The Best Wedding Venues in Patchogue, NY

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4 Wedding Venues in Patchogue, NY

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Bourne Mansion 
Rating: 4.7 (90 reviews)
·Ratings include Zola and Google reviews
Oakdale, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor

This historic Vanderbilt mansion is a turn-of-the-century work of art that offers a traditional and classic setting for the grandest black tie affairs. From lawn events hosting over 1,000 guests, to weddings and corporate affairs hosting 300 guests, Bourne Mansion personifies luxury and grandeur and the elaborate celebrations of yesteryear. Bourne Mansion is conveniently located, only 90 minutes from New York City, yet worlds away.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Offers full-service amenities
  • Classic elegance
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Best for events with big guest lists
Awarded Best of Zola
“We got married 1/5/25 but had been working with Miriam for probably a year and a half before our big day. She was always so personable with us a treated us like family. Words cannot describe the love and care we felt from Jake, our maître D and Samantha, our bridal attendant, on our wedding day. We were cared for tediously and effortlessly. We felt like at ease, happy and totally relaxed. I needed Samantha and didn’t even know it, I am forever indebted to her - she could not have been more attentive and wonderful. Comforting me, assuring me, getting me where I need to be and when. So friendly, kind and amazing. Thank god for Jake. He is so special and we’re so lucky we got him as our maître D. He deems himself as a “yes man” and he is not lying. Anything you could have ever wanted from him, he’d deliver. We wanted for nothing, had wonderful direction from him all night and he took care of EVERYTHING!  The night was flawless, amazing, perfect and all we could have ever hoped for. The staff at Bourne is unmatched, we made the right choice with this venue. Guests will be in awe of the venue and talk about the food for years to come. I wish I could do it all again. Thank you Bourne mansion & staff for the best night of our lives! I don’t have all my pics back yet!”
Sara C., 2 years ago
Bellport Country Club - Weddings & Special Events 
Rating: 5.0 (1 review)
Bellport, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $10,000

The Bellport Country Club is an owner-operated, full-service, restaurant-quality catering facility and venue for weddings and other events located on the beautiful long island coast in Bellport, NY. An owner is here to help you seven days a week. We are looking to build a relationship with all of our guests and hope you will find this a comfortable and beautiful place for a wedding venue, special events and all of your family gatherings.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Dressing room available
  • All-inclusive venue packages
  • Provides lighting and sound

Venue considerations

  • Dance floor not included
  • Does not allow pets
  • On-site parking not available
“We were booked with Bellport Country Club for about 2.5 years and from the moment we booked to wedding day, they had exceeded our expectations. We worked with all the managers but mostly Theo who was extremely efficient in his communication and made sure we received answers to all our questions. He made happen anything we asked for without hesitation. My bridal party, family and I were tended to the second we got to the venue and they made sure that everyone was eating, drinking and having fun with no stress. Our guests are still almost 3 weeks later raving about the food. The waitstaff offered seconds to the guests and that is something we have not seen before. We chose to have our rehearsal dinner there the night before and it was also amazing from the food to the bartender to the environment. I would recommend Bellport Country Club to anyone for any event, but especially a wedding.”
Carrie F., a year ago
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Windows on the Lake 
Rating: 4.6 (7 reviews)
Lake Ronkonkoma, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $90

Windows on the Lake is the The Most Romantic Waterfront Venue on Long Island. See what couples are raving about with our award winning wedding venue. Some of The Unique Features: • Catering to Only “One Wedding At A Time", so we can focus all our attention on your wedding. • Beautiful Waterfront Setting with spectacular sunsets create memorable weddings. • Majestic Gardens complete with palm trees for a tropical setting, (in -season). • Beautiful waterfront wedding chapel available for your On-Site Ceremony. • Outdoor patio for an on the water cocktail hour with Fabulous Food Stations. • Elegant Ballroom with floor-to-ceiling windows providing panoramic water views. • Our one-of-a-kind lighting and in-house sound system can make your event special. • International Menus and Presentations to impress your guests. • Special Ethnic, Halal and Kosher menus can be accommodated. • Experienced In-House Event Specialist to make your event "Stress Free".

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides a dedicated team on-site
  • Accommodates more than 200 guests
  • Provides lighting and sound

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
“Windows on the Lake is a perfect place for any family celebration! The food was delicious, the service was excellent, the view was beautiful, and the decorations were absolutely amazing. Everything looked so elegant and made the event truly special!”
Gregory B., 2 months ago
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Watermill Caterers 
Rating: 4.6 (11 reviews)
Smithtown, NY
  • Up to 500 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor & indoor

One of Long Island's best-kept secrets, our sprawling estate is nestled in the heart of Suffolk County and is surrounded by manicured landscapes, winding pathways and historic architecture. With an atmosphere of rustic elegance and timeless beauty, the Watermill is the perfect marriage of old-world charm and luxurious modern comforts—perfectly providing the finest amenities and endless enchantments at every turn. For more than 25 years, the Watermill has fostered joy and thousands of lasting memories through an unyielding commitment to providing unparalleled service, award-winning cuisine, and an unforgettable experience for each and every guest who walks through our doors.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a chic vibe
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away
  • Full catering menu to choose from

Venue considerations

  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • Does not allow pets
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
“From the moment we saw the outdoor ceremony space, we knew The Watermill made the top of our list. We got so many compliments from our guests on how beautiful the venue was and on how good the food was. In particular, the cocktail hour food got the most compliments. The team was great to work with, though there were some miscommunications as we got passed along from person to person getting closer to our wedding. One person would say they had frames for our signature drinks sign so we didn't need to get any while the next person said they didn't supply that. We were also of the understanding that we wouldn't be seeing any other party when we arrived, but there was another group out on the patio when we went to do our first look. I found out after that there was another party that was supposed to have left, but they didn't yet. Still, the team made sure to usher everyone away so we could have our space for our first look and we didn't see anyone other than our own party for the rest of the night. I have to give kudos to the team for stepping up when we had a medical emergency. Someone in my family needed medical attention during the reception (he was okay!) and even though my husband and most of his wedding party were medics, the staff was very attentive and made sure everyone was taken care of. Once we knew everyone was okay, Nick was very helpful in getting us back on track and getting us back in party mode. I appreciate him staying calm in that situation and making sure everything else kept running smoothly. Elaine was amazing. Every time I turned around she was there asking if I needed anything to drink, making sure I had food and was a huge comfort. I've heard that most couples don't get to eat at their own weddings and we had the complete opposite experience. Between her and my day-of coordinator, I felt so taken care of and truly appreciated everything. A DIY girl, I also made our centerpieces which did require some assembly. Shout out to the team for setting everything up the way I imagined and for helping us to have our nerdy wedding. I also appreciated that Nick got in on the fun with a Harry Potter tie clip to go with some of our centerpieces. Overall it was a fantastic experience and I would highly recommend Watermill Caterers. I would just advise taking notes and staying on top of communication leading up to the big day.”
Kristina K., 3 months ago

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About wedding venues in Patchogue, NY

Why is New York the Perfect Wedding Destination?

New York gives you incredible variety for your special day, from Manhattan's iconic skyline to the charming countryside of Upstate. You can enjoy timeless elegance at The Plaza Hotel with its grand ballrooms overlooking Central Park, or take in breathtaking panoramic views of Manhattan at Tribeca Rooftop. Brooklyn offers photography-friendly industrial-chic spaces like The Foundry with its character-filled exposed brick and factory windows. Head Upstate and you'll find City Winery Hudson Valley where your celebration unfolds against the backdrop of a working vineyard with mountain views that change beautifully with each season. April sees the most wedding inquiries in New York, showing just how many couples are drawn to the region during spring's beautiful blooming season.

What's the Reality of Wedding Costs in New York?

Expect to pay more for your New York wedding than the national average of $6,500-$12,000 for venues alone. New York venues typically cost around $16,709 which makes up about 22% of your total wedding budget. Your overall costs will vary based on how many guests you're hosting:

Guest CountTotal Wedding Budget
50 guests (small wedding)$32,316
100 guests$54,844
150 guests$76,011
200 guests$94,911
250 guests$113,810
300 guests (large wedding)$132,709

Your other major expenses will include catering at $13,367 (18%), bar services running $10,694 (14%), florals at $8,177 (11%), planners costing $6,044 (8%), photography at $5,119 (7%), videography at $4,622 (6%), entertainment at $2,298 (3%), cake and desserts at $1,067 (1%), and hair and makeup averaging $550 (1%).

How Do NYC Wedding Venues Compare to Upstate Locations?

NYC venues offer you urban sophistication with distinctive skyline views. At Tribeca Rooftop + 360° you'll enjoy floor-to-ceiling windows showcasing Manhattan panoramas while The Plaza presents opulent ballrooms featuring chandeliers ornate molding and gold accents. The 620 Loft & Garden gives you a stunning rooftop terrace overlooking St. Patrick's Cathedral and Fifth Avenue. Upstate venues surround you with natural beauty and historic architecture. City Winery Hudson Valley welcomes you to a renovated factory featuring vaulted ceilings stone walls and vineyard views. You can host up to 350 guests here and customize your outdoor ceremony areas to create exactly the atmosphere you're dreaming of.

Which New York Venues Offer Outstanding Culinary Experiences?

You can treat your guests to Two Michelin star cuisine at Manhatta perched 60 floors high in the Financial District where Executive Chef Justin Bogle creates memorable dishes like hamachi and black truffle dumplings. The River Cafe in Brooklyn serves Michelin-starred cuisine featuring Hudson Valley foie gras and Nantucket Bay scallops with Brooklyn Bridge views right outside your window. For a farm-to-table experience Blue Hill at Stone Barns in Westchester County offers cuisine sourced directly from their on-site farm with their HayLoft space accommodating anywhere from 40 to 260 guests.

Where Can You Find Accessible Wedding Venues in New York?

For couples prioritizing accessibility 620 Loft & Garden offers customizable settings that can work with various needs though you'll want to confirm specific features during your planning. Prospect Park Boathouse and Central Park Conservatory Garden provide accessible options with proper pathways for all your guests. Always ask about specific accommodations like wheelchair ramps elevators and accessible restrooms when you're researching potential venues to ensure everyone can fully participate in your celebration.

How Can Guests Participate Remotely at New York Weddings?

Historic Manhattan venues can make remote guests feel included by incorporating virtual tours during ceremony breaks while Midtown Loft & Terrace supports interactive platforms that go beyond simple passive streaming. You might consider venues in Chelsea or SoHo that can enhance those famous skyline views with live streaming that includes interactive elements like virtual photobooths live chats or virtual toasts. These features help create genuine engagement for participants joining your special day from afar.

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