The Best Barn & Farm Wedding Venues in Upton, NY

The Best Barn & Farm Wedding Venues in Upton, NY

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9 Wedding Venues in Upton, NY

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The Barn at Old Bethpage Village Restoration 

5.0

Old Bethpage, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

Lessing’s newest event venue, The Barn at Old Bethpage Village Restoration, offers the unique combination of a rustic yet elegant barn setting with the personalized attention to detail and service that Lessing’s is known for. With over 8,000 square feet of indoor and outdoor event space, The Barn is fitting for a guest list of up to 300 for weddings, galas and more. The exposed wooden beams stretched across high ceilings, sprawling country fields and authentic farmhouse scenery are sure to delight your guests and have them talking for years to come.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Space for a large guest list
  • Rustic-chic setting
  • Has a dance floor for celebration

Venue considerations

  • No in-house lighting and sound packages available
  • Does not allow pets
  • No on-site bridal suite
The Barn at Old Bethpage Village Restoration was the perfect choice for our wedding venue. From the moment we first reached out, the team was incredibly personable, professional, and knowledgeable. They guided us through every step of the planning process, ensuring our vision for a rustic, elegant, and unique celebration came to life. On the day of, their outstanding team truly proved themselves masters at their craft - the venue was stunning, the food was mouth-watering, and they made us and all our guests feel incredibly special. They went above and beyond to ensure our wedding day was perfect in every way. We couldn't recommend The Barn at Old Bethpage Village Restoration more highly. Thank you from the bottom of our hearts to Emily, Carl, Natalie, and Helen - you truly blew us away! Ruth & Danny Martella
Ruth C., 6 months ago
Connecticut's Beardsley Zoo 

5.0

Bridgeport, CT
  • Up to 150 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $1,000

Choosing the right location for your wedding is one of the most important and often the most challenging decisions to make. Let your imagination run wild at Connecticut’s Beardsley Zoo! Celebrate your special event in one of three unique spaces, including our Victorian Greenhouse, rustic Hanson Building or large Carousel Building with an indoor working carousel. Whether it’s your ceremony, reception, or rehearsal dinner, we are sure to have a venue to meet your wedding vision!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Rustic-chic setting
  • Has a relaxed and casual vibe
  • Wheelchair accessible

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • Not for you if you don't want a rustic vibe
  • Does not have a dance floor
We had a beautiful wedding at the greenhouse of the Beardsley Zoo. The GlowWild light festival in the evening simply added to the magic of the event. The coordinators were wonderful in helping us set up and organize everything. If I had one piece of constructive feedback, it would just be that the head coordinator, Lindsay, was sometimes tricky to get in contact with via telephone for things like making our deposit and final payment for the venue.
Amanda L., 2 years ago
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The Woodwinds at Kalmia Garden 

5.0

Branford, CT
  • Up to 150 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor
  • Starts at $9,000

Woodwinds at Gastler Farm is a stunning wedding venue in Durham, CT. Woodwinds Catering of Branford, Connecticut, brings over 50 years of experience to the wedding and catering industry to the beautiful Gardens and Farm Scenery of Kalmia Garden at Gastler Farm in Durham, CT. These two family-run businesses make All Inclusive Farm Wedding dreams a reality!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Handles all cleanup logistics
  • Venue is completely outdoors
  • Exudes style

Venue considerations

  • Dance floor not included
  • No free parking
  • No built-in audiovisual options
The grounds are extremely well kept and every aspect is well thought out. The Woodwinds took care of every detail so we had nothing to worry about! We just showed up and enjoyed and got to hear about everyone rave about the food and the bar while sitting around the firepit. Our wedding was an unforgettable night all thanks to the crew at Gastler Farm and The Woodwinds!!!
Jenn T., a year ago
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Bill Miller's Castle 

5.0

Branford, CT
  • Up to 250 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $10,925

A magnificent, breathtaking landmark, Bill Miller’s Castle has served as an elegant venue for weddings, corporate events, and special occasions. Meticulous attention to detail, natural stonework, exposed reclaimed beams, an antique bronze bell weighing more than one ton, and rare antique furniture create a beautiful backdrop for any event or special occasion. Featuring five working field-stone fireplaces, three-story cathedral ceilings, ornate stained glass windows, crystal chandeliers, and a large dance floor; the grandeur of Bill Miller’s Castle will make your guests feel truly extraordinary from the moment they walk through the door.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Multiple event spaces
  • Bridal suite on site
  • Historic touches

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No on-site guest accommodations
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
Awarded Best of Zola
Lisa, Victoria, and the team at Bill Miller's Castle are truly the best. From the moment you step into the Castle to start your tour, you're surrounded by history - not only of the surrounding cities, but for the Miller family as well. The care and love that they have for this space is clearly evident and the character brings such charm and warmth. It truly was the perfect place for us. Lisa was our guiding light throughout the whole process. We felt welcomed when we were with her and she took such great care of us and the details of our day, which allowed everything to turn out exactly as we had imagined. Her knowledge of local vendors as well was truly so helpful for us as we planned our wedding from out of town. There truly is no better place to plan an event than at Bill Miller's if you're in Branford or the surrounding areas. [photos by Rob Skinner Photography]
Elizabeth P., 7 months ago
Millpond Gatherings 

5.0

Northford, CT
  • Up to 175 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor

From the moment you and your guests step foot onto Millpond Gatherings property, you will be awed by all you see. With gorgeous spaces to enjoy, your wedding will flow seamlessly throughout the venue. The main venue area is an idyllic setting for your nuptials. Its open layout allows for maximum customization and self-expression. The wooden beams and glossy flooring serve as the perfect backdrop, while the chandeliers warm the space with golden light. When you book Millpond Gathering, you will be delighted with the privacy and exclusivity you experience on the day, as they only host one wedding at a time. The onsite team will be on hand throughout your event to ensure that everything runs as smoothly as possible. Using only the freshest ingredients, your guests will enjoy a feast like no other, even using meat from their personal cattle farm up the road.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Unique barn setting
  • Provides event staff
  • Creates a sense of togetherness

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Not for you if you're looking for a sleek and contemporary space
Millpond Gatherings was an absolute delight to work with for our rehearsal dinner! From the very first interaction, their communication was great - clear, responsive, and friendly. The staff was so welcoming and attentive, making sure every detail was taken care of seamlessly. The venue itself is just beautiful, with a cozy and quaint vibe that perfectly fit the intimate feel we were going for. The food was absolutely fantastic, and we loved the custom cocktails and passed appetizers they provided. Millpond Gatherings truly contributed to making our wedding weekend so special. We are so grateful for their wonderful service and highly recommend them to any couple looking for a beautiful, memorable night before.
Caitlin Z., 4 months ago
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The Barns at Wesleyan Hills 

5.0

Middletown, CT
  • Up to 225 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $25,000

The Barns At Wesleyan Hills is a historic wedding venue located in Middletown, CT. With glorious topiary and glistening ponds on the grounds, this one of kind barn offers beauty both inside and outside its walls. This venue accommodates one wedding per day, allowing couples to enjoy this spectacular location and the surrounding grounds at ease. Our award winning team of professional wedding planners, chefs, wedding coordinators and mixologists are here to help make planning and celebrating your wedding a breeze! Your guests will be in awe of the timeless one of kind beauty paired with award winning farm to table cuisine and the best hospitality in CT. We are ready to help tell your story and ensure you have the best wedding ever - we are just a call, text or email away!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a fun and festive vibe
  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Unique barn setting

Venue considerations

  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • Not for you if you're looking for a sleek and contemporary space
  • No on-premises lodging options
Awarded Best of Zola
The staff at the Barns were amazing. They helped with every step of the way. The food was delicious, the drinks were phenomenal. The venue is so beautiful. I’ve wanted to get married here for as long as I’ve known about them and my dreams came true. It was the most special day. You will not regret booking with them!
Emma A., 9 months ago
Greer Southern Table 
Norwalk, CT
  • Up to 80 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $2,500

We call ourselves a southern table; a place to enjoy casual yet refined low & high country cuisine- where you're treated like family and can seek respite from the world in a relaxed, fun, and comfortable atmosphere. "The Table" is where so much occurs, from celebrations to business deals. We eat, drink, and break bread at the table. We share stories of laughter and tears. We toast to yesterday, today, and to the future - all at the table. A place where we come together after a long day or week and spend time with each other to connect.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a luxe vibe
  • Full catering menu to choose from
  • Rustic-chic setting

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you're looking for a sleek and contemporary space
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Does not allow pets
One Woman Wines & Vineyards 
Southold, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $10,000

Our vineyard and winery are located in Southold, NY. Previously a potato and melon farm, Claudia fell in love with the property across from her home and when it came up for sale in 2001 she did not want to see the farm developed. After closing her restaurant in western Nassau county she went forward with purchasing the property and selling the development rights to preserve it's beauty. Since then she's slowly hand planted and renovated the potato barns that existed on the property into her winery.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Unique barn setting
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away
  • Pets can join the celebration

Venue considerations

  • No dedicated areas for getting ready
  • Not for you if you're looking for a sleek and contemporary space
  • No on-site guest accommodations

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About wedding venues in Upton, NY

Why is New York the Perfect Wedding Destination?

New York gives you incredible variety for your special day, from Manhattan's iconic skyline to the charming countryside of Upstate. You can enjoy timeless elegance at The Plaza Hotel with its grand ballrooms overlooking Central Park, or take in breathtaking panoramic views of Manhattan at Tribeca Rooftop. Brooklyn offers photography-friendly industrial-chic spaces like The Foundry with its character-filled exposed brick and factory windows. Head Upstate and you'll find City Winery Hudson Valley where your celebration unfolds against the backdrop of a working vineyard with mountain views that change beautifully with each season. April sees the most wedding inquiries in New York, showing just how many couples are drawn to the region during spring's beautiful blooming season.

What's the Reality of Wedding Costs in New York?

Expect to pay more for your New York wedding than the national average of $6,500-$12,000 for venues alone. New York venues typically cost around $16,709 which makes up about 22% of your total wedding budget. Your overall costs will vary based on how many guests you're hosting:

Guest CountTotal Wedding Budget
50 guests (small wedding)$32,316
100 guests$54,844
150 guests$76,011
200 guests$94,911
250 guests$113,810
300 guests (large wedding)$132,709

Your other major expenses will include catering at $13,367 (18%), bar services running $10,694 (14%), florals at $8,177 (11%), planners costing $6,044 (8%), photography at $5,119 (7%), videography at $4,622 (6%), entertainment at $2,298 (3%), cake and desserts at $1,067 (1%), and hair and makeup averaging $550 (1%).

How Do NYC Wedding Venues Compare to Upstate Locations?

NYC venues offer you urban sophistication with distinctive skyline views. At Tribeca Rooftop + 360° you'll enjoy floor-to-ceiling windows showcasing Manhattan panoramas while The Plaza presents opulent ballrooms featuring chandeliers ornate molding and gold accents. The 620 Loft & Garden gives you a stunning rooftop terrace overlooking St. Patrick's Cathedral and Fifth Avenue.

Upstate venues surround you with natural beauty and historic architecture. City Winery Hudson Valley welcomes you to a renovated factory featuring vaulted ceilings stone walls and vineyard views. You can host up to 350 guests here and customize your outdoor ceremony areas to create exactly the atmosphere you're dreaming of.

Which New York Venues Offer Outstanding Culinary Experiences?

You can treat your guests to Two Michelin star cuisine at Manhatta perched 60 floors high in the Financial District where Executive Chef Justin Bogle creates memorable dishes like hamachi and black truffle dumplings. The River Cafe in Brooklyn serves Michelin-starred cuisine featuring Hudson Valley foie gras and Nantucket Bay scallops with Brooklyn Bridge views right outside your window. For a farm-to-table experience Blue Hill at Stone Barns in Westchester County offers cuisine sourced directly from their on-site farm with their HayLoft space accommodating anywhere from 40 to 260 guests.

Where Can You Find Accessible Wedding Venues in New York?

For couples prioritizing accessibility 620 Loft & Garden offers customizable settings that can work with various needs though you'll want to confirm specific features during your planning. Prospect Park Boathouse and Central Park Conservatory Garden provide accessible options with proper pathways for all your guests. Always ask about specific accommodations like wheelchair ramps elevators and accessible restrooms when you're researching potential venues to ensure everyone can fully participate in your celebration.

How Can Guests Participate Remotely at New York Weddings?

Historic Manhattan venues can make remote guests feel included by incorporating virtual tours during ceremony breaks while Midtown Loft & Terrace supports interactive platforms that go beyond simple passive streaming. You might consider venues in Chelsea or SoHo that can enhance those famous skyline views with live streaming that includes interactive elements like virtual photobooths live chats or virtual toasts. These features help create genuine engagement for participants joining your special day from afar.

Why is New York the Perfect Wedding Destination?

New York gives you incredible variety for your special day, from Manhattan's iconic skyline to the charming countryside of Upstate. You can enjoy timeless elegance at The Plaza Hotel with its grand ballrooms overlooking Central Park, or take in breathtaking panoramic views of Manhattan at Tribeca Rooftop. Brooklyn offers photography-friendly industrial-chic spaces like The Foundry with its character-filled exposed brick and factory windows. Head Upstate and you'll find City Winery Hudson Valley where your celebration unfolds against the backdrop of a working vineyard with mountain views that change beautifully with each season. April sees the most wedding inquiries in New York, showing just how many couples are drawn to the region during spring's beautiful blooming season.

What's the Reality of Wedding Costs in New York?

Expect to pay more for your New York wedding than the national average of $6,500-$12,000 for venues alone. New York venues typically cost around $16,709 which makes up about 22% of your total wedding budget. Your overall costs will vary based on how many guests you're hosting:

Guest CountTotal Wedding Budget
50 guests (small wedding)$32,316
100 guests$54,844
150 guests$76,011
200 guests$94,911
250 guests$113,810
300 guests (large wedding)$132,709

Your other major expenses will include catering at $13,367 (18%), bar services running $10,694 (14%), florals at $8,177 (11%), planners costing $6,044 (8%), photography at $5,119 (7%), videography at $4,622 (6%), entertainment at $2,298 (3%), cake and desserts at $1,067 (1%), and hair and makeup averaging $550 (1%).

How Do NYC Wedding Venues Compare to Upstate Locations?

NYC venues offer you urban sophistication with distinctive skyline views. At Tribeca Rooftop + 360° you'll enjoy floor-to-ceiling windows showcasing Manhattan panoramas while The Plaza presents opulent ballrooms featuring chandeliers ornate molding and gold accents. The 620 Loft & Garden gives you a stunning rooftop terrace overlooking St. Patrick's Cathedral and Fifth Avenue.

Upstate venues surround you with natural beauty and historic architecture. City Winery Hudson Valley welcomes you to a renovated factory featuring vaulted ceilings stone walls and vineyard views. You can host up to 350 guests here and customize your outdoor ceremony areas to create exactly the atmosphere you're dreaming of.

Which New York Venues Offer Outstanding Culinary Experiences?

You can treat your guests to Two Michelin star cuisine at Manhatta perched 60 floors high in the Financial District where Executive Chef Justin Bogle creates memorable dishes like hamachi and black truffle dumplings. The River Cafe in Brooklyn serves Michelin-starred cuisine featuring Hudson Valley foie gras and Nantucket Bay scallops with Brooklyn Bridge views right outside your window. For a farm-to-table experience Blue Hill at Stone Barns in Westchester County offers cuisine sourced directly from their on-site farm with their HayLoft space accommodating anywhere from 40 to 260 guests.

Where Can You Find Accessible Wedding Venues in New York?

For couples prioritizing accessibility 620 Loft & Garden offers customizable settings that can work with various needs though you'll want to confirm specific features during your planning. Prospect Park Boathouse and Central Park Conservatory Garden provide accessible options with proper pathways for all your guests. Always ask about specific accommodations like wheelchair ramps elevators and accessible restrooms when you're researching potential venues to ensure everyone can fully participate in your celebration.

How Can Guests Participate Remotely at New York Weddings?

Historic Manhattan venues can make remote guests feel included by incorporating virtual tours during ceremony breaks while Midtown Loft & Terrace supports interactive platforms that go beyond simple passive streaming. You might consider venues in Chelsea or SoHo that can enhance those famous skyline views with live streaming that includes interactive elements like virtual photobooths live chats or virtual toasts. These features help create genuine engagement for participants joining your special day from afar.

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