The Best Retreat Wedding Venues in Arapahoe, NC

The Best Retreat Wedding Venues in Arapahoe, NC

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2 Wedding Venues in Arapahoe, NC

Lodges, retreats
100-150 guests
GemHidden gem
The Berkley Manor 

5.0

Ocracoke, NC
  • Up to 200 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor
  • Starts at $1,850

The historic Berkley Manor, a beautiful, rustic 1950’s era hunting lodge, is one of the crown jewels of Ocracoke, NC. It features a feel and style reminiscent of days gone by, while still providing all the comforts of modern living. Located on two-and-a-half acres across from Silver Lake, this charming estate offers privacy and seclusion from Ocracoke village but is situated within easy access to shops and restaurants. There is no better place to enjoy the island with your family or large group than the Berkley Manor. The home boasts over 7500 square feet of hand crafted wood interior space. Included with your accommodations rental are 5 luxurious bedrooms, 5.5 bathrooms, a dining room with seating for 40, 4 fireplaces, a small kitchenette for guests to use with optional private chef available for catered meals, and 2 large lounge rooms. The layout works well for large groups and has been popular among wedding parties, retreats and family vacation rentals.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides setup and cleanup
  • Provides a dedicated team on-site
  • Historic touches

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you prefer a more modern aesthetic
  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • Does not have a dance floor
The Berkley Manor is a beautiful location in the heart of Ocracoke! They offer everything you'd need for the perfect wedding on the island! Phoebe was so helpful and responsive and would often check-in and ask how planning was going! She helped with other vendors and provided a helpful list of vendors that service Ocracoke. The venue itself was stunning! The manor is beautiful and I am so glad we decided to stay there. It was stunning and so well decorated inside and all the flowers blooming were absolutely beautiful! We had our reception in the barn and it was perfect! It was huge and spacious. You can't beat the location either - The Berkley Manor is walking distance to Ocracoke Coffee, most bars, restaurants and hotels (for the guests!) You can even see the harbor - it was stunning! Our friends and family fell in love with the island! The Berkley Manor (and Phoebe) helped make our wedding absolutely perfect and I cannot recommend them enough!
Melissa D., 2 years ago
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Whitehurst Lake House 
Washington, NC
  • Up to 150 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor

The Whitehurst family desired a sacred space to host family affairs. This cornerstone planted our roots. Those same roots still hold their meaning… A family-established business, carrying a legacy under new ownership, from one Whitehurst sister to another. Logan, the youngest sister and new owner, is so proud to announce that Whitehurst Lake House is officially accepting bookings for 2024-2026. Logan cannot wait to take part in making your visions and special events come together!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Has an energetic and exciting atmosphere
  • Feels like a getaway

Venue considerations

  • Additional event staff required
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Requires outside catering services

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About wedding venues in Arapahoe, NC

North Carolina offers an impressive wedding venue landscape with everything from historic plantations to rustic barns, elegant urban spaces and coastal retreats. You'll find architectural diversity throughout the state; from colonial-era mansions in Charlotte to converted textile mills in the Triangle region. Mountain venues give you breathtaking panoramic views of the Blue Ridge Mountains that your guests won't forget.

What's the Average Cost for North Carolina Wedding Venues?

Wedding venues in North Carolina typically run between $6,400 and $7,800, making up about 16% of your total wedding budget. That's actually quite reasonable compared to the national average of $6,500-$12,000 or 25% of total costs. For a complete North Carolina wedding you can expect these total costs based on your guest count: A small wedding with 50 guests averages $19,707. With 100 guests you're looking at $32,695. For 150 guests the typical cost reaches $44,906. Larger celebrations with 200 guests average $55,823 while 250 guests pushes to $66,740. A large wedding with 300 guests typically costs $77,657.

Where Can You Find Accessible Wedding Venues in North Carolina?

Alexander Homestead in Charlotte offers ADA-accessible parking and restrooms in a beautiful historic setting with a rustic barn and gorgeous gardens. You'll appreciate the inclusivity without sacrificing style. The Mint Museum features various rooms and terraces that can accommodate different needs, making it a solid choice for accessible events with an artistic backdrop. Nantahala Weddings & Events is fully ADA-compliant while giving you stunning mountain views on a secluded estate. They even have nearby lodging options for your guests.

Which North Carolina Venues Support Remote Participation?

The Barn on New River in West Jefferson gives you a picturesque setting with modern amenities that can be customized for interactive remote elements. Your virtual guests won't miss a thing. River Landing near Wilmington features elegant spaces and grand ballrooms that support technical capabilities for streaming and live Q&A sessions. The Maxwell in Raleigh, with its contemporary design and abundant natural light, adapts beautifully to technology integration for virtual wedding experiences that feel intimate even from afar.

How Much Should I Budget for Wedding Services in North Carolina?

ServiceAverage CostPercentage of Total Budget (150 guests)
Venue$7,08916%
Catering$5,67113%
Flowers$5,54612%
Bar Services$4,53710%
Photographers$4,2669%
Planners$4,0249%
Videographers$3,7688%
Bands/DJs$1,3903%
Cakes/Desserts$9602%
Hair & Makeup$6351%

Where Can Foodies Find Outstanding Wedding Cuisine in North Carolina?

The Farm - A Gathering Place in Candler offers amazing farm-to-table dining with customized menus just west of Asheville. You'll love having multiple ceremony sites to choose from and the convenience of on-site lodging for your guests. The Carolina Inn in Chapel Hill is known for classic Southern cuisine with elegant event spaces right on UNC's campus. Their beautiful outdoor courtyards create a magical setting for your special day. Polanco Venue by Chef Carrasco in Asheville specializes in mixed cuisine with excellent service from experienced staff who can help create your perfect culinary experience.

When Should I Book My North Carolina Wedding Venue?

September is North Carolina's most popular inquiry month for weddings, so you'll need to book earlier if you're planning a fall celebration. Don't wait too long or your dream venue might be taken. Focus your venue tours on spaces that specifically accommodate your guest count to save time and avoid falling in love with locations that won't work for your party size. This targeted approach helps you find the perfect match faster.

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