Wedding invitations

When you want your invitations to feel truly personal, why go with anything less than a mark that’s about you both, brought together? A monogram wedding invitation creates a single, beautiful mark—a clear symbol that says, “This is us, together,” and sets the tone for your special event from the very first card your guests see. Often, invitations like these give everyone a sense of your wedding’s style and can help define the whole look for your day. While the standard invitation can do the job, a monogram stands out, showing the first letter (or both) of your names in a way that feels thoughtful, sometimes even timeless. Our primary example—the “Eleanora” style—remains the most popular, using two initials and soft lines.

If you’re aiming for a look that impresses, focus on balancing your personal style with a bit of classic taste. Some couples go with the “interlocking letters” approach, which joins both initials and adds a traditional quality, while others select a “framed” monogram—sometimes using a simple frame (favored by around 13%) or a wreath-inspired border (chosen by 4%). There’s also the modern style, which features clear, minimal letters, or you could pick an illustrated look to highlight your lives or interests. Top sellers? The “Goundry” style offers elegant letters, while “Malta” uses subtle touches for an inviting effect.

When you consider the options, the most important factor is type choice. Script fonts (as in the “Hattaway” design) suggest romance and tradition, while a modern, sans-serif style (“Creston” is a good example) says, “We’re contemporary,” without any added detail. Also, check your material—the kind of paper can go from normal cardstock to heavier, textured options if you want more luxury.

Portrait or landscape layout? If you’re trying to decide, portrait remains the first choice for most couples—nearly two-thirds (64%) go with it. Landscape is much less common, chosen by just 10%. As for photos, almost everyone (92%) skips them, letting the monogram stand alone as the focus. A few (about 8%) do add a single photo, but more than that is extremely rare.

A custom monogram gives a single, consistent thread across your entire wedding paper set. You’ll usually see the same initials appear on your save-the-dates, RSVP cards, menus, and even thank you notes. This lets your guests follow a steady, simple look from start to finish—a clear sense of togetherness.

For your specific need, experts say it’s smart to start early. Order samples eight to ten months before you get married, then confirm and order your full set four to six months before the day, as monograms often take a little longer—especially when you want custom work. You’ll send out invitations six to eight weeks ahead (add two to four extra weeks if you have guests who will travel far and/or leave the country to reach you).

Modern couples often balance tradition with their own preferences. If you want things equal, use your initials side by side, often joined by an ampersand, to show partnership as is. Some also include a shared last initial in the middle (like a three-letter set), which nods to family custom. Thankfully, the top five designs (“Eleanora,” “Goundry,” “Malta,” “Hattaway,” and “Creston”) offer flexible layouts, allowing you to choose what feels most true to your relationship.

Selecting monogram wedding invitations is your chance to set the mood for the whole occasion, build something with deep personal meaning, and offer your guests a start they simply won’t forget.