The Best Wedding Venues in Shirley, NY

The Best Wedding Venues in Shirley, NY

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11 Wedding Venues in Shirley, NY

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The Vineyards at Aquebogue 

5.0

Aquebogue, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $14,100
  • Open house

Nestled on the North Fork of Long Island, The Vineyards at Aquebogue provides a captivating setting at any time of year for your next event. Whether it be your dream wedding, an intimate celebration or corporate event, we will make your dreams come true.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Versatile for various event styles
  • Provides a dedicated team on-site
  • All-inclusive venue packages

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
I truly can't say enough good things about our experience at The Vineyards at Aquebogue. From our very first tour, we were blown away, not just by how beautiful the venue is, but by the exceptional service we received from Kate and Emily. Kate alone made such an incredible impression during that first visit that we immediately knew this was the place for us. Throughout the entire planning process, both Kate and Emily went above and beyond. They were always accommodating, responsive, and genuinely kind. No question was too small, and no request was ever a problem. Their professionalism and warmth made what could have been a stressful experience feel effortless. On the day of our wedding, they made sure everything ran perfectly. We were able to truly relax and enjoy every moment, knowing they had everything under control. The venue looked absolutely stunning, the service was impeccable and our guests are still raving about how amazing it was! Thanks to The Vineyards at Aquebogue and their outstanding team, our wedding day was everything we dreamed of and more. We couldn’t have imagined getting married anywhere else. If you're looking for a breathtaking venue with a team that genuinely cares, look no further.
Jacqui & A., 3 months ago
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Essex Club 

4.9

Brentwood, NY
  • Up to 215 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Open house

With resplendent garden views, a picturesque gazebo and a magnificent ballroom, Essex Club sets the scene for an extraordinary wedding or special event. Set amidst 50-acres of rolling greens and perennial gardens, the quaint country club can be customized to the setting of your dreams no matter the occasion. Be it an al fresco cocktail hour, a sophisticated fundraiser or an exchange of vows at the edge of the sprawling lawn, your vision will come to life at Essex Club.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Offers full-service amenities
  • Provides catering services
  • Picturesque garden backdrop

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
Awarded Best of Zola
From the beginning to the end Jessica was almost like an angel from above! Any questions no matter how stupid or how silly she always responded! Rob was amazing and Jancey was literally an angel! I would get married again just to have it there and will definitely be having my baby shower there! We love you all!!!
Samantha K., 10 months ago
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Chateau at Coindre Hall 

5.0

Huntington, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

Seemingly plucked from the south of France, this 80,000 square-foot medieval-style mansion provides a setting that is both timeless and historic. A majestic foyer greets guests upon arrival at this 40-room chateau; a stately circular stairway provides the perfect backdrop for photos, the grand ballroom and piazza offer two distinct settings. Your guests will appreciate being able to explore this 1912 mansion that is a point of pride for Huntington residents and a National Historic landmark.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Bridal suite on site
  • Flexible event spaces
  • Exudes old-world charm

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
Awarded Best of Zola
We got married at Coindre Hall last week and it was an absolute dream come true! John and the entire staff made sure everything ran smoothly and were a delight to work with from beginning to end. We got so many compliments on the venue, the food, and the setup of the night. We couldn't have asked for a better wedding and we couldn't recommend it more! Trust us: work with John to plan a better wedding than you deserve!
Margaret & D., 4 months ago
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The Woodwinds at Kalmia Garden 

5.0

Branford, CT
  • Up to 150 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor
  • Starts at $9,000

Woodwinds at Gastler Farm is a stunning wedding venue in Durham, CT. Woodwinds Catering of Branford, Connecticut, brings over 50 years of experience to the wedding and catering industry to the beautiful Gardens and Farm Scenery of Kalmia Garden at Gastler Farm in Durham, CT. These two family-run businesses make All Inclusive Farm Wedding dreams a reality!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Handles all cleanup logistics
  • Venue is completely outdoors
  • Exudes style

Venue considerations

  • Dance floor not included
  • No free parking
  • No built-in audiovisual options
The grounds are extremely well kept and every aspect is well thought out. The Woodwinds took care of every detail so we had nothing to worry about! We just showed up and enjoyed and got to hear about everyone rave about the food and the bar while sitting around the firepit. Our wedding was an unforgettable night all thanks to the crew at Gastler Farm and The Woodwinds!!!
Jenn T., a year ago
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The Woodwinds at The Blackstone Library 

5.0

Branford, CT
  • Up to 475 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $9,000

The James Blackstone Memorial Library, commonly known as the Blackstone Library, in Branford, Connecticut, is a historic and elegant venue perfect for weddings. Commissioned by Timothy Blackstone to honor his father, James Blackstone, the library was designed by renowned architect Solon Spencer Beman and completed in 1896. Its classic architectural features and serene ambiance make it an enchanting backdrop for wedding ceremonies and receptions. Woodwinds Catering enhances the wedding experience at the Blackstone Library with exquisite culinary offerings and impeccable service. Their attention to detail ensures that every aspect of the wedding day is flawlessly executed, from planning to the final toast. The library’s stunning exterior, with its intricate stonework and majestic columns, provides a picturesque setting for wedding photographs. Inside, the elegant interiors with high ceilings and rich woodwork create a warm and inviting atmosphere for guests.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a dance floor for celebration
  • Has an intimate atmosphere
  • Full catering menu to choose from

Venue considerations

  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • No on-site guest accommodations
  • No in-house lighting and sound packages available
Worked with the woodwinds at the library and they were so helpful. They showed me ahead of time where I was setting up, on arrival they had a table waiting for me. They even made sure I ate (the food is delicious!!!) I hope I get to work with them in the future!
Jay, a year ago
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NYIT de Seversky Mansion 

5.0

Old Westbury, NY
  • Up to 280 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

The historic NYIT de Seversky Mansion brings together Gatsby-era opulence, modern convenience and comfort, and highly personalized service. Whether you are looking for a stylish location for your wedding or other social occasion, or a distinctive, flexible environment for your corporate meeting, the Mansion's elegant rooms and grounds will set just the right tone. We host one wedding at a time to ensure each event is different and unique to your own taste and flare.

NYIT de Severesky Mansion made our wedding a fairytale dream come true. Working with Dana, she made every step of the process easy…. She is an absolute superstar! We were originally supposed to get married in 2021 but chose to postpone (multiple times) because of the pandemic and they worked with my fiancé and I every step of the way…even when we had to move our date one more time because I, the bride, tested positive for COVID 48 hours before the wedding. The food is remarkable, the atmosphere is incomparable and they care about their clients as people working to make sure your day is perfect. Whenever I had a question, Dana would lead me to a vendor, offer her suggestions, and her support. I could not recommend them more.
Stephanie M., 3 years ago
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The Garden City Hotel 

5.0

Garden City, NY
  • Up to 425 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $4,500

The Garden City Hotel enjoys a longstanding tradition of hosting many of Long Island’s most magnificent weddings and celebrations. From festive engagement parties to gala wedding receptions (and every celebration in between), you can count on us to deliver flawless service and attention to detail and exceptional dining for your magical day. As the recipient of some of the industry’s most coveted bridal awards, we know what it takes to create an event you’ll treasure. Our dedicated Catering Directors work with the Executive Chef and culinary team to create the celebration you’ve always dreamed of – from imaginative menus and creative wine pairings to custom wedding cakes and more.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Picturesque garden backdrop
  • Caters to out-of-town guests
  • All-inclusive venue packages

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
The team at the Garden City Hotel was an absolute pleasure to work with for our wedding. From the moment we first spoke with them, they were easy to communicate with and very responsive to all of our questions and requests. The space itself was absolutely stunning - the ballroom was beautifully decorated and the outdoor gardens provided a lovely backdrop for our photos. But what really made the day special was the outstanding service we received. The bridal attendant, Nang, was with me from the moment I put on my dress until the very end of the night, ensuring I had everything I needed and helping to make the day run smoothly. The events directors, Paul, Merril, and Jose, were also incredibly helpful, working tirelessly behind the scenes to make sure the wedding went off without a hitch. We and all of our guests had an absolutely wonderful experience, and we can't thank the Garden City Hotel team enough for helping to make our special day so memorable.
Mary Ellen C., a year ago
The Spinning Wheel 

4.7

Redding, CT
  • Up to 150 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $7,000

As the embodiment of ‘Connecticut Charm’ with its 18th-century architectural design & rustic, New England inspired designs, The Spinning Wheel is the ideal destination for an intimate reception. Our venue, sitting on five acres of rolling countryside, offers both privacy and accessibility - with its picturesque location in quaint Redding, CT and its proximity to major thruways (I-95) and Manhattan (approximately an hour away). Our charmingly-appointed banquet room can accommodate weddings of up to 150 guests and features the original fireplace from 1742. The scenic garden gazebo is a favorite for nuptial exchange and the covered patio serves as a perfect setting for cocktails and outdoor receptions. Come meet our family and explore our beautiful grounds yourself – we can’t wait to meet you!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a dance floor for celebration
  • Multiple event spaces
  • Provides setup and cleanup

Venue considerations

  • No on-site bridal suite
  • No in-house lighting and sound packages available
  • No on-site guest accommodations
Awarded Best of Zola
The Spinning Wheel made our wedding absolutely perfect. From the beginning of the process to the wedding day, Katlyn and her Staff were so attentive, professional and friendly. They made all my dreams come true. The food was AMAZING, the wait staff efficient and attentive, the vibe was awesome. Everyone had a blast and said it was the best wedding ever. I had the best experience at The Spinning Wheel!
Melissa, a year ago
The Seawane Club 

5.0

Hewlett, NY
  • Up to 320 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

The Seawane Club is committed to curating your dream event filled with laughter, love, and memories to cherish forever. Our premiere club is the perfect place to say “I do!” From hosting your ceremony and reception in our Grand Ballroom, to your bridal party getting ready in our bridal suite and groomsmen spending the afternoon golfing or relaxing in a cabana by the pool before the main event, our club becomes your oasis on your special day. Our event spaces, world-class cuisine, amenities, and impeccable service come together to ensure your wedding day is truly spectacular. Our experienced wedding team is here to guide you through every step of this exciting process. We look forward to making memories to last a lifetime and celebrating with you at Seawane.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Classic seating dinner
  • Both indoor and outdoor options
  • Has a dance floor for celebration

Venue considerations

  • No in-house lighting and sound packages available
  • No free parking
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
Thank you to Taylor, Molly, Jared, Chef and the entire Seawane team for making my wedding day the most perfect day! From the moment I inquired and spoke to Jared, to visiting with my (now) husband and planning with Taylor, the team went above and beyond to listen and execute. Taylor was ALWAYS available to answer questions and calm my nerves. And the food, Chef outdid himself. We had many guests say it was the best wedding food they have ever had. This venue and team are one of a kind.
Genny F., a year ago
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The Douglaston Manor 

5.0

Douglaston, NY
  • Up to 350 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $6,000

The Douglaston Manor combines historical grandeur with contemporary amenities, providing a luxurious setting for weddings. The venue offers multiple event spaces, including the grand Romantica Contessa ballroom and the scenic Bella Vista room, each with its own unique charm. The dedicated staff ensures meticulous attention to detail, from setup to service. With its breathtaking views of the Manhattan skyline and elegant indoor and outdoor options, The Douglaston Manor is perfect for those seeking a sophisticated and memorable celebration.

Why you'll love this venue

  • All-inclusive venue packages
  • Provides setup and cleanup
  • Historic touches

Venue considerations

  • No on-site guest accommodations
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No free parking
From the moment we met Kathy and saw The Douglaston Manor, we knew it would be the place we get married. We absolutely loved the old charm and how spacious all the rooms were. Kathy, Claudia, and Jose worked so hard for our event, and we truly had an amazing time. It was lightly raining during our wedding ceremony, and they managed to get some umbrellas for our guests! That small but meaningful gesture should just tell you how much they care for all their couples. Truly from the bottom of our hearts, we appreciate this venue and all the staff that work there.
Shivangi D., a year ago
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Mamaroneck Beach & Yacht Club 

5.0

Mamaroneck, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

MBYC offers a wide range of culinary adventures. Situated on the scenic Long Island Sound and Mamaroneck Harbor the club’s setting makes for a stunning backdrop from all of our indoor and outdoor dining facilities. MBYC is a historic social institution, whose unparalleled facilities and grounds have made it a destination for major social events since its inception in 1885. Situated on the scenic Long Island Sound and Mamaroneck Harbor make for a stunning backdrop for all types of events. The Club offers many options for your private event from small imitate gatherings to larger events in our catering facility. Whether it be for 360 people or small intimate gatherings, our elegant ballroom, unique wine cellar or any of our other indoor and outdoor venues will be the perfect setting for your special event. Please contact Robert at mbyc-ny dot com to inquire. Thank you!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides a dedicated team on-site
  • Exudes old-world charm
  • Has a dance floor for celebration

Venue considerations

  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No in-house catering options
We could not be more happy with how our wedding turned out at Mamaroneck Beach and Yacht Club. There are so many things that make this venue special. The service, the scenery, the food, and the run of show were all spectacular. The service. We received attentive and detailed service throughout the entire planning process. The director of events, Bob, answered all of our emails promptly and with detail. He is a wonderful man who goes above and beyond to make sure that we were thoroughly satisfied and feeling well taken care of. Bob was so fantastic at helping us come up with solutions to challenges that emerged at different stages of the planning process, and we couldn’t have pulled off the party we wanted without his patience, thoughtfulness, and support. On the day of, we were made to feel so special by all the staff at MBYC. We were given a personal “bridal attendant” who followed us around all day and attended to any needs we had that came up- like holding my bouquet during photos, getting us fresh drinks, grabbing some items from the bridal suite. All of our guests were telling us how impressed they were by the level of service and consideration they received from all the staff. Everyone was kind, professional, and in great spirits. The scenery. The venue space at MB&YC is truly RIGHT on the water! It is so incredibly gorgeous. The cocktail hour is on a beautiful deck over the water. The reception is in a ballroom with giant windows facing the water. The space does not need much more decoration to feel special. It is elegant and special, yet practical, home-y, and not at all stuffy. The food. We were so impressed by the food. Typically wedding food is basic and mass produced, but every dish at MB&YC felt special. We had so many friends after the wedding recounting their favorite bites throughout the night. The mac and cheese bites as well as the New York Strip Steak were definitely crowd pleasers. Not only was the food plentiful, but it was all also incredibly tasty. Bob and his staff also made sure to take care of our guests with dietary restrictions. Everyone ate well at our wedding. The run of show. Bob and his team were working very hard the evening of our wedding to ensure the schedule was kept and everything went as planned. Leading up to the event, Bob heard all of our concerns and desires, and he was able to execute a fabulous event the evening of our wedding. I was never once concerned that something was missing or forgotten, I trusted Bob and I knew he was going to make sure we had a perfect night. Overall, definitely book your wedding here at MB&YC! We can’t speak highly enough about our special day here!
Erin S., a year ago

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About wedding venues in Shirley, NY

Why is New York the Perfect Wedding Destination?

New York gives you incredible variety for your special day, from Manhattan's iconic skyline to the charming countryside of Upstate. You can enjoy timeless elegance at The Plaza Hotel with its grand ballrooms overlooking Central Park, or take in breathtaking panoramic views of Manhattan at Tribeca Rooftop. Brooklyn offers photography-friendly industrial-chic spaces like The Foundry with its character-filled exposed brick and factory windows. Head Upstate and you'll find City Winery Hudson Valley where your celebration unfolds against the backdrop of a working vineyard with mountain views that change beautifully with each season. April sees the most wedding inquiries in New York, showing just how many couples are drawn to the region during spring's beautiful blooming season.

What's the Reality of Wedding Costs in New York?

Expect to pay more for your New York wedding than the national average of $6,500-$12,000 for venues alone. New York venues typically cost around $16,709 which makes up about 22% of your total wedding budget. Your overall costs will vary based on how many guests you're hosting:

Guest CountTotal Wedding Budget
50 guests (small wedding)$32,316
100 guests$54,844
150 guests$76,011
200 guests$94,911
250 guests$113,810
300 guests (large wedding)$132,709

Your other major expenses will include catering at $13,367 (18%), bar services running $10,694 (14%), florals at $8,177 (11%), planners costing $6,044 (8%), photography at $5,119 (7%), videography at $4,622 (6%), entertainment at $2,298 (3%), cake and desserts at $1,067 (1%), and hair and makeup averaging $550 (1%).

How Do NYC Wedding Venues Compare to Upstate Locations?

NYC venues offer you urban sophistication with distinctive skyline views. At Tribeca Rooftop + 360° you'll enjoy floor-to-ceiling windows showcasing Manhattan panoramas while The Plaza presents opulent ballrooms featuring chandeliers ornate molding and gold accents. The 620 Loft & Garden gives you a stunning rooftop terrace overlooking St. Patrick's Cathedral and Fifth Avenue.

Upstate venues surround you with natural beauty and historic architecture. City Winery Hudson Valley welcomes you to a renovated factory featuring vaulted ceilings stone walls and vineyard views. You can host up to 350 guests here and customize your outdoor ceremony areas to create exactly the atmosphere you're dreaming of.

Which New York Venues Offer Outstanding Culinary Experiences?

You can treat your guests to Two Michelin star cuisine at Manhatta perched 60 floors high in the Financial District where Executive Chef Justin Bogle creates memorable dishes like hamachi and black truffle dumplings. The River Cafe in Brooklyn serves Michelin-starred cuisine featuring Hudson Valley foie gras and Nantucket Bay scallops with Brooklyn Bridge views right outside your window. For a farm-to-table experience Blue Hill at Stone Barns in Westchester County offers cuisine sourced directly from their on-site farm with their HayLoft space accommodating anywhere from 40 to 260 guests.

Where Can You Find Accessible Wedding Venues in New York?

For couples prioritizing accessibility 620 Loft & Garden offers customizable settings that can work with various needs though you'll want to confirm specific features during your planning. Prospect Park Boathouse and Central Park Conservatory Garden provide accessible options with proper pathways for all your guests. Always ask about specific accommodations like wheelchair ramps elevators and accessible restrooms when you're researching potential venues to ensure everyone can fully participate in your celebration.

How Can Guests Participate Remotely at New York Weddings?

Historic Manhattan venues can make remote guests feel included by incorporating virtual tours during ceremony breaks while Midtown Loft & Terrace supports interactive platforms that go beyond simple passive streaming. You might consider venues in Chelsea or SoHo that can enhance those famous skyline views with live streaming that includes interactive elements like virtual photobooths live chats or virtual toasts. These features help create genuine engagement for participants joining your special day from afar.

Why is New York the Perfect Wedding Destination?

New York gives you incredible variety for your special day, from Manhattan's iconic skyline to the charming countryside of Upstate. You can enjoy timeless elegance at The Plaza Hotel with its grand ballrooms overlooking Central Park, or take in breathtaking panoramic views of Manhattan at Tribeca Rooftop. Brooklyn offers photography-friendly industrial-chic spaces like The Foundry with its character-filled exposed brick and factory windows. Head Upstate and you'll find City Winery Hudson Valley where your celebration unfolds against the backdrop of a working vineyard with mountain views that change beautifully with each season. April sees the most wedding inquiries in New York, showing just how many couples are drawn to the region during spring's beautiful blooming season.

What's the Reality of Wedding Costs in New York?

Expect to pay more for your New York wedding than the national average of $6,500-$12,000 for venues alone. New York venues typically cost around $16,709 which makes up about 22% of your total wedding budget. Your overall costs will vary based on how many guests you're hosting:

Guest CountTotal Wedding Budget
50 guests (small wedding)$32,316
100 guests$54,844
150 guests$76,011
200 guests$94,911
250 guests$113,810
300 guests (large wedding)$132,709

Your other major expenses will include catering at $13,367 (18%), bar services running $10,694 (14%), florals at $8,177 (11%), planners costing $6,044 (8%), photography at $5,119 (7%), videography at $4,622 (6%), entertainment at $2,298 (3%), cake and desserts at $1,067 (1%), and hair and makeup averaging $550 (1%).

How Do NYC Wedding Venues Compare to Upstate Locations?

NYC venues offer you urban sophistication with distinctive skyline views. At Tribeca Rooftop + 360° you'll enjoy floor-to-ceiling windows showcasing Manhattan panoramas while The Plaza presents opulent ballrooms featuring chandeliers ornate molding and gold accents. The 620 Loft & Garden gives you a stunning rooftop terrace overlooking St. Patrick's Cathedral and Fifth Avenue.

Upstate venues surround you with natural beauty and historic architecture. City Winery Hudson Valley welcomes you to a renovated factory featuring vaulted ceilings stone walls and vineyard views. You can host up to 350 guests here and customize your outdoor ceremony areas to create exactly the atmosphere you're dreaming of.

Which New York Venues Offer Outstanding Culinary Experiences?

You can treat your guests to Two Michelin star cuisine at Manhatta perched 60 floors high in the Financial District where Executive Chef Justin Bogle creates memorable dishes like hamachi and black truffle dumplings. The River Cafe in Brooklyn serves Michelin-starred cuisine featuring Hudson Valley foie gras and Nantucket Bay scallops with Brooklyn Bridge views right outside your window. For a farm-to-table experience Blue Hill at Stone Barns in Westchester County offers cuisine sourced directly from their on-site farm with their HayLoft space accommodating anywhere from 40 to 260 guests.

Where Can You Find Accessible Wedding Venues in New York?

For couples prioritizing accessibility 620 Loft & Garden offers customizable settings that can work with various needs though you'll want to confirm specific features during your planning. Prospect Park Boathouse and Central Park Conservatory Garden provide accessible options with proper pathways for all your guests. Always ask about specific accommodations like wheelchair ramps elevators and accessible restrooms when you're researching potential venues to ensure everyone can fully participate in your celebration.

How Can Guests Participate Remotely at New York Weddings?

Historic Manhattan venues can make remote guests feel included by incorporating virtual tours during ceremony breaks while Midtown Loft & Terrace supports interactive platforms that go beyond simple passive streaming. You might consider venues in Chelsea or SoHo that can enhance those famous skyline views with live streaming that includes interactive elements like virtual photobooths live chats or virtual toasts. These features help create genuine engagement for participants joining your special day from afar.

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