Question 1

How long have you been in business?

Accepted Answer

I began officiating weddings in 2020 and officially expanded Blessings by Bartlett to include day-of coordination services in 2025. Over the years, I’ve had the joy of helping countless couples feel supported, relaxed, and fully present on their wedding day.

Question 2

Can we personalize our ceremony?

Accepted Answer

Absolutely! Every ceremony I create is personalized to reflect your unique love story, values, and personalities. I’ll guide you through a simple, collaborative process that allows you to include meaningful details—whether that’s special readings, family traditions, personal vows, or a touch of humor. Your ceremony should feel like you—authentic, heartfelt, and unforgettable.

Question 3

We’re legally married already. Can you still do our ceremony?

Accepted Answer

Of course! Many couples choose to have a symbolic or vow renewal-style ceremony after making their marriage legal. Whether you eloped earlier, signed your license privately, or just want to celebrate with family and friends, I’ll create a ceremony that honors your love story and makes the moment feel just as meaningful and memorable as the “official” day.

Question 4

Do you provide or require premarital counseling?

Accepted Answer

I don’t require premarital counseling, but I do offer it for couples who want to strengthen communication and connection before marriage. My sessions are relaxed, insightful, and often include practical tools for navigating married life together. Plus, completing premarital counseling may qualify you for a discount on your Minnesota marriage license!

Question 5

Do you do rehearsals? Is that included in your cost?

Accepted Answer

Yes! I offer rehearsal coordination to help everyone feel comfortable and confident before the big day. Some packages include the rehearsal, while others can add it on for an additional fee. During the rehearsal, I’ll walk your wedding party through the processional, placement, and timing so everything flows smoothly on your wedding day.

Question 6

How many weddings have you done?

Accepted Answer

As of now, I’ve had the honor of officiating 46 weddings, with weddings #47 through #62 already on the calendar! Each one has been unique, heartfelt, and crafted to reflect the couple’s story. I’m grateful for every opportunity to help couples feel supported, relaxed, and fully present on their special day. (October 20, 2025)

Question 7

Do you travel for weddings? Are there travel fees?

Accepted Answer

Yes! I travel throughout Minnesota and surrounding states. Travel fees may apply depending on distance and location, but I’ll always provide clear details upfront.

Question 8

How early do you arrive on the wedding day?

Accepted Answer

I typically arrive 30–60 minutes before the ceremony to connect with vendors, check the setup, and ensure everything is ready for your walk down the aisle.

Question 9

Do you handle the marriage license?

Accepted Answer

Yes! I’ll review your license in advance to ensure it’s complete and file it with the county after your ceremony—so you don’t have to stress about the paperwork.

Question 10

What’s the booking process like?

Accepted Answer

Once you decide to move forward, I’ll send a simple contract and deposit request to reserve your date. From there, you’ll receive a detailed timeline outlining each step—from your deposit to two weeks after the ceremony—so you’ll always know what to expect as we plan your perfect day.

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