The Best Barn & Farm Wedding Venues in Shelter Island, NY

The Best Barn & Farm Wedding Venues in Shelter Island, NY

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15 Wedding Venues in Shelter Island, NY

Farms, barns, ranches
200-250 guests
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RGNY 

5.0

Riverhead, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • Raw space
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $9,000

We are a family of winemakers with a deep regard for our heritage. Our Mexican roots bring a unique perspective to our business. We value our family’s tradition of wine-making and aim to foster the Rivero González legacy as we enter this new chapter. Quality is fundamental to our brand and relationships - it is what makes up our DNA. We guarantee quality and customer satisfaction, giving the best in everything we do. With all the north fork charm, RGNY’s spaces include special comforts and updates for you and up to 200 guests, year-round. Our outdoor space showcases both our vineyard and horse pasture. Our barn offers modern bathrooms, a bridal suite, a groom’s loft, and air conditioning all while maintaining rustic elegance. We also offer another location for couples searching for their dream wedding venue, Las Vides - a picture-perfect palette tucked away among the vines.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Unique barn setting
  • Dressing room available
  • Raw space for complete customization

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • Lighting and sound are not included
  • No venue-provided food services
thank you thank you thank you so much to the girls at RGNY from the bottom of our hearts for a truly spectacular wedding day. Everything truly exceeded our expectations from the service, to the set up, to every last detail. We were truly blown away how seamless, amazing, and especially GORGEOUS everything ended up turning out. It has really been an absolute pleasure meeting and working with you all over the past year and half on our dream wedding.
Gabriella Z., a year ago
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Bill Miller's Castle 

5.0

Branford, CT
  • Up to 250 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $9,000

A magnificent, breathtaking landmark, Bill Miller’s Castle has served as an elegant venue for weddings, corporate events, and special occasions. Meticulous attention to detail, natural stonework, exposed reclaimed beams, an antique bronze bell weighing more than one ton, and rare antique furniture create a beautiful backdrop for any event or special occasion. Featuring five working field-stone fireplaces, three-story cathedral ceilings, ornate stained glass windows, crystal chandeliers, and a large dance floor; the grandeur of Bill Miller’s Castle will make your guests feel truly extraordinary from the moment they walk through the door.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Multiple event spaces
  • Bridal suite on site
  • Historic touches

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No on-site guest accommodations
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
Awarded Best of Zola
We had the most magical experience at Bill Millers Castle. They made the day everything we could have dreamed and more. Every detail was perfect, the food was phenomenal, and they scheduled everything to run smoothly without making us feel like we were stuck to a schedule. We were able to relax and enjoy the day without worry that something was not done or would not be ready. We had every one of our guests tell us it was the best wedding they have ever been too. (and as we are not a young couple most of them have been to a lot of wedding's). Not only was the experience of the day the most amazing, the planning and communication leading up to the day was phenomenal. Victoria was very easy to reach, answered all of our questions, and helped guide us through the process always having tips for us to make sure we got what we wanted. Thank you to Bill Millers Castle for the most amazing day.
Jennifer & J., a year ago
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The Woodwinds at Nuzzo's Farm 

5.0

Branford, CT
  • Up to 200 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $9,000

Woodwinds at Nuzzo’s Farm is a stunning wedding venue in Branford, CT. Woodwinds Catering of Branford, Connecticut, brings over 50 years of experience to the wedding and catering industry to the beautiful Nuzzo's Farm. Nuzzo’s Farm is one of Branford, Connecticut’s most picturesque Christmas Tree Farms and historic landmarks. These two family-run businesses make All Inclusive Farm Wedding dreams a reality!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides setup and cleanup
  • Has a relaxed and casual vibe
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No in-house lighting and sound packages available
  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
Nuzzos's farm offers a charming and picturesque setting for a wedding. Lovely atmosphere and great service!
Ines M., 10 months ago
The Salem Herbfarm 

5.0

Salem, CT
  • Up to 200 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $2,500

The Salem Herbfarm Offers a delightfully unique venue in the heart of New England. For your wedding or special event, take advantage of our beautiful grounds and peaceful gardens for your enchanting ceremony and pictures. Our spacious lawns and gardens offer you and your guests ample opportunities for relaxing strolls and quiet conversation before venturing into our rustic, 1867 barn to enjoy an elegant dining experience. You and your guests will always remember the quiet conversations and romantic dancing as the sun sets over The Salem Herbfarm and your new life together begins.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Dressing room available
  • Both indoor and outdoor options
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away

Venue considerations

  • No free parking
  • Additional event staff required
  • Couple must handle cleanup and setup
Salem Herbfarm is a wonderful venue! The property is absolutely beautiful and the family the owns it was so lovely to work with. Absolutely recommend!
Rachael P., 2 years ago
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The Barns at Wesleyan Hills 

4.9

Middletown, CT
  • Up to 225 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $25,000

The Barns At Wesleyan Hills is a historic wedding venue located in Middletown, CT. With glorious topiary and glistening ponds on the grounds, this one of kind barn offers beauty both inside and outside its walls. This venue accommodates one wedding per day, allowing couples to enjoy this spectacular location and the surrounding grounds at ease. Our award winning team of professional wedding planners, chefs, wedding coordinators and mixologists are here to help make planning and celebrating your wedding a breeze! Your guests will be in awe of the timeless one of kind beauty paired with award winning farm to table cuisine and the best hospitality in CT. We are ready to help tell your story and ensure you have the best wedding ever - we are just a call, text or email away!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a fun and festive vibe
  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Unique barn setting

Venue considerations

  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • Not for you if you're looking for a sleek and contemporary space
  • No on-premises lodging options
Awarded Best of Zola
The staff at the Barns were amazing. They helped with every step of the way. The food was delicious, the drinks were phenomenal. The venue is so beautiful. I’ve wanted to get married here for as long as I’ve known about them and my dreams came true. It was the most special day. You will not regret booking with them!
Emma A., a month ago
Rockville Wedding and Special Events 

5.0

Rockville, RI
  • Up to 300 guests
  • Raw space
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $4,500

At Rockville Weddings, the possibilities for your wedding are truly limitless. Our stunning venue offers a variety of facilities to suit every aspect of your special day. Host your reception in our spacious 300-seat dining lodge, complete with an industrial kitchen to cater to all your culinary needs. The wedding party can relax and prepare in our luxurious lounge, while guests enjoy the charm of our outdoor ceremony options. As the evening unfolds, gather around our cozy firepits or retreat to our unique glamping sites, cabins, and bunkrooms for a memorable overnight stay. Whatever your vision, Rockville Weddings provides the perfect setting to bring it to life.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Rustic yet refined style
  • Rustic charm with elegance
  • Space for a large guest list

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • Does not provide event staff
  • Not for you if you don't want a rustic vibe
Rockville Wedding and Special Events was a dream to work with for our wedding. Their communication was easy and fast - they responded promptly to all of our questions and requests. The venue itself was a perfect blend of rustic and modern, with a clean aesthetic and all the amenities we needed to make our day special. The staff was kind and attentive, helping to ensure our wedding went off without a hitch. We're so grateful to the team at Rockville for contributing to making our wedding day truly unforgettable.
Sara D., 4 months ago
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The Mountain Room At Mount Southington 

4.0

Plantsville, CT
  • Up to 200 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $4,750

The Mountain Room at Mount Southington strives to create the perfect day for our Brides and Grooms by providing rustic chic amenities at an affordable price. Our Mountain Room is warm with wood accents, lofted ceilings, beautiful arching beams and one ceiling-to- floor glass wall from which there is a stunning view of our grounds. Ceremonies can be held outside on our spacious lawn and cocktail hour can be held on our vast patio.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Rustic charm with elegance
  • Classic elegance

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
  • Not wheelchair accessible
Everything about this place was magical. Andrea did such a great job helping us and accommodating our needs. The venue was beautiful and everything went great.
Juliana R., a year ago
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Falls Creek Farm 

5.0

Moosup, CT
  • Up to 240 guests
  • Raw space
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $7,500

Falls Creek Farm is an enchanting 300-acre destination nestled in the picturesque Connecticut countryside. Our versatile venue caters to wedding ceremonies and receptions, special events, and equestrian gatherings. Our venue blends rustic charm with timeless elegance, featuring stunning landscapes and top-tier equestrian amenities. Whether you envision a rustic wedding or a sophisticated affair outdoors, our versatile spaces and dedicated team guarantee a magical event.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Picturesque garden backdrop
  • Rustic-chic setting
  • Both indoor and outdoor options

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Dance floor not included
  • Limited cleanup and setup services
Falls Creek Farm is such a hidden gem! Their team is quick to respond, super professional, and always ready to assist. The stunning grounds provide a picture perfect backdrop for any event!
Jules, a year ago
Guilford Yacht Club 
Guilford, CT
  • Up to 220 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor

A beautiful club located on the West River with Dock ownership, rentals, clubhouse and dockside memberships available. The Guilford Yacht Club is a full service facility providing yachting, swimming, tennis and various social activities in a true resort environment. As far as the eye can see, one is surrounded by undisturbed natural beauty, including spectacular views of Long Island Sound and Faulkner’s Island.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Unique barn setting
  • Classic seating dinner
  • Accommodates more than 200 guests

Venue considerations

  • Additional event staff required
  • No in-house lighting and sound packages available
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
Stone Acres Farm 
Stonington, CT
  • Up to 200 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $13,500

Stone Acres Farm is a sixty-three acre working farm located in the historic coastal New England town of Stonington, Connecticut. The property's rolling hills, gardens, and acres of vegetable production are open to visitors. We celebrate natural farming, sustainable food, culinary education and the preservation of open space, cultural landscapes, and historic structures.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Private area for the wedding party
  • Promotes a party atmosphere
  • Rustic-chic setting

Venue considerations

  • No in-house lighting and sound packages available
  • Not for you if you prefer a more modern aesthetic
  • Best for events with big guest lists
Meadowbrook Estate & Mansion 
Marlborough, CT
  • Up to 200 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor

Meadowbrook Estate Inn and Event Venue is a beautiful venue with accommodations set in the rolling countryside of Marlborough, Connecticut. We offer luxurious lodging with private suites, spa baths situated perfectly between Boston and New York. Our grounds and ballroom also offer a safe environment for full-service events, weddings, family reunions & retreats. Create that custom elegant lodging vacation or plan your next event with us. Your wedding vision can be fulfilled with all your events held in one beautiful location. Our elite full-service event planning company can customize everything -from having your rehearsal dinner, Bridal Party Preparation, your Dream Wedding - to the After Party Brunch.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Classic elegance
  • Feels like a getaway
  • Lush gardens

Venue considerations

  • Dance floor not included
  • On-site parking not available
  • Not wheelchair accessible
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The Old Field Club 
East Setauket, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

All year long our beautiful waterfront location provides the perfect setting for some of the most important days of your life. The manicured grounds are ideal for an outdoor ceremony while the spacious deck is perfect for entertaining your guests. Inside, our facility is the epitome of understated elegance and charm. A classic backdrop that you can transform into a place that reflects your personal style and taste! We take great pride in catering one wedding at a time so your special day has our full attention. It starts right in the planning stages where our management team and trained staff makes sure every aspect of your event is to your satisfaction. From decorating options to menus to finding ideal vendors, we’re here every step of the way!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides event staff
  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Full catering menu to choose from

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you don't want a rustic vibe
  • No on-site guest accommodations
  • No free parking
The Charlestown Rathskeller 
Charlestown, RI
  • Up to 300 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor

The Charlestown Rathskeller started out as a speakeasy in a different time, and has grown into something entirely unique since then. Nestled in the woods of Charlestown since 1933, the Rathskeller is one of the most memorable dining and entertainment destinations in Southern New England. We serve deliciously grilled steaks, local seafood, burgers and sandwiches in our meticulously restored dining room and tavern, beautiful outdoor patio, and at our indoor and outdoor bars. Just across the restaurant’s backyard sits our rustic outdoor music and entertainment venue. Down Back, our summer stage, backyard bar and burger shack surround a roaring bonfire on cool summer nights. Guests from all over New England descend on the Charlestown Rathskeller for concerts featuring some of the best party, pop, rock and country cover acts in the region. With tasty food and beverages, plus backyard games like horseshoes, cornhole and bocce, guests can enjoy a whole day or night at the Rathskeller.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Space for a large guest list
  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Provides a dedicated team on-site

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
  • No on-premises lodging options
Nathan Hale Homestead 
Coventry, CT
  • Up to 250 guests
  • Raw space
  • Outdoor
  • Starts at $500

Built in 1776, the Nathan Hale Homestead is a National Historic Landmark and the birthplace of Connecticut’s State Hero, Nathan Hale. The property features an 18th-century English Barn with rare gunstock timber framing, a charming 19th-century Dairy Barn, and open pastures surrounded by stone walls and forest. This beautiful home offers a quintessentially New England backdrop for your wedding day or other event.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides event staff
  • Offers full flexibility in setup and decor
  • Rustic-chic setting

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No venue-provided food services
  • No dedicated areas for getting ready

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About wedding venues in Shelter Island, NY

Why is New York the Perfect Wedding Destination?

New York gives you incredible variety for your special day, from Manhattan's iconic skyline to the charming countryside of Upstate. You can enjoy timeless elegance at The Plaza Hotel with its grand ballrooms overlooking Central Park, or take in breathtaking panoramic views of Manhattan at Tribeca Rooftop. Brooklyn offers photography-friendly industrial-chic spaces like The Foundry with its character-filled exposed brick and factory windows. Head Upstate and you'll find City Winery Hudson Valley where your celebration unfolds against the backdrop of a working vineyard with mountain views that change beautifully with each season. April sees the most wedding inquiries in New York, showing just how many couples are drawn to the region during spring's beautiful blooming season.

What's the Reality of Wedding Costs in New York?

Expect to pay more for your New York wedding than the national average of $6,500-$12,000 for venues alone. New York venues typically cost around $16,709 which makes up about 22% of your total wedding budget. Your overall costs will vary based on how many guests you're hosting:

Guest CountTotal Wedding Budget
50 guests (small wedding)$32,316
100 guests$54,844
150 guests$76,011
200 guests$94,911
250 guests$113,810
300 guests (large wedding)$132,709

Your other major expenses will include catering at $13,367 (18%), bar services running $10,694 (14%), florals at $8,177 (11%), planners costing $6,044 (8%), photography at $5,119 (7%), videography at $4,622 (6%), entertainment at $2,298 (3%), cake and desserts at $1,067 (1%), and hair and makeup averaging $550 (1%).

How Do NYC Wedding Venues Compare to Upstate Locations?

NYC venues offer you urban sophistication with distinctive skyline views. At Tribeca Rooftop + 360° you'll enjoy floor-to-ceiling windows showcasing Manhattan panoramas while The Plaza presents opulent ballrooms featuring chandeliers ornate molding and gold accents. The 620 Loft & Garden gives you a stunning rooftop terrace overlooking St. Patrick's Cathedral and Fifth Avenue.

Upstate venues surround you with natural beauty and historic architecture. City Winery Hudson Valley welcomes you to a renovated factory featuring vaulted ceilings stone walls and vineyard views. You can host up to 350 guests here and customize your outdoor ceremony areas to create exactly the atmosphere you're dreaming of.

Which New York Venues Offer Outstanding Culinary Experiences?

You can treat your guests to Two Michelin star cuisine at Manhatta perched 60 floors high in the Financial District where Executive Chef Justin Bogle creates memorable dishes like hamachi and black truffle dumplings. The River Cafe in Brooklyn serves Michelin-starred cuisine featuring Hudson Valley foie gras and Nantucket Bay scallops with Brooklyn Bridge views right outside your window. For a farm-to-table experience Blue Hill at Stone Barns in Westchester County offers cuisine sourced directly from their on-site farm with their HayLoft space accommodating anywhere from 40 to 260 guests.

Where Can You Find Accessible Wedding Venues in New York?

For couples prioritizing accessibility 620 Loft & Garden offers customizable settings that can work with various needs though you'll want to confirm specific features during your planning. Prospect Park Boathouse and Central Park Conservatory Garden provide accessible options with proper pathways for all your guests. Always ask about specific accommodations like wheelchair ramps elevators and accessible restrooms when you're researching potential venues to ensure everyone can fully participate in your celebration.

How Can Guests Participate Remotely at New York Weddings?

Historic Manhattan venues can make remote guests feel included by incorporating virtual tours during ceremony breaks while Midtown Loft & Terrace supports interactive platforms that go beyond simple passive streaming. You might consider venues in Chelsea or SoHo that can enhance those famous skyline views with live streaming that includes interactive elements like virtual photobooths live chats or virtual toasts. These features help create genuine engagement for participants joining your special day from afar.

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