The Best Retreat Wedding Venues in Rochester, NY

The Best Retreat Wedding Venues in Rochester, NY

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1 Wedding Venues in Rochester, NY

Lodges, retreats
100-150 guests
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Inns of Aurora Resort & Spa 

5.0

  • Up to 200 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Offer

Imagine a collection of historic inns, restored to luxury, with beautiful balconies and porches overlooking pristine Cayuga Lake. Picture sweeping lawns that roll down to the water’s edge, where the sun sets each night in a riot of golden hues. Add exquisite artwork, from-scratch meals, and all of the on-site assistance you never knew you needed. Visit and see why we’ve been hailed by BRIDES as the “perfect place for a weekend wedding” and by Country Living as “America’s best-kept secret.”

Why you'll love this venue

  • Both indoor and outdoor options
  • Picturesque garden backdrop
  • Has onsite accommodations

Venue considerations

  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Does not allow pets
Awarded Best of Zola
My husband and I got married at Inns of Aurora in August, and we can't express enough how wonderful our experience was from start to finish. The property is stunning— unique and charming, with impeccable attention to detail. The grounds are beautifully maintained, and the maintenance staff is a well-oiled machine. But most importantly, the staff at this property are incredible, and they made the planning and day-of experience so enjoyable. The events team is accommodating, organized, and very buttoned-up. During the months leading up to our wedding, we felt 100% supported by Lindsey and the in-house team. For a property that hosts weddings on most weekends, the team always made us feel like we were their only client. The recommended vendors were fantastic, and the vendors we sourced on our own were welcomed and directed flawlessly. The food was great and the venue worked with us to curate the perfect menu for our guests. On our wedding weekend, Kim served as our day-of coordinator, exceeding our expectations with her efficiency and helpfulness. Beyond her professionalism (she’s amazing at her job) she was a joy to be around, which makes a big difference on such a special day! The other on-site staff at the property were also incredibly welcoming and helpful to us and our guests. Overall, we cannot say more good things about Inns of Aurora. The venue was the most important choice we made while planning our wedding, and we definitely chose right.
Katie R., 8 months ago

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About wedding venues in Rochester, NY

Rochester, NY offers distinctive wedding venues from repurposed historic buildings to waterfront settings along the Genesee River. The city's architectural diversity gives you authentic character and unique photo opportunities for your special day.

What Makes Rochester Wedding Venues Special?

Rochester's wedding scene features industrial-chic spaces like Arbor Loft with its Edison light wall and exposed brick alongside waterfront venues such as Arbor at the Port offering 360-degree views of Lake Ontario. You'll find the Jackrabbit Club has a casual vibe with flexible decoration policies that let you customize your vision. ARTISANworks surrounds your celebration with museum-quality art pieces so your wedding photos come with built-in conversation starters.

How Much Does a Rochester Wedding Typically Cost?

A Rochester wedding ranges from $32,003 for 50 guests to $131,431 for 300 guests. Venue prices typically run $14,900 to $18,200 representing about 22% of your total budget. This exceeds the national benchmark of $6,500-$12,000 so budget accordingly.

For different guest counts expect these total wedding costs:

  • 50 guests: $32,003
  • 100 guests: $54,314
  • 150 guests: $75,278
  • 200 guests: $93,995
  • 250 guests: $112,713
  • 300 guests: $131,431

Which Rochester Venues Offer Accessibility for All Guests?

The Greenhouse at the Port of Rochester provides full accessibility with ramps and elevators accommodating 128-175 guests with stunning 360-degree views of the Genesee River and Lake Ontario. Hyatt Regency Rochester offers fully accessible facilities for up to 1,000 guests if you're planning a larger celebration. The Strathallan Hotel & Spa provides accessible rooms and public spaces for ceremonies up to 150 guests and receptions up to 200 so everyone on your guest list can participate comfortably.

Can Remote Guests Participate in Rochester Weddings?

Several Rochester venues can accommodate enhanced remote participation beyond basic streaming. The Rochester Wedding Barn & Event Venue gives you multi-level balconies and open layouts ideal for virtual elements so distant relatives can feel included. The Lodge at Shadow Hill provides high-end AV setups that support interactive remote guest experiences. The Wintergarden's stunning glass atrium creates a beautiful backdrop for live streaming with space for interactive displays letting far-away friends join your celebration meaningfully.

Where Are Rochester's Top Culinary Wedding Venues?

The Lake House on Canandaigua features a best-in-class culinary team focusing on seasonal ingredients and contemporary American cuisine that will impress your foodie guests. The Wintergarden by Monroe's offers high-end dining with city views in its glass-enclosed venue creating a magical dinner experience. Pane Vino on the Avenue is known for custom menus and fine dining with two event spaces suitable for both intimate and larger weddings of up to 200 guests letting you tailor your menu to your exact taste.

What Are Key Budget Considerations for Rochester Venues?

Wedding ServiceAverage CostPercentage of Budget (150 guests)
Venue$16,54622%
Catering$13,23618%
Bar Services$10,58914%
Florists$8,09711%
Planners$5,9858%
Photographers$5,0697%
Videographers$4,5766%
Bands and DJs$2,2753%
Cakes and desserts$1,0561%
Hair & Makeup$5451%

When Should You Book Your Rochester Wedding Venue?

October leads as the most popular wedding inquiry month requiring bookings 12-18 months in advance for prime dates. Book early to secure your dream venue. Winter venues like The Strathallan Hotel & Spa feature heated indoor-outdoor transitions keeping your guests comfortable year-round. Spring ceremonies at The Greenhouse at the Port of Rochester offer allergy-friendly indoor options with river views giving you picture-perfect backdrops without weather worries.

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