The Best Retreat Wedding Venues in Plandome, NY

The Best Retreat Wedding Venues in Plandome, NY

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9 Wedding Venues in Plandome, NY

Lodges, retreats
150-200 guests
Available on May 30, 2026
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Sterling Ballroom at the DoubleTree Tinton Falls 

5.0

Tinton Falls, NJ
  • Up to 200 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor

TOTAL TRANSFORMATION! The Sterling Ballroom at the DoubleTree Tinton Falls underwent a multi-million dollar transformation! Come see the renovations for yourself. Located just 20 minutes from Asbury Park, this banquet hall has everything you need under one roof. With over 8,400 square feet of event space, an experienced, attentive staff, and numerous catering menus to fit your needs and budget, you can be sure this is going to be a celebration to remember! The Sterling Ballroom, with its sleek and modern décor, is the perfect setting for a sophisticated bride. The room is adorned with elegant hanging glass chandeliers that create an ambiance that exudes luxury. Our inclusive wedding packages (includes tax and service charge) offer customizable catering options, stunning presentation, and award-winning service that will fit all your needs and your budget.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Versatile for various event styles
  • Provides setup and cleanup
  • Feels like a getaway

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
  • Does not allow pets
Awarded Best of Zola
The team at the Sterling Ballroom at the DoubleTree Tinton Falls was incredibly responsive and timely in their communication with us throughout the wedding planning process. The venue itself is absolutely beautiful, and the entire staff was incredibly attentive on our wedding day, ensuring that everything went off without a hitch. From the gorgeous ballroom to the delicious food and seamless service, the Sterling Ballroom exceeded our expectations and helped make our special day truly perfect. We are so grateful to the entire team for their hard work in contributing to our dream wedding.
Ashley F., 8 months ago
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Stone House at Stirling Ridge 

5.0

Warren, NJ
  • Up to 325 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

Nestled on 10 acres of meticulously lush gardens in the stunning Watchung Mountains. Stone House is a picturesque backdrop for your next celebration. Our two distinct event spaces are where luxury meets rustic and contemporary. The Grand Ballroom at Stirling Ridge Featuring 16’ ceilings and a series of glass doors and walls that open up to private gardens and fire pits. The Grand Ballroom is designed with classic, clean lines, state floors, and a natural color palette. Both The Grand Ballroom and The Lodge are located on opposite sides of the property, ensuring exclusive use of the facility and privacy for you and your guests. The Lodge at Stirling Ridge This mid-century modern, yet industrial space is fitted with floor-to-ceiling windows, wrought-iron chandleries, and a stone fireplace standing 20 feet tall. The mulit-level cocktail space offers the look and feel of an art gallery, while incorporating brick walls, slate and wood floors, and an angled ceiling.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides setup and cleanup
  • Classic elegance
  • Provides a dedicated team on-site

Venue considerations

  • No on-site guest accommodations
  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
  • No in-house lighting and sound packages available
Awarded Best of Zola
I can’t express how amazing Stone House is as a wedding venue. Our guests could not stop raving about how beautiful and magical Stone House is as a venue, how attentive and professional all the staff are (big shoutout to Michelle for working with us so closely to make the day so special for us, for Sarah who stayed right by our side answering all our questions and going out of her way to even be with us on our wedding day-making us feel so special, to Mercedes who made everything run on point the day-of, end to end, and Rebecca for being such an attentive bridal attendant and making it so much easier to move around in a big dress!) Everything was so perfect and that’s all due to the Stone House staff. L They were so on top of everything -I (a serial worrywart) didn’t worry about a single thing that day. Thanks so much Stone House! Also the food is AMAZING!!
Haena L., a month ago
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Mountain Creek Resort 

5.0

Vernon, NJ
  • Up to 275 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $20,000

Say “I do” at our exclusive wedding venue right here at Mountain Creek with a scenic mountaintop ceremony followed by a reception in a rustic yet luxurious lodge. We know how important this day is to you and our wedding specialists will help craft a magical experience that caters to your every need.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has an intimate atmosphere
  • Accommodates more than 200 guests
  • Provides setup and cleanup

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you're looking for a sleek and contemporary space
  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
  • On-site parking not available
We've provided string lighting and other lighting and decor at Mountain Creek for more than 25 weddings. We take pride in our attention to details and customer satisfaction. That's why we like working with Mountain Creek so much. The entire staff supports us so that we can do our job efficiently. They make us feel like we're part of the family, which makes it easy for us to provide the service our clients expect. All of our experience at Mountain Creek has been stress-free because of how well they take care of their vendors.
Michael Kimmel, 4 years ago
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Sweetgrass Pavillion at Minerals Hotel 

5.0

Vernon, NJ
  • Up to 150 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor
  • Starts at $18,000
  • Offer

Crystal Springs Resort offers a choice of exceptional wedding venues across four distinct properties. Explore the most charming and newest venue added to our collection... Sweetgrass Pavillion, with outdoor seating for up to 150 guests. The pavillion's rustic setting features breathtaking open-air natural views, creating an ideal rustic elegance wedding location. Couples looking for added fun throughout their celebration can incorporate the surrounding outdoors for exciting lawn games.

Why you'll love this venue

  • All-inclusive venue packages
  • Feels like a getaway
  • Caters to out-of-town guests

Venue considerations

  • No free parking
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Does not allow pets
We were married on 5/10/25 & I still am beaming ear to ear about my experience at Minerals Hotel. From the moment we stepped on the property to view the venue, we knew it was special. Rachel greeted us and gave us the grand tour & made us feel so comfortable. Her bubbly personality and enthusiasm for the space and everything they had to offer really sold us. We fell in love with everything. I did not realize my experience would be getting that much better with Dana as my coordinator. She went above and beyond to help us. She answered any and all of questions, she gave me honest feedback, and always put my needs ahead of anything else. She’s a professional & a saint. My whole experience as a bride was made better from her being there for us throughout the whole experience. Our wedding day went extremely smooth & I don’t know if it would have went that way without her and her team. Our wedding weekend was everything we could have wanted and more. The minerals hotel staff took care of everything and made everyone feel so comfortable. I cannot tell you how many people are still texting us about how amazing everything was and how they want to find more excuses to come to this hotel & have another event. For the weekend, we opted for a welcome party for all of our guests the night before & offered snacks and a cash bar in the diamond room- it really set the scene for the whole weekend. Our bartender that night kept the drinks flowing and everyone had the best time. The late night snacks were really good too. We also opted for a farewell brunch the day after the wedding in the same room and it was perfect. The breakfast buffet is unmatched & was much needed after a night of partying. We got married in the Sweetgrass Pavilion at Minerals hotel and it was perfect. Not only is the pavilion itself beautifully designed but the staff were on top of everything. They made sure that everyone had what they needed (which was a lot for a 180 person wedding) and were so organized. Our lovely bridal assistant, Kya, made sure my husband & I ate, were hydrated and even had to do a quick tailoring job for me to make my dress more comfortable to dance in haha. The dance floor was perfect for a big dance party, the chicken roulade & filet mignon were divine, and the bartenders made a fabulous lemon drop martini (my choice haha) There was not one thing I could say wrong about the whole night. The makeup artists (Marisol and Leah) and hairstylist (Caitlin) that we hired from the salon at Minerals were INCREDIBLE. Every single girl looked absolutely beautiful. A big concern when hiring was seeing how the makeup artists worked on mature skin & hooded eyes- they knocked it out of the park. These girls are extremely talented . The cocktail hour was amazing. Everyone was impressed with the food (also Kya wrapped up all the food for us so the day after the wedding my husband & I were able to try everything we weren’t able to- it was such a nice treat) & the after party pool party was so much fun (I highly recommend booking the pool, your guests, & you, will love it…and the after party churros- everyone ate those up). After the princess treatment we received at minerals hotel, I don’t think anyone should get married anywhere else. Dana, Kya, Rachel, & the rest of the minerals team made my dream wedding into a reality bigger than what I could have imagined for myself. Do not hesitate, book this venue, you will be so glad you did.
Deirdra and T., 6 days ago
The Mansion At Glen Cove 
Glen Cove, NY
  • Up to 225 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $17,000

Marry Me At The Mansion From the moment you turn onto the winding driveway of this glorious Gold Coast landmark Georgian estate, it becomes easy to envision exchanging your vows and celebrating your wedding day here, at The Mansion. Nestled on 55 sprawling acres of landscaped grounds, magnificent surroundings, both inside and out, the possibilities are as limitless as your imagination…and our experienced wedding professionals are unsurpassed in their ability to ensure that your vision becomes a reality. Grand or intimate, formal or casually elegant, your wedding and the preparation leading up to it should be easy and carefree, allowing you, your family and friends to celebrate this most memorable milestone of your life. We vow to make that happen. Experience the New Era in Gold Coast Luxury.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Bridal suite on site
  • Versatile for various event styles
  • Full catering menu to choose from

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
  • No free parking
  • Not wheelchair accessible
Le elite palace 
Flushing, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $40

Elegance meets modernity at Le Elite Palace, featuring luxurious interiors and state-of-the-art facilities. The versatile event spaces can accommodate both large and intimate weddings. Guests enjoy the refined ambiance and top-notch service. The experienced staff ensures every detail is meticulously handled, creating a seamless and memorable event. Customizable decor options allow couples to personalize their celebration, reflecting their unique style.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Allows pets
  • Has a dance floor for celebration

Venue considerations

  • No free parking
  • Additional event staff required
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
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Graduate New York 
New York, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $9,997

Escape the ordinary at Graduate New York, the only hotel on Roosevelt Island, with bright, modern spaces and stunning views of Manhattan and Queens. Located on the Cornell Tech campus, our hotel is a perfect base for exploring NYC, just a short drive or subway ride away. Be sure to visit Panorama Room, our rooftop bar with skyline views you can't get anywhere else.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a relaxed and casual vibe
  • Accommodates more than 200 guests
  • Has onsite accommodations

Venue considerations

  • Additional event staff required
  • On-site parking not available
  • Not wheelchair accessible
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Pinstripes Norwalk 
Norwalk, CT
  • Up to 1200 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

Are you looking for a private event venue to host your next corporate event, wedding reception, Holiday party, or birthday party? Pinstripes provides the perfect event space to meet whatever your party or group event needs! We offer a variety of flexible room sizes, awesome menu options, and fun group activities including bowling and bocce ball. Our Norwalk, Connecticut location offers a unique variety of entertainment and events every day of the week. Enjoy our made-from-scratch Italian-American cuisine during Sunday Brunch with the family, happy hour after work, or a night of bowling and bocce.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Private area for the wedding party
  • Offers full-service amenities
  • Feels like a getaway

Venue considerations

  • No free parking
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
  • Does not allow pets
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Bear Mountain Inn 
Bear Mountain, NY
  • Up to 240 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor

Nestled at the base of Bear Mountain along the Appalachian Trail, the historic Bear Mountain Inn, Merry Go Round and Overlook Lodge venues are the idyllic destination getaways for the adventurer, the romantic, and for those looking to celebrate a memorable wedding. Whether you’re looking to host an unforgettable wedding, unique corporate event, or warm family reunion, the rustic natural backdrop of our venues will exceed your expectations. Just a 45-minute drive from New York City, our versatile venues can accommodate events from intimate to grand.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a dance floor for celebration
  • Multiple event spaces
  • Rustic yet refined style

Venue considerations

  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • No on-site bridal suite
  • No built-in audiovisual options

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About wedding venues in Plandome, NY

Why is New York the Perfect Wedding Destination?

New York gives you incredible variety for your special day, from Manhattan's iconic skyline to the charming countryside of Upstate. You can enjoy timeless elegance at The Plaza Hotel with its grand ballrooms overlooking Central Park, or take in breathtaking panoramic views of Manhattan at Tribeca Rooftop. Brooklyn offers photography-friendly industrial-chic spaces like The Foundry with its character-filled exposed brick and factory windows. Head Upstate and you'll find City Winery Hudson Valley where your celebration unfolds against the backdrop of a working vineyard with mountain views that change beautifully with each season. April sees the most wedding inquiries in New York, showing just how many couples are drawn to the region during spring's beautiful blooming season.

What's the Reality of Wedding Costs in New York?

Expect to pay more for your New York wedding than the national average of $6,500-$12,000 for venues alone. New York venues typically cost around $16,709 which makes up about 22% of your total wedding budget. Your overall costs will vary based on how many guests you're hosting:

Guest CountTotal Wedding Budget
50 guests (small wedding)$32,316
100 guests$54,844
150 guests$76,011
200 guests$94,911
250 guests$113,810
300 guests (large wedding)$132,709

Your other major expenses will include catering at $13,367 (18%), bar services running $10,694 (14%), florals at $8,177 (11%), planners costing $6,044 (8%), photography at $5,119 (7%), videography at $4,622 (6%), entertainment at $2,298 (3%), cake and desserts at $1,067 (1%), and hair and makeup averaging $550 (1%).

How Do NYC Wedding Venues Compare to Upstate Locations?

NYC venues offer you urban sophistication with distinctive skyline views. At Tribeca Rooftop + 360° you'll enjoy floor-to-ceiling windows showcasing Manhattan panoramas while The Plaza presents opulent ballrooms featuring chandeliers ornate molding and gold accents. The 620 Loft & Garden gives you a stunning rooftop terrace overlooking St. Patrick's Cathedral and Fifth Avenue.

Upstate venues surround you with natural beauty and historic architecture. City Winery Hudson Valley welcomes you to a renovated factory featuring vaulted ceilings stone walls and vineyard views. You can host up to 350 guests here and customize your outdoor ceremony areas to create exactly the atmosphere you're dreaming of.

Which New York Venues Offer Outstanding Culinary Experiences?

You can treat your guests to Two Michelin star cuisine at Manhatta perched 60 floors high in the Financial District where Executive Chef Justin Bogle creates memorable dishes like hamachi and black truffle dumplings. The River Cafe in Brooklyn serves Michelin-starred cuisine featuring Hudson Valley foie gras and Nantucket Bay scallops with Brooklyn Bridge views right outside your window. For a farm-to-table experience Blue Hill at Stone Barns in Westchester County offers cuisine sourced directly from their on-site farm with their HayLoft space accommodating anywhere from 40 to 260 guests.

Where Can You Find Accessible Wedding Venues in New York?

For couples prioritizing accessibility 620 Loft & Garden offers customizable settings that can work with various needs though you'll want to confirm specific features during your planning. Prospect Park Boathouse and Central Park Conservatory Garden provide accessible options with proper pathways for all your guests. Always ask about specific accommodations like wheelchair ramps elevators and accessible restrooms when you're researching potential venues to ensure everyone can fully participate in your celebration.

How Can Guests Participate Remotely at New York Weddings?

Historic Manhattan venues can make remote guests feel included by incorporating virtual tours during ceremony breaks while Midtown Loft & Terrace supports interactive platforms that go beyond simple passive streaming. You might consider venues in Chelsea or SoHo that can enhance those famous skyline views with live streaming that includes interactive elements like virtual photobooths live chats or virtual toasts. These features help create genuine engagement for participants joining your special day from afar.

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