The Best Wedding Venues in Bay Shore, NY

The Best Wedding Venues in Bay Shore, NY

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11 Wedding Venues in Bay Shore, NY

300+ guests
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Bourne Mansion 
Rating: 4.7 (93 reviews)
·Ratings include Zola and Google reviews
Oakdale, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor

This historic Vanderbilt mansion is a turn-of-the-century work of art that offers a traditional and classic setting for the grandest black tie affairs. From lawn events hosting over 1,000 guests, to weddings and corporate affairs hosting 300 guests, Bourne Mansion personifies luxury and grandeur and the elaborate celebrations of yesteryear. Bourne Mansion is conveniently located, only 90 minutes from New York City, yet worlds away.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Offers full-service amenities
  • Classic elegance
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Best for events with big guest lists
Awarded Best of Zola
“From the moment we started planning, Miriam and the team at Bourne Mansion understood exactly what we wanted and made it happen with incredible attention to detail. They helped us customize the bar menu and asked thoughtful questions that made us think about details we hadn't considered, which really elevated our day. The ballroom's acoustics were perfect, and the food was exceptional; our guests haven't stopped raving about it. During cocktail hour, we watched deer graze across the sprawling green space with the oceanfront backdrop, and it felt like something out of a dream. Bourne Mansion has the grandeur and elegance we were looking for, and their team's responsiveness and care made the entire experience feel seamless. We couldn't have asked for a better venue.”
Jany B., a month ago
The James 
Rating: 5.0 (1 review)
Babylon, NY
  • Starts at $5,000

Welcome to The James. Located in the village of Babylon, NY in the historical building of The Babylon Carriage House. The James offers a Multi-level dining experience with a semi-open kitchen, a stunning bar and a magnificent outdoor patio. Every detail was carefully curated to create a unique and extraordinary space.

Venue considerations

  • Additional event staff required
  • No on-site bridal suite
  • Does not allow pets
“Absolutely amazing!!! Words cannot describe how appreciative we are of everything they did to make our day so special. 5 Stars isn’t enough. Sam out did herself helping to coordinate and organize everything, leading up to and the day of. Absolute professionals and experts of the trade. Blown away at how perfect everything was done. Thank you so much for making that day so perfect and special!!!”
Trip H., 8 months ago
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The Piermont 
Rating: 4.9 (9 reviews)
Babylon, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor
  • Starts at $8,500

LONG ISLAND'S PREMIER WEDDING & EVENTS VENUE! Welcome to The Piermont, Long Island’s Newest Catering and event Space. Situated on the edge of the Great South Bay, The Piermont presents the finest waterfront venue on Long Island for weddings, social celebrations, and corporate events. Floor-to-ceiling windows, open-air verandas, and well-manicured landscaping overlook the water with spectacular views.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides catering services
  • Provides event staff
  • Venue is completely outdoors

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • No on-premises lodging options
  • Not wheelchair accessible
Awarded Best of Zola
“I could not rave about this venue enough. The view, the staff, the food all amazing and the compliments I received were even better!! Go see Jackie at the Piermont she’s amazing and will help you!”
Marlena S., 2 years ago
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Stonebridge Country Club 
Rating: 4.7 (116 reviews)
·Ratings include Zola and Google reviews
Smithtown, NY
  • Up to 350 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

Stonebridge Country Club combines the natural beauty of its surroundings with exceptionally elegant settings for special events. Spectacular view of our meticulously manicured golf course, coupled with hands-on hospitality from our staff and the Lessing’s reputation, make Stonebridge the premier destination for any special occasion.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Space for a large guest list
  • Full catering menu to choose from
  • Provides event staff

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • Does not allow pets
Awarded Best of Zola
“Let me start by saying it’s been almost 2 weeks since our wedding at Stonebridge and Matt and I are still on a high! What made us love Stonebridge was the openness of the ballroom with all the beautiful windows. It didn’t feel like your typical ballroom, it felt open and airy. We started the planning process with the lovely Diana who made us feel so comfortable. Whether it was planning details or asking questions, we always left conversations with Diana feeling so excited! She really brings the energy and makes you feel so special. She has an eye for what works, what doesn’t and gives you the best tips and tricks. We are so grateful we had Diana throughout this process!! I HIGHLY recommend getting ready at Stonebridge’s beautiful, gigantic bridal suite the morning of the wedding. My mom, bridesmaids, flower girls and I were so obsessed with all the space to get ready, multiple bathrooms, bedrooms and the windows (they brought in so much light the pictures are amaaaaazing!) I had 3 girls doing our hair and 4 girls doing makeup, my mom and I, 14 bridesmaids, 1 MOH, and 2 flowers girls and we had more than enough room to get ready. Since we had an army of girls I loved that we were able to get there early. We were greeted by Dee the bridal attendant who made sure we had a smooth, fun morning. She was very attentive to us girls and ready with champagne whenever! Terrence is the MAN! Best maitre d hands down. He made sure everything ran smoothly with timing and always kept us hydrated with drinks and water on the dance floor. He truly brings the energy and makes sure you have the best day! We had so much fun with him! Diana, Terrence, Dee and the wait staff truly made our day feel like a dream! They went above and beyond and made sure every detail no matter how big or small was cared for. We are forever grateful for the most perfect day. Our family and friends raveddddd about the delicious food, cocktail room, ballroom and just overall how warm and beautiful Stonebridge was. THANK YOU STONEBRIDGE!”
Victoria G., 2 years ago
Hamlet Golf And Country Club 
Rating: 5.0 (1 review)
Commack, NY
  • Up to 350 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $9,100

Join us and experience the myriad advantages and privileges of Long Island country club living, alongside forging lifelong friendships and cherished memories. With its captivating Stephen Kay-designed championship golf course, exquisite indoor and outdoor dining options, tennis facilities, swimming amenities, private event spaces, and beyond, The Hamlet stands unmatched in its locale, service excellence, and array of offerings. Experience the epitome of luxury living at The Hamlet.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Dressing room available
  • Provides setup and cleanup
  • Provides event staff

Venue considerations

  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
  • Does not allow pets
“Our experience with Hamlet Golf And Country Club was absolutely wonderful from start to finish. Chris and Lisa, the coordinators, were consistently reliable, enthusiastic, and genuinely interested in making our wedding day as special as possible. The venue itself had a beautiful rustic-glam aesthetic that felt warm and inviting for our guests. Everything came together perfectly, creating the ideal setting for us to celebrate our love. We couldn't have asked for a better venue to host our special day.”
Melanie Z., 2 years ago
Gala Event & Food Artistry At Temple Beth Torah 
Rating: 5.0 (1 review)
Melville, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor

Welcome. Gala Event & Food Artistry is a boutique kosher catering company offering personalized service and highly customized gourmet menus. As the exclusive caterer of Temple Beth Torah of Melville, Gala brings over 40 years of experience in producing unique and memorable celebrations. Gala's owners, Jack Hochman, Gayle Wilk and Robert Wilk understand that you aren't just throwing a party, you are celebrating a major life moment. With that in mind, we pride ourselves on delivering professional service with a deeply personal approach.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides setup and cleanup
  • All-inclusive venue packages
  • Has a chic vibe

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • On-site parking not available
“We had the absolute best wedding at Temple Beth Torah!! Cannot thank Gayle and Russ enough for helping to make our wedding dreams come true. The space itself is beautiful, and really came together so amazingly. The number one thing we were told from guests was how amazing the food was!! Truly such an incredible experience there. Thank you for everything!!!”
Morgan S., 3 years ago
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Watermill Caterers 
Rating: 4.7 (13 reviews)
Smithtown, NY
  • Up to 500 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor & indoor

One of Long Island's best-kept secrets, our sprawling estate is nestled in the heart of Suffolk County and is surrounded by manicured landscapes, winding pathways and historic architecture. With an atmosphere of rustic elegance and timeless beauty, the Watermill is the perfect marriage of old-world charm and luxurious modern comforts—perfectly providing the finest amenities and endless enchantments at every turn. For more than 25 years, the Watermill has fostered joy and thousands of lasting memories through an unyielding commitment to providing unparalleled service, award-winning cuisine, and an unforgettable experience for each and every guest who walks through our doors.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a chic vibe
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away
  • Full catering menu to choose from

Venue considerations

  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • Does not allow pets
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
“From the moment we saw the outdoor ceremony space, we knew The Watermill made the top of our list. We got so many compliments from our guests on how beautiful the venue was and on how good the food was. In particular, the cocktail hour food got the most compliments. The team was great to work with, though there were some miscommunications as we got passed along from person to person getting closer to our wedding. One person would say they had frames for our signature drinks sign so we didn't need to get any while the next person said they didn't supply that. We were also of the understanding that we wouldn't be seeing any other party when we arrived, but there was another group out on the patio when we went to do our first look. I found out after that there was another party that was supposed to have left, but they didn't yet. Still, the team made sure to usher everyone away so we could have our space for our first look and we didn't see anyone other than our own party for the rest of the night. I have to give kudos to the team for stepping up when we had a medical emergency. Someone in my family needed medical attention during the reception (he was okay!) and even though my husband and most of his wedding party were medics, the staff was very attentive and made sure everyone was taken care of. Once we knew everyone was okay, Nick was very helpful in getting us back on track and getting us back in party mode. I appreciate him staying calm in that situation and making sure everything else kept running smoothly. Elaine was amazing. Every time I turned around she was there asking if I needed anything to drink, making sure I had food and was a huge comfort. I've heard that most couples don't get to eat at their own weddings and we had the complete opposite experience. Between her and my day-of coordinator, I felt so taken care of and truly appreciated everything. A DIY girl, I also made our centerpieces which did require some assembly. Shout out to the team for setting everything up the way I imagined and for helping us to have our nerdy wedding. I also appreciated that Nick got in on the fun with a Harry Potter tie clip to go with some of our centerpieces. Overall it was a fantastic experience and I would highly recommend Watermill Caterers. I would just advise taking notes and staying on top of communication leading up to the big day.”
Kristina K., 5 months ago
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One10 
Rating: 4.8 (100 reviews)
·Ratings include Zola and Google reviews
Melville, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $8,000

Take your wedding in a refreshingly different and unexpected direction at One10. A unique departure from the ordinary, One10 offers a textured, elegant design that has a distinct flavor all its own, as does our Modern Italian Steakhouse menu. Choose One10 for your special day and enjoy exclusive access where the entire venue is dedicated to your celebration. Enriched with exquisite cuisine and complemented by the perfect wines and signature cocktails, your event will be remembered for a lifetime.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides catering services
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away
  • Provides setup and cleanup

Venue considerations

  • Lighting and sound are not included
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Does not allow pets
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Windows on the Lake 
Rating: 4.6 (7 reviews)
Lake Ronkonkoma, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $90

Windows on the Lake is the The Most Romantic Waterfront Venue on Long Island. See what couples are raving about with our award winning wedding venue. Some of The Unique Features: • Catering to Only “One Wedding At A Time", so we can focus all our attention on your wedding. • Beautiful Waterfront Setting with spectacular sunsets create memorable weddings. • Majestic Gardens complete with palm trees for a tropical setting, (in -season). • Beautiful waterfront wedding chapel available for your On-Site Ceremony. • Outdoor patio for an on the water cocktail hour with Fabulous Food Stations. • Elegant Ballroom with floor-to-ceiling windows providing panoramic water views. • Our one-of-a-kind lighting and in-house sound system can make your event special. • International Menus and Presentations to impress your guests. • Special Ethnic, Halal and Kosher menus can be accommodated. • Experienced In-House Event Specialist to make your event "Stress Free".

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides a dedicated team on-site
  • Accommodates more than 200 guests
  • Provides lighting and sound

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
“Windows on the Lake is a perfect wedding venue! Beautiful views, amazing service, and everything was organized so well. The food was excellent and the whole atmosphere felt magical. Highly recommended for any special occasion!”
Aaron H., 5 months ago
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Blackstone Steakhouse 
Rating: 4.2 (100 reviews)
·Ratings include Zola and Google reviews
Melville, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $8,000

At Blackstone, every wedding is a wonderful creation that’s as refreshingly different as your love together. Our elegant, modern décor both indoors and out is a beautiful departure from typical catering halls. An architectural masterpiece featuring quarried stone, rich natural wood and warmly glowing chandeliers and fireplaces, Blackstone’s incredible décor sets the scene and mood for an unforgettable experience. But it’s our cuisine and service that make us even more remarkable. Enriched with exciting cuisine and complemented by the perfect wines and signature cocktails, your event will be remembered for a lifetime.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away
  • Full catering menu to choose from
  • Provides event staff

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
  • Does not allow pets
  • Lighting and sound are not included
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Chateau La Mer 
Lindenhurst, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $5,000

Chateau La Mer, located on the Great South Bay in Lindenhurst, NY, is a premier waterfront wedding venue. Surrounded by shimmering bay waters, landscaped gardens, and peaceful waterfalls, this elegant location offers exclusive indoor and outdoor areas for your special day. Our attentive, skilled staff provide exceptional service to ensure a seamless experience. The venue features scenic settings, including an outdoor veranda with floral decor, bronze-tone seating, and a glass-walled cocktail room overlooking the bay. Below, our Waterside Patio, complete with a gazebo and gardens, is ideal for ceremonies. Our grand ballrooms, adorned with imported marble, granite, crystal chandeliers, and expansive windows, offer stunning bay views to make your celebration unforgettable.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away
  • Accommodates more than 200 guests
  • Multiple event spaces

Venue considerations

  • No on-site guest accommodations
  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues

About wedding venues in Bay Shore, NY

Why is New York the Perfect Wedding Destination?

New York gives you incredible variety for your special day, from Manhattan's iconic skyline to the charming countryside of Upstate. You can enjoy timeless elegance at The Plaza Hotel with its grand ballrooms overlooking Central Park, or take in breathtaking panoramic views of Manhattan at Tribeca Rooftop. Brooklyn offers photography-friendly industrial-chic spaces like The Foundry with its character-filled exposed brick and factory windows. Head Upstate and you'll find City Winery Hudson Valley where your celebration unfolds against the backdrop of a working vineyard with mountain views that change beautifully with each season. April sees the most wedding inquiries in New York, showing just how many couples are drawn to the region during spring's beautiful blooming season.

What's the Reality of Wedding Costs in New York?

Expect to pay more for your New York wedding than the national average of $6,500-$12,000 for venues alone. New York venues typically cost around $16,709 which makes up about 22% of your total wedding budget. Your overall costs will vary based on how many guests you're hosting:

Guest CountTotal Wedding Budget
50 guests (small wedding)$32,316
100 guests$54,844
150 guests$76,011
200 guests$94,911
250 guests$113,810
300 guests (large wedding)$132,709

Your other major expenses will include catering at $13,367 (18%), bar services running $10,694 (14%), florals at $8,177 (11%), planners costing $6,044 (8%), photography at $5,119 (7%), videography at $4,622 (6%), entertainment at $2,298 (3%), cake and desserts at $1,067 (1%), and hair and makeup averaging $550 (1%).

How Do NYC Wedding Venues Compare to Upstate Locations?

NYC venues offer you urban sophistication with distinctive skyline views. At Tribeca Rooftop + 360° you'll enjoy floor-to-ceiling windows showcasing Manhattan panoramas while The Plaza presents opulent ballrooms featuring chandeliers ornate molding and gold accents. The 620 Loft & Garden gives you a stunning rooftop terrace overlooking St. Patrick's Cathedral and Fifth Avenue. Upstate venues surround you with natural beauty and historic architecture. City Winery Hudson Valley welcomes you to a renovated factory featuring vaulted ceilings stone walls and vineyard views. You can host up to 350 guests here and customize your outdoor ceremony areas to create exactly the atmosphere you're dreaming of.

Which New York Venues Offer Outstanding Culinary Experiences?

You can treat your guests to Two Michelin star cuisine at Manhatta perched 60 floors high in the Financial District where Executive Chef Justin Bogle creates memorable dishes like hamachi and black truffle dumplings. The River Cafe in Brooklyn serves Michelin-starred cuisine featuring Hudson Valley foie gras and Nantucket Bay scallops with Brooklyn Bridge views right outside your window. For a farm-to-table experience Blue Hill at Stone Barns in Westchester County offers cuisine sourced directly from their on-site farm with their HayLoft space accommodating anywhere from 40 to 260 guests.

Where Can You Find Accessible Wedding Venues in New York?

For couples prioritizing accessibility 620 Loft & Garden offers customizable settings that can work with various needs though you'll want to confirm specific features during your planning. Prospect Park Boathouse and Central Park Conservatory Garden provide accessible options with proper pathways for all your guests. Always ask about specific accommodations like wheelchair ramps elevators and accessible restrooms when you're researching potential venues to ensure everyone can fully participate in your celebration.

How Can Guests Participate Remotely at New York Weddings?

Historic Manhattan venues can make remote guests feel included by incorporating virtual tours during ceremony breaks while Midtown Loft & Terrace supports interactive platforms that go beyond simple passive streaming. You might consider venues in Chelsea or SoHo that can enhance those famous skyline views with live streaming that includes interactive elements like virtual photobooths live chats or virtual toasts. These features help create genuine engagement for participants joining your special day from afar.

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