The Best Wedding Venues in Port Jefferson, NY

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17 Wedding Venues in Port Jefferson, NY

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Swan Lake Caterers 
Rating: 5.0 (21 reviews)
Manorville, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $15,000

Swan Lake is a new and unique destination in Long Island's East End for hosting your events. We are located on the award winning Swan Lake Golf Course which allows us to offer a unique backdrop on our beautiful greens. Swan Lake Caterers is a banquet hall wedding venue located in Manorville, New York. This event space is nestled within the Swan Lake Golf Course, offering beautiful grounds and picturesque views for your special day. Swan Lake Caterers aims to provide the perfect setting for your dream day, offering quality cuisine, elegant event spaces, and comprehensive rental packages to make your day unforgettable.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Multiple event spaces
  • Has a relaxed and casual vibe
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
Awarded Best of Zola
Highly recommend! From start to finish they made the entire wedding and planning experience incredible.
Erin B., 2 years ago
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Sea Cliff Manor 
Rating: 4.9 (10 reviews)
  • Up to 205 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $155

Sea Cliff Manor is an exquisite setting for both Long Island weddings and wedding receptions, combining elegant indoor and outdoor wedding venues with the spectacular beauty of Long Island Sound in the background. Our indoor wedding reception location is highlighted by a lovely double-faced fireplace, traditional bar area, and magnificent panoramic views, while our spectacular outdoor terrace features an incomparable garden-like setting. Our experienced, on-site wedding catering and event specialists are available to assist with every detail, so you can focus on what's really important. Celebrating this special milestone with family and friends.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Flexible event spaces
  • Handles all cleanup logistics
  • Provides catering services

Venue considerations

  • No on-site guest accommodations
  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
  • No in-house lighting and sound packages available
Awarded Best of Zola
You read many times that the SCM staff is absolutely incredible, and there is nothing more true! Ian is one of the kindest, caring, most thoughtful and passionate individuals I’ve ever met. From our finals meeting, we clicked and he has done absolutely anything he can to be sure we would have a special day. From setting up decor, to the ceremony running exactly on time, to encouraging guests to play our games and sign our guest book…. he does it all. Let me tell you from someone who was constantly on the fence about getting a DOC - you won’t need one with Ian. At least from the second you arrive at Sea Cliff. He wants to work with you to be sure it is a special day for you!! Camille was fabulous, bustling me all night, keeping us fed, reminding us to “mangia” Every server and bartender we came across was super personable and friendly. It was truly the happiest day of our lives!! They are the whole package. Responsive, caring and the kindest most genuine people and is so refreshing after touring so many other LI Venues that do not show the same level of care. You will not regret booking with Sea Cliff!!
Kiana T., 2 years ago
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Essex Club 
Rating: 5.0 (20 reviews)
Brentwood, NY
  • Up to 215 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $85
  • Offer

With resplendent garden views, a picturesque gazebo and a magnificent ballroom, Essex Club sets the scene for an extraordinary wedding or special event. Set amidst 50-acres of rolling greens and perennial gardens, the quaint country club can be customized to the setting of your dreams no matter the occasion. Be it an al fresco cocktail hour, a sophisticated fundraiser or an exchange of vows at the edge of the sprawling lawn, your vision will come to life at Essex Club.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Offers full-service amenities
  • Provides catering services
  • Picturesque garden backdrop

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
Awarded Best of Zola
Truly could not ask for a better wedding! I planned our wedding from across the country (in Cali) and they made it so easy to do. Essex club is in a stunning location, and my guests were raving about the beautiful look of it all. Also the coordinator and attendants were so kind and considerate, they listened to me and also made sure everything ran in a timely way. The food was great, the vibes were phenomenal, and for a 2025 wedding - pretty darn affordable!!!!! I am so beyond thrilled that we booked this spot for our wedding. If we had to do it all over again, Essex Club all the way!!
Liliana N., 10 months ago
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Bourne Mansion 
Rating: 5.0 (5 reviews)
Oakdale, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor

This historic Vanderbilt mansion is a turn-of-the-century work of art that offers a traditional and classic setting for the grandest black tie affairs. From lawn events hosting over 1,000 guests, to weddings and corporate affairs hosting 300 guests, Bourne Mansion personifies luxury and grandeur and the elaborate celebrations of yesteryear. Bourne Mansion is conveniently located, only 90 minutes from New York City, yet worlds away.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Offers full-service amenities
  • Classic elegance
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Best for events with big guest lists
Awarded Best of Zola
We got married 1/5/25 but had been working with Miriam for probably a year and a half before our big day. She was always so personable with us a treated us like family. Words cannot describe the love and care we felt from Jake, our maître D and Samantha, our bridal attendant, on our wedding day. We were cared for tediously and effortlessly. We felt like at ease, happy and totally relaxed. I needed Samantha and didn’t even know it, I am forever indebted to her - she could not have been more attentive and wonderful. Comforting me, assuring me, getting me where I need to be and when. So friendly, kind and amazing. Thank god for Jake. He is so special and we’re so lucky we got him as our maître D. He deems himself as a “yes man” and he is not lying. Anything you could have ever wanted from him, he’d deliver. We wanted for nothing, had wonderful direction from him all night and he took care of EVERYTHING!  The night was flawless, amazing, perfect and all we could have ever hoped for. The staff at Bourne is unmatched, we made the right choice with this venue. Guests will be in awe of the venue and talk about the food for years to come. I wish I could do it all again. Thank you Bourne mansion & staff for the best night of our lives! I don’t have all my pics back yet!
Sara C., 2 years ago
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The Port Jefferson Country Club 
Rating: 5.0 (4 reviews)
Port Jefferson, NY
  • Up to 350 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor

Nestled on the scenic North Shore of Long Island, Port Jefferson Country Club offers an exquisite setting for unforgettable weddings. Overlooking the shimmering Long Island Sound, this premier venue features a meticulously maintained 18-hole championship golf course that provides a stunning backdrop for your special day. The club’s elegant clubhouse boasts refined dining options, a state-of-the-art fitness center, and luxurious locker rooms—ensuring that every moment, from preparation to celebration, is steeped in comfort and sophistication.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Accommodates more than 200 guests
  • Offers convenient lodging options
  • Flexible event spaces

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No on-premises lodging options
  • Additional event staff required
I just got married at this venue on 8/31/25. I was the second wedding after all the renovations made, and I had the absolute pleasure of working with Mirian and Meg. If i can rate them & their staff alone it would be 10 stars. They were so attentive, helpful, professional, and kind. They didn’t only treat me (the bride) or the groom this way, they treated everyone with the utmost respect and amazing service. Sofia was in my care, who was the sweetest person and did everything for me that day. Meg was my maître d and she was so attentive and fun to be around. She pulled strings to make sure i got the most insane pictures and i couldn’t be more grateful that i had someone as great as her attending to me and my new husband! Mirian was the head person in charge before the wedding and she made everything so easy! She dealt with my vendors and made everything possible. she made sure my vision came to life and i really appreciate everything she did for me and my fiance as she made it possible. We met with her two weeks before the wedding, she helped me organize everything and even gave me very cute last minute ideas!! Meg and Mirian were the best two people to deal with i recommend anyone getting married here to push for them for their wedding day too. You know you have amazing staff too when your whole wedding and wedding party know them by name and mention that they loved them. The food was TO DIE FOR!! at one point after pictures, meg and sofia made sure me and my husband sat down for a moment to eat, which was super helpful and thoughtful. The food was amazing, everyone complimented it. Everyone raved about how good the meat carving station, seafood and pasta stations were. Everyone raved about the entrees and dessert as well. I cannot wait to go back and visit this place. It was so special, the vibe, overlooking the water. it made my fairytale wedding come to life. It wasn’t only the venue, it was definitely the people who worked there. Mirian and Meg, thank you so very much for making my wedding so memorable for me, my husband, and our whole family.
Alyssa C., 10 months ago
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The Meadow Club 
Rating: 5.0 (3 reviews)
Port Jefferson Station, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

A Long Island gem, The Meadow Club of Port Jefferson has been serving your catering needs for generations with exceptional food quality and service. With three newly renovated unique ballrooms available, The Meadow Club ensures all of your needs and wishes are carried out with impeccable detail and expertise. Our in-house Event Planning Services will make the process effortless from beginning to end. Partnered with The Curry Club of East Setauket and SaGhar Indian Fusion Restobar in Port Jefferson, we offer a diverse menu including classic Italian, to exotic Indian. We are now offering Kosher Catering within our facility as well. We offer several different cuisines with add-on stations such as Asian, Mediterranean, and Spanish.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Accommodates more than 200 guests
  • All-inclusive venue packages
  • Provides event staff

Venue considerations

  • No on-premises lodging options
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
  • Not wheelchair accessible
The Meadow Club is a gorgeous venue! The staff was amazing! They pulled out all the stops. I would recommend them to anyone! They really do an amazing job!
Kelly K., 5 months ago
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The Old Field Club 
Rating: 5.0 (1 review)
East Setauket, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor & indoor

All year long our beautiful waterfront location provides the perfect setting for some of the most important days of your life. The manicured grounds are ideal for an outdoor ceremony while the spacious deck is perfect for entertaining your guests. Inside, our facility is the epitome of understated elegance and charm. A classic backdrop that you can transform into a place that reflects your personal style and taste! We take great pride in catering one wedding at a time so your special day has our full attention. It starts right in the planning stages where our management team and trained staff makes sure every aspect of your event is to your satisfaction. From decorating options to menus to finding ideal vendors, we’re here every step of the way!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides event staff
  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Full catering menu to choose from

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you don't want a rustic vibe
  • No on-site guest accommodations
  • No free parking
I am so happy that we went with Old Field Club for our wedding. It was the perfect combination of serene outdoor space and a fun entertainment dance spot. Sabine and Russ were quick to respond to my emails whenever I needed help. We arrived and everything was set up perfectly, even better than I had imagined over the past year and a half of planning, it was like a dream come true. Aileen and Michael went above and beyond throughout the day to make sure we had everything we needed or wanted. Anytime a glass was empty, it was instantly refilled. If you didn’t have a smile on your face, Michael was there to see what he could do to change that. Aileen was a dream, anytime she thought I needed something she would be right by my side. The staff there on our wedding day was more than exceptional, they were extraordinary and I am beyond thrilled that we were lucky enough to have them on our side for the happiest day of our life. They truly went out of their way to make sure everything went as smoothly as possible for us, and I couldn’t wish for anything more. The food was exceptional, we had a brunch buffet and people kept coming up to us and saying how good the omelets were or saying they were going up for their second plate! I highly recommend Old Field Club, they will ensure your wedding dreams come true
Emma G., 9 months ago
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Three Village Inn 
Rating: 5.0 (2 reviews)
Stony Brook, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $4,300

Our Master and Signature Suites are the ideal getaway retreat for that perfect occasion. In an effort to ensure that our guests enjoy their stay, we offer luxury accommodations, complimentary high-speed internet access, and courtesy discounts towards the Stony Brook Village Shopping Center.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Full catering menu to choose from
  • Creates a sense of togetherness
  • Exudes old-world charm

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • No in-house lighting and sound packages available
Everything with Three Village Inn from start to finish was nothing but amazing. We worked with Tom and we can’t thank him enough. We did the package the venue offered and all the vendors were so great to work with as well. Communication was never an issue and he was just so great. To be honest, the entire staff was a pleasure to work with. Our maître d’ was Jonathan and he was attentive and a pleasure to work with as well. The food at both cocktail hour and dinner was out of this world. Absolutely delicious. Our guests still talk about it. The venue itself is just beautiful and the grounds are great for pictures as well as the beach across the street. We had our ceremony indoors and they did such a great job. Our wedding was more than what we could’ve dreamed of.
Nicole D., 7 months ago
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Rockefellers Kitchen & Cocktails 
Rating: 5.0 (2 reviews)
Lake Grove, NY
  • Up to 100 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $1,300

Rockefellers Kitchen and cocktails offers our Gatsby room for a private event in our timeless space, known for its Old New York charm, elegant atmosphere, and thoughtfully curated menus. Whether you’re envisioning an intimate gathering or a lively celebration, our experienced events team is here to help bring every detail together seamlessly.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Full catering menu to choose from
  • Provides event staff
  • Offers convenient lodging options

Venue considerations

  • Dance floor not included
  • Does not allow pets
  • Not wheelchair accessible
I just hosted the most amazing private party at Rockefeller’s Kitchen and Cocktails, and I’m still buzzing from it! From start to finish, everything was perfect the venue really knows how to make an event special. The space was absolutely beautiful, with the perfect balance of stylish and cozy. We had the whole area to ourselves, and the ambiance was just right for our group. The private space gave us the freedom to have fun without worrying about the crowd, and the staff was super accommodating.
Aly, 7 months ago
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Windows on the Lake 
Rating: 4.6 (7 reviews)
Lake Ronkonkoma, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $90

Windows on the Lake is the The Most Romantic Waterfront Venue on Long Island. See what couples are raving about with our award winning wedding venue. Some of The Unique Features: • Catering to Only “One Wedding At A Time", so we can focus all our attention on your wedding. • Beautiful Waterfront Setting with spectacular sunsets create memorable weddings. • Majestic Gardens complete with palm trees for a tropical setting, (in -season). • Beautiful waterfront wedding chapel available for your On-Site Ceremony. • Outdoor patio for an on the water cocktail hour with Fabulous Food Stations. • Elegant Ballroom with floor-to-ceiling windows providing panoramic water views. • Our one-of-a-kind lighting and in-house sound system can make your event special. • International Menus and Presentations to impress your guests. • Special Ethnic, Halal and Kosher menus can be accommodated. • Experienced In-House Event Specialist to make your event "Stress Free".

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides a dedicated team on-site
  • Accommodates more than 200 guests
  • Provides lighting and sound

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
Windows on the Lake is a perfect place for any family celebration! The food was delicious, the service was excellent, the view was beautiful, and the decorations were absolutely amazing. Everything looked so elegant and made the event truly special!
Gregory B., a month ago
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Watermill Caterers 
Rating: 4.6 (10 reviews)
Smithtown, NY
  • Up to 500 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor & indoor

One of Long Island's best-kept secrets, our sprawling estate is nestled in the heart of Suffolk County and is surrounded by manicured landscapes, winding pathways and historic architecture. With an atmosphere of rustic elegance and timeless beauty, the Watermill is the perfect marriage of old-world charm and luxurious modern comforts—perfectly providing the finest amenities and endless enchantments at every turn. For more than 25 years, the Watermill has fostered joy and thousands of lasting memories through an unyielding commitment to providing unparalleled service, award-winning cuisine, and an unforgettable experience for each and every guest who walks through our doors.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a chic vibe
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away
  • Full catering menu to choose from

Venue considerations

  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • Does not allow pets
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
Watermill Caterers was an absolute pleasure to work with for our wedding. From the moment we first reached out, their communication was attentive, responsive, and respectful - they made the entire planning process feel easy and smooth. The quality of their work was truly amazing, with a stunning, modern, and updated event space that exceeded all of our expectations. They helped make all of our wedding day dreams come true, handling every detail with care and ensuring the day went off without a hitch. I would book with Watermill Caterers again in a heartbeat.
Amanda K., 2 years ago
Hilton Garden Inn Stony Brook 
Stony Brook, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $10,000

Located on the Stony Brook University campus, just steps from the medical center, our hotel is a perfect home base for your wedding weekend. Guests will love our convenient location with a free shuttle to the historic village, local attractions, and the train station. Start the day with breakfast at Northern Coast Kitchen & Cocktails, then unwind with dinner and drinks after the celebration. With an indoor pool, 24-hour fitness center, and comfortable modern amenities, our hotel offers everything your wedding guests need for a relaxing and enjoyable stay.

Why you'll love this venue

  • All-inclusive venue packages
  • Bridal suite on site
  • Offers convenient lodging options

Venue considerations

  • Lighting and sound are not included
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • Does not provide event staff
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Beach Club Estate 
Lake Ronkonkoma, NY
  • Up to 150 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

We offer a private, secluded, hideaway tucked away on the Secluded 3 mile round Glazier Lake of Long Island’s largest freshwater lake, the Beautiful Lake Ronkonkoma. Coupled with our breathtaking views, you become enveloped in the calm and serene beauty of the countryside Look. Our 5 star Chefs Superb Cuisine and exceptional service combine to offer you memories of a lifetime. Featuring a on the lake chapel, romantic sunsets, amazing water views, beautiful natural gardens, and waterfalls & antique fountains — there are plenty of splendid photo opportunities for you. This is a Newly Renovated Beautiful Mansion on the Water is a One of Kind Place on Long Island with its has Caribbean vibe surrounded with palm trees and breathtaking views for memorable pictures.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Both indoor and outdoor options
  • All-inclusive venue packages
  • Has a luxe vibe

Venue considerations

  • Limited cleanup and setup services
  • Lighting and sound are not included
  • No free parking
Courtyard by Marriott Long Island MacArthur Airport 
Ronkonkoma, NY
  • Up to 150 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor

Celebrate your special day in style at our Long Island hotel wedding venue. With flexible spaces and expert assistance from our dedicated team, your dream wedding is within reach. Treat your guests to spacious accommodations and the convenience of our hotel's prime location. Choose from our elegant boardroom venue, boasting natural lighting, a beautiful oak table, and ergonomic chairs for maximum comfort. Let us take care of every detail, ensuring a seamless and unforgettable experience for you and your loved ones. Say "I do" to the perfect wedding at our Long Island hotel.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Handles all cleanup logistics
  • Provides event staff
  • Versatile for various event styles

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Does not allow pets
  • No free parking

About wedding venues in Port Jefferson, NY

Why is New York the Perfect Wedding Destination?

New York gives you incredible variety for your special day, from Manhattan's iconic skyline to the charming countryside of Upstate. You can enjoy timeless elegance at The Plaza Hotel with its grand ballrooms overlooking Central Park, or take in breathtaking panoramic views of Manhattan at Tribeca Rooftop. Brooklyn offers photography-friendly industrial-chic spaces like The Foundry with its character-filled exposed brick and factory windows. Head Upstate and you'll find City Winery Hudson Valley where your celebration unfolds against the backdrop of a working vineyard with mountain views that change beautifully with each season. April sees the most wedding inquiries in New York, showing just how many couples are drawn to the region during spring's beautiful blooming season.

What's the Reality of Wedding Costs in New York?

Expect to pay more for your New York wedding than the national average of $6,500-$12,000 for venues alone. New York venues typically cost around $16,709 which makes up about 22% of your total wedding budget. Your overall costs will vary based on how many guests you're hosting:

Guest CountTotal Wedding Budget
50 guests (small wedding)$32,316
100 guests$54,844
150 guests$76,011
200 guests$94,911
250 guests$113,810
300 guests (large wedding)$132,709

Your other major expenses will include catering at $13,367 (18%), bar services running $10,694 (14%), florals at $8,177 (11%), planners costing $6,044 (8%), photography at $5,119 (7%), videography at $4,622 (6%), entertainment at $2,298 (3%), cake and desserts at $1,067 (1%), and hair and makeup averaging $550 (1%).

How Do NYC Wedding Venues Compare to Upstate Locations?

NYC venues offer you urban sophistication with distinctive skyline views. At Tribeca Rooftop + 360° you'll enjoy floor-to-ceiling windows showcasing Manhattan panoramas while The Plaza presents opulent ballrooms featuring chandeliers ornate molding and gold accents. The 620 Loft & Garden gives you a stunning rooftop terrace overlooking St. Patrick's Cathedral and Fifth Avenue. Upstate venues surround you with natural beauty and historic architecture. City Winery Hudson Valley welcomes you to a renovated factory featuring vaulted ceilings stone walls and vineyard views. You can host up to 350 guests here and customize your outdoor ceremony areas to create exactly the atmosphere you're dreaming of.

Which New York Venues Offer Outstanding Culinary Experiences?

You can treat your guests to Two Michelin star cuisine at Manhatta perched 60 floors high in the Financial District where Executive Chef Justin Bogle creates memorable dishes like hamachi and black truffle dumplings. The River Cafe in Brooklyn serves Michelin-starred cuisine featuring Hudson Valley foie gras and Nantucket Bay scallops with Brooklyn Bridge views right outside your window. For a farm-to-table experience Blue Hill at Stone Barns in Westchester County offers cuisine sourced directly from their on-site farm with their HayLoft space accommodating anywhere from 40 to 260 guests.

Where Can You Find Accessible Wedding Venues in New York?

For couples prioritizing accessibility 620 Loft & Garden offers customizable settings that can work with various needs though you'll want to confirm specific features during your planning. Prospect Park Boathouse and Central Park Conservatory Garden provide accessible options with proper pathways for all your guests. Always ask about specific accommodations like wheelchair ramps elevators and accessible restrooms when you're researching potential venues to ensure everyone can fully participate in your celebration.

How Can Guests Participate Remotely at New York Weddings?

Historic Manhattan venues can make remote guests feel included by incorporating virtual tours during ceremony breaks while Midtown Loft & Terrace supports interactive platforms that go beyond simple passive streaming. You might consider venues in Chelsea or SoHo that can enhance those famous skyline views with live streaming that includes interactive elements like virtual photobooths live chats or virtual toasts. These features help create genuine engagement for participants joining your special day from afar.

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