, and just all in all a ridiculously sweet and funny guy. When our wedding day ended up getting rained out, he came up with backup plans right on the spot that honestly fit our vibe so much more than our original plan and I really truly have Jared to thank for that. Jared treated us like we were old friends that he was just helping throughout the day. He is someone I will truly forever be the most grateful for to have on my wedding day. I have heard so many horror stories about venues, and I can honestly say this is not one of them. Stablegate Barn and the Birch Hill Catering Company have my highest recommendation. And if you need a coordinator, ask for Jared. Really truly from the bottom of my heart, thank you for an amazing wedding day.
Ariella P., 8 months ago
The Inn at Erlowest 

5.0

Lake George, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor

Experience the wedding of your dreams on the shores of Lake George, in a turn-of-the-century castle. Onsite accommodations, lakeside ceremony sites, onsite catering and coordinators help to make your wedding day exactly how you envision.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Designed for grand celebrations
  • Dressing room available
  • Caters to out-of-town guests

Venue considerations

  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • Lighting and sound are not included
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
What a professional and experienced venue! Every little detail my husband and I asked for was executed with such attention and thoroughness. The whole planning process was made so much easier by having the support, care and expertise of the Inn by our side. We are so happy we picked this stunning property to have our wedding. We cannot say enough amazing things about this venue!
Jenna P., a year ago
The Lodge on Echo Lake 

5.0

Warrensburg, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

Nestled against the stunning backdrop of wooded pines and 35 acres of pristine Echo Lake, The Lodge is a rare gem and one of Adirondack’s most popular destination wedding venues. Whether you are looking for a single-day or a fun-filled weekend celebration, The Lodge is perfect for your special event! The Lodge on Echo Lake’s intimate size and pristine Adirondack location offers you, your families and guests a genuinely unique setting – that is warm, rustic and elegant – for your wedding celebration. Just 10 minutes from Lake George, The Lodge is famous for its service excellence, delicious cuisine and creatively planned wedding receptions and private functions. Your wedding will be talked about for years!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a dance floor for celebration
  • All-inclusive venue packages
  • Has a relaxed and casual vibe

Venue considerations

  • On-site parking not available
  • Additional event staff required
  • Lighting and sound are not included
The Lodge on Echo Lake was the perfect venue for our wedding. Kathy was always available and quick to respond, making the planning process a breeze. The venue itself is beautiful, with a cozy and rustic atmosphere that made our special day even more magical. The staff were amazing and extremely kind, making us and our families feel like this was the only wedding they had all year. The level of detail was incredible, and we couldn't thank The Lodge on Echo Lake and their staff enough for such an amazing day. The lodge and location were beautiful, and the lodging on site was updated and super comfortable for our guests.
Emma C., 8 months ago
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The Maples Estate 

5.0

Schoharie, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $37,500

View our packages, pricing and available dates on our website. We most often work with couples investing between $70,000 and $250,000+ in their wedding experience, though your total investment will depend on your vision, guest count, and personal priorities. A Wedding Experience as Unique as Your Love Story The Maples Estate is more than just a wedding venue—it’s an immersive, weekend-long experience where you can relax, connect, and celebrate in nature. Nestled in Upstate New York’s Hudson Valley, our historic private estate offers thoughtfully designed spaces, sweeping landscapes, and a seamless planning experience to bring your dream wedding to life. With three nights of exclusive lodging in our charming farmhouse, the freedom to choose your own vendors, and expert wedding planning support included, your wedding weekend will feel effortless, joyful, and truly one of a kind. Escape the ordinary and create unforgettable memories with the people you love most.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Historic touches
  • Offers full-service amenities
  • Has onsite accommodations

Venue considerations

  • No in-house lighting and sound packages available
  • No all-inclusive dining options
  • Not wheelchair accessible
Awarded Best of Zola
The Maples Estate was the perfect host for our small wedding weekend! Katie and Louis have created something so magical here. The location is very serene - a beautiful backdrop for any event, and wonderful walking paths to appreciate nature. Our house guests didn’t have to leave the property at all, everything was thought of and it was so comfortable all weekend. No matter the weather, it is a stunning place to be. Katie was amazing to work with throughout the wedding planning process, creating a weekend that felt genuine to us and completely matched our vision. Every vendor she suggested to us was spot-on and great to work with! We are impressed with the quality and execution of every detail. The entire weekend felt well-paced and relaxing. Their team is extremely attentive and organized, making sure everything went smoothly. Katie was quick to respond to every communication, and always had creative solutions. We will forever cherish our memories of our wedding weekend at The Maples Estate!
Victoria G., 14 days ago
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Farm Road Estate 

5.0

West Dover, VT
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

Picture cozy evenings under string lights, farm-to-table flavors, and your favorite people gathered for a relaxed weekend celebration in Vermont. Farm Road, just minutes from Mount Snow in West Dover, is a 39-acre retreat designed for authentic, memorable weddings. Say “I do” beside tranquil ponds, on a beautiful bluestone terrace, in the enchanted forest, or by a peaceful riverside patio. Host your reception outdoors in one of two tented spaces or indoors in our rustic-industrial barn or the restored 18th-century Great Room—featuring wood beams, chandeliers, and a cozy fireplace. With two pools, eight pickleball courts, lush gardens, fire pits, and miles of trails, your guests will have plenty to explore. On-site lodging for up to 150 guests across private suites, cottages, and luxury homes means everyone stays close and comfortable. From chef-driven menus to expert event planning, Farm Road Estate is more than a venue—it’s a full Vermont experience. Reach out to schedule your tour!

Why you'll love this venue

  • All-inclusive venue packages
  • Rustic-chic setting
  • Has a dance floor for celebration

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you don't want a rustic vibe
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
Farm Road was incredible from the moment we first emailed about our wedding. Not only are the services, food and grounds INCREDIBLE- the people that work there too. Everything was perfect even more beautiful than we imagined. Our guests could not stop raving about the delicious food and gorgeous property. It truly felt like the best adult summer camp that we never wanted to leave. Taylor, the coordinator at Farm Road, was especially wonderful in ensuring we felt ready for the big day and taken care of. We couldn't have done it without her.
Nikki J., a year ago
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Forest Lake Camp 

5.0

Chestertown, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $10,000

When you decide to celebrate your wedding with us, you will have a 823-acre property, 25 acre private lake, 20 miles of private hiking and biking trails, the athletic fields and all camp buildings exclusively available to you and your guests, you also have the beauty and majesty of the Adirondack Park surrounding you. Located an hour north of Albany and just a 10 minute drive from either the south or north exit on I-87 we are perfectly located for your guests to find but also hidden away at the end of a private road, giving you a secluded, private experience. Plus you have the opportunity to design how you will spend your time on the property.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has onsite accommodations
  • Picturesque garden backdrop
  • Designed for grand celebrations

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
If you are at all on the fence about having your wedding at FLC, go for it!! Our friends and family can not stop talking about how amazing the whole weekend was - from the food to the cabins to the amenities and the FLC staff. We had such a unique wedding experience and loved being able to play capture the flag the morning of our wedding and party post reception at the bonfire. Drew (main contact) was amazing to work with and available to us all weekend. Could not recommend more - FLC is a part of our lives forever!
Marisa O., 2 years ago
Berkshire Lake Camp 

5.0

Hinsdale, MA
  • Up to 250 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor

Berkshire Lake Camp is a wedding venue located in Hinsdale, Massachusetts. This refuge, open three seasons a year, is ideal for couples who want to celebrate their marriage close to nature. The plentiful outdoor spaces make it simple for to-be-weds to organize an unforgettable event held under the open sky. Facilities and Capacity BLC is a conveniently located venue and sits just two and a half hours from New York City and Boston. In addition, it is centrally situated in the Berkshire Region. Couples can begin their day by exchanging vows alongside the lapping shores of Lake Ashmere followed by a reception under a tent. Then, as the sun sets and night settles in, festivities can resume around the warm flicker of a campfire.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides event staff
  • Has a relaxed and casual vibe
  • Pets can join the celebration

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you're looking for a sleek and contemporary space
  • No free parking
  • Does not have a dance floor
Brent and the whole crew at BLC are really easy to work with. They are happy to accommodate in every way!
Matt & L., a year ago
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Bellavista Country Estate 
Old Chatham, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor
  • Starts at $5,000

Your wedding at Bellavista Country Estate will include a two night or longer stay at the beautiful estate for up to 16 guests. The property is located on 60 private acres in picturesque Hudson Valley. Amenities include more than 1,000 square feet of beautiful bridal & groom men’s suites that are perfect for photo ops, game room with air hockey, pinball, card table, in-house gym, library, five full bathrooms, library and more .. all for the wedding couple, family and friends to enjoy during their stay.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Rustic yet refined style
  • Surrounded by nature
  • Provides event staff

Venue considerations

  • Requires outside catering services
  • No built-in audiovisual options
  • Best for events with big guest lists
Sugar Maple Inn 
West Dover, VT
  • Up to 250 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $8,000

Looking for a relaxing getaway surrounded by nature? Look no further than Sugar Maple Inn! Situated on 4 acres of lush grounds, our inn offers a stunning natural experience that will leave you refreshed and rejuvenated. With a picturesque river, scenic trails, and charming picnic spots, there's something for everyone to enjoy during your stay.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Handles all cleanup logistics
  • Provides a dedicated team on-site
  • Has an intimate atmosphere

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No in-house lighting and sound packages available
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists

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About wedding venues in Stillwater, NY

Why is New York the Perfect Wedding Destination?

New York gives you incredible variety for your special day, from Manhattan's iconic skyline to the charming countryside of Upstate. You can enjoy timeless elegance at The Plaza Hotel with its grand ballrooms overlooking Central Park, or take in breathtaking panoramic views of Manhattan at Tribeca Rooftop. Brooklyn offers photography-friendly industrial-chic spaces like The Foundry with its character-filled exposed brick and factory windows. Head Upstate and you'll find City Winery Hudson Valley where your celebration unfolds against the backdrop of a working vineyard with mountain views that change beautifully with each season. April sees the most wedding inquiries in New York, showing just how many couples are drawn to the region during spring's beautiful blooming season.

What's the Reality of Wedding Costs in New York?

Expect to pay more for your New York wedding than the national average of $6,500-$12,000 for venues alone. New York venues typically cost around $16,709 which makes up about 22% of your total wedding budget. Your overall costs will vary based on how many guests you're hosting:

Guest CountTotal Wedding Budget
50 guests (small wedding)$32,316
100 guests$54,844
150 guests$76,011
200 guests$94,911
250 guests$113,810
300 guests (large wedding)$132,709

Your other major expenses will include catering at $13,367 (18%), bar services running $10,694 (14%), florals at $8,177 (11%), planners costing $6,044 (8%), photography at $5,119 (7%), videography at $4,622 (6%), entertainment at $2,298 (3%), cake and desserts at $1,067 (1%), and hair and makeup averaging $550 (1%).

How Do NYC Wedding Venues Compare to Upstate Locations?

NYC venues offer you urban sophistication with distinctive skyline views. At Tribeca Rooftop + 360° you'll enjoy floor-to-ceiling windows showcasing Manhattan panoramas while The Plaza presents opulent ballrooms featuring chandeliers ornate molding and gold accents. The 620 Loft & Garden gives you a stunning rooftop terrace overlooking St. Patrick's Cathedral and Fifth Avenue.

Upstate venues surround you with natural beauty and historic architecture. City Winery Hudson Valley welcomes you to a renovated factory featuring vaulted ceilings stone walls and vineyard views. You can host up to 350 guests here and customize your outdoor ceremony areas to create exactly the atmosphere you're dreaming of.

Which New York Venues Offer Outstanding Culinary Experiences?

You can treat your guests to Two Michelin star cuisine at Manhatta perched 60 floors high in the Financial District where Executive Chef Justin Bogle creates memorable dishes like hamachi and black truffle dumplings. The River Cafe in Brooklyn serves Michelin-starred cuisine featuring Hudson Valley foie gras and Nantucket Bay scallops with Brooklyn Bridge views right outside your window. For a farm-to-table experience Blue Hill at Stone Barns in Westchester County offers cuisine sourced directly from their on-site farm with their HayLoft space accommodating anywhere from 40 to 260 guests.

Where Can You Find Accessible Wedding Venues in New York?

For couples prioritizing accessibility 620 Loft & Garden offers customizable settings that can work with various needs though you'll want to confirm specific features during your planning. Prospect Park Boathouse and Central Park Conservatory Garden provide accessible options with proper pathways for all your guests. Always ask about specific accommodations like wheelchair ramps elevators and accessible restrooms when you're researching potential venues to ensure everyone can fully participate in your celebration.

How Can Guests Participate Remotely at New York Weddings?

Historic Manhattan venues can make remote guests feel included by incorporating virtual tours during ceremony breaks while Midtown Loft & Terrace supports interactive platforms that go beyond simple passive streaming. You might consider venues in Chelsea or SoHo that can enhance those famous skyline views with live streaming that includes interactive elements like virtual photobooths live chats or virtual toasts. These features help create genuine engagement for participants joining your special day from afar.

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