The Best Wedding Venues in Shelter Island, NY

The Best Wedding Venues in Shelter Island, NY

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9 Wedding Venues in Shelter Island, NY

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Canoe Place Inn & Cottages 
Rating: 5.0 (1 review)
Hampton Bays, NY
  • Up to 325 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $35,000

Congratulations! We would be honored to host your special day and look forward to discussing your vision. Our dedicated team is here to assist you in planning everything from a stunning outdoor ceremony in our lush garden to a beautiful reception in our iconic ballroom. We’ll help with every detail, including your rehearsal dinner, first look, wedding after-party, and farewell brunch, crafting a personalized experience just for you from start to finish. Let’s make your dream day unforgettable!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has onsite accommodations
  • Provides event staff
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
  • Does not allow pets
  • No free parking
“The team at Canoe Place Inn & Cottages was exceptional in helping us plan our perfect wedding day. Their communication throughout the process was incredibly helpful, clear, and timely, which put us at ease every step of the way. On the day of, the venue itself was simply stunning - clean, beautiful, and so intimate and welcoming for our guests. The staff was extremely kind and thoughtful in all aspects, from the beautiful decor and seamless setup to the delicious food and attentive drink service. They were incredibly accommodating for any special guest needs, ensuring everyone felt comfortable and well taken care of. We are so grateful to the Canoe Place Inn team for making our wedding day truly unforgettable.”
Theresa C., a year ago
Hotel Indigo Long Island - East End by IHG 
Rating: 5.0 (1 review)
Riverhead, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor

From picturesque indoor and outdoor ceremony spaces to our elegant Grand Ballroom, Hotel Indigo East End offers everything you need to create an unforgettable wedding celebration—all in one beautiful destination. Our customizable wedding packages feature farm-to-table cuisine from the award-winning Bistro 72, curated bar packages, newly renovated guest rooms with a fresh, elevated design, convenient room blocks, a beautifully renovated bridal suite, and a dedicated event coordinator to ensure every detail comes together seamlessly. Extend the celebration with rehearsal dinners, after-parties, and post-wedding breakfasts hosted in our stylish private dining spaces, creating a memorable wedding weekend for you and your guests. Nestled in the heart of Long Island's North Fork, your guests can also enjoy nearby wineries, beaches, breweries, and local attractions, making your wedding a true destination experience.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Offers full-service amenities
  • Space for a large guest list

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
  • On-site parking not available
“There are moments in life that you hope will be perfect, and your child's wedding is certainly one of them. I am so grateful that we chose Hotel Indigo Riverhead to host our son's welcome dinner and farewell brunch. We welcomed nearly 90 family members and friends, and from beginning to end, every single person we encountered treated us with kindness, warmth, and genuine hospitality. A very special thank you to Joseph at the front desk. He patiently helped several of our guests with booking issues and always greeted everyone with a smile. On top of that, he somehow managed to graciously accommodate my endless questions and last-minute requests without ever making me feel like I was imposing. And then there was Cristen, the Director of Catering. I honestly don't know how to thank her enough. Wedding planning can be overwhelming, and there were plenty of times I reached out with "just one more question" or "one more favor." She never once made me feel like I was asking too much. Instead, she was encouraging, reassuring, and almost always found a way to say "yes." She truly cared about making our events special, and it showed in every detail. The food was wonderful, the service was exceptional, and the entire team made us feel like family rather than just another event on the calendar. To everyone at Hotel Indigo Riverhead—thank you for helping create memories that our family and friends will cherish for a lifetime. You played a meaningful part in one of the most important weekends of our lives, and for that we are incredibly grateful. If you're considering a venue for a wedding weekend, rehearsal dinner, brunch, family celebration, or corporate event, I recommend Hotel Indigo Riverhead without hesitation. You won't just receive excellent service—you'll be cared for by people who truly want your event to be unforgettable.”
Bonni V., 3 months ago
Lake of Isles 
Rating: 5.0 (5 reviews)
North Stonington, CT
  • Up to 200 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $28,000

Nestled within 900 acres of picturesque woodlands in the heart of North Stonington, CT, Lake of Isles is a destination for unforgettable weddings and events. Combining modern amenities and classic elegance, your vision becomes a reality in our versatile event spaces. Our lush surroundings set the stage for a unique experience that feels far removed from the everyday. Whether you’re planning an intimate gathering or a grand affair, Lake of Isles can accommodate weddings and events of all sizes. Ready to start planning your Lake of Isles wedding?

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides event staff
  • Exudes style
  • Private area for the wedding party

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
  • No free parking
“When I tell you our day went flawlessly, I’m not lying. Bethany and Gage and their team were the most supportive, patient and beyond helpful in every situation that popped up along the 2 years of planning! From the moment we stepped in, Bethany greeted us with a smile. In fact, we like the walk through, details and inclusiveness so much, we didn’t need to look any further. Our day of coordinator Gage was wonderfully calming on an absolutely chaotic day. He calmed me every time I needed to be, he guided our entire wedding party and families graciously and gracefully. The food was the talk of the night and was delicious!”
Chelsea D., a year ago
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Windows on the Lake 
Rating: 4.6 (7 reviews)
Lake Ronkonkoma, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $90

Windows on the Lake is the The Most Romantic Waterfront Venue on Long Island. See what couples are raving about with our award winning wedding venue. Some of The Unique Features: • Catering to Only “One Wedding At A Time", so we can focus all our attention on your wedding. • Beautiful Waterfront Setting with spectacular sunsets create memorable weddings. • Majestic Gardens complete with palm trees for a tropical setting, (in -season). • Beautiful waterfront wedding chapel available for your On-Site Ceremony. • Outdoor patio for an on the water cocktail hour with Fabulous Food Stations. • Elegant Ballroom with floor-to-ceiling windows providing panoramic water views. • Our one-of-a-kind lighting and in-house sound system can make your event special. • International Menus and Presentations to impress your guests. • Special Ethnic, Halal and Kosher menus can be accommodated. • Experienced In-House Event Specialist to make your event "Stress Free".

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides a dedicated team on-site
  • Accommodates more than 200 guests
  • Provides lighting and sound

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
“Windows on the Lake is a perfect wedding venue! Beautiful views, amazing service, and everything was organized so well. The food was excellent and the whole atmosphere felt magical. Highly recommended for any special occasion!”
Aaron H., 4 months ago
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The Lake House 
Rating: 5.0 (12 reviews)
Wolcott, CT
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

The Lake House catering facility is located within steps of its own private lake. Situated on over 19 acres, privacy and sophistication adorn you from the moment you arrive. Designed and built to capture unsurpassed lake views from every seat, The Lake House delivers the finest service and cutting-edge cuisine to satisfy the most discerning of palates.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Dressing room available
  • Provides event staff
  • Space for a large guest list

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
  • No on-premises lodging options
  • Best for events with big guest lists
Awarded Best of Zola
“We got married 9/5/26 at the Lake House and it was an amazing experience start to finish. From our first meeting with the owner Paul, to email communication, meetings with Carole, everything was exceptional. They really went above and beyond for our day. They are a great team and made it easy and stress-free. The venue is so beautiful on its own, you don't have to add much! The food was incredible, the views outside were amazing and the service was top-notch. They worked closely with us to pick our menu, linens, drinks, you name it. The day of went smoothly, as Paul himself continuously checked in on us and our guests throughout the night. We gave Carole our signage and other decor and she made everything look beautiful. Our guests have had nothing but great things to say. We would highly, highly, HIGHLY recommend the Lake House and their team for a wedding or other event. We have not a single complaint, everything was flawless! We will miss working alongside such a great team! We'll always be grateful for them.”
Hailee C., 23 days ago
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Montauk Yacht Club 
Montauk, NY
  • Up to 500 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $38,500

Located on a private lakefront in the hamlet of Montauk, Montauk Yacht Club offers a timeless backdrop for your wedding and related events. Our indoor and outdoor venues are ideal for celebrations both big and small, from casual to black-tie. In addition to rooms, suites, and cottages, Montauk Yacht Club offers a luxurious bridal suite, perfect for getting ready for all the festivities.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Offers full-service amenities
  • Provides event staff
  • Has a dance floor for celebration

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
  • No built-in audiovisual options
  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
East End Venue 
Riverhead, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor

Nestled in Long Island’s beautiful east end, The East End Venue at the Residence Inn Long Island East End is the perfect place to celebrate with friends and family. From corporate events, fundraisers, communions, anniversaries, and weddings, experienced staff and newly built facilities are ready to welcome you, and those you love, to an event you’ll always remember. Our team is experienced in every aspect to coordinate and execute seamless events.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Has a sophisticated vibe
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
  • On-site parking not available
  • Not wheelchair accessible
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The Preserve Sporting Club & Resort 
Richmond, RI
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $20,000

The Preserve Resort & Spa is a wedding venue located in Richmond, Rhode Island. Located on 3,500 pristine acres of New England wilderness, The Preserve boasts the perfect picturesque backdrop for your lavish indoor ceremony or stunning outdoor reception. With diverse setting options, from our Waterfall Patio or Main Lawn to our Event Barn coming Fall 2024, our venue ensures something special for every couple's vision. The Preserve Resort & Spa is easily accessible from all points along the East Coast via Interstate-95. Situated just thirty minutes from Providence, 1.5 hours from Boston and 2.45 hours from New York City, our resort is easily reachable by car, train, airplane, or helicopter.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides catering services
  • Feels like a getaway
  • Accommodates more than 200 guests

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • Not wheelchair accessible

About wedding venues in Shelter Island, NY

Why is New York the Perfect Wedding Destination?

New York gives you incredible variety for your special day, from Manhattan's iconic skyline to the charming countryside of Upstate. You can enjoy timeless elegance at The Plaza Hotel with its grand ballrooms overlooking Central Park, or take in breathtaking panoramic views of Manhattan at Tribeca Rooftop. Brooklyn offers photography-friendly industrial-chic spaces like The Foundry with its character-filled exposed brick and factory windows. Head Upstate and you'll find City Winery Hudson Valley where your celebration unfolds against the backdrop of a working vineyard with mountain views that change beautifully with each season. April sees the most wedding inquiries in New York, showing just how many couples are drawn to the region during spring's beautiful blooming season.

What's the Reality of Wedding Costs in New York?

Expect to pay more for your New York wedding than the national average of $6,500-$12,000 for venues alone. New York venues typically cost around $16,709 which makes up about 22% of your total wedding budget. Your overall costs will vary based on how many guests you're hosting:

Guest CountTotal Wedding Budget
50 guests (small wedding)$32,316
100 guests$54,844
150 guests$76,011
200 guests$94,911
250 guests$113,810
300 guests (large wedding)$132,709

Your other major expenses will include catering at $13,367 (18%), bar services running $10,694 (14%), florals at $8,177 (11%), planners costing $6,044 (8%), photography at $5,119 (7%), videography at $4,622 (6%), entertainment at $2,298 (3%), cake and desserts at $1,067 (1%), and hair and makeup averaging $550 (1%).

How Do NYC Wedding Venues Compare to Upstate Locations?

NYC venues offer you urban sophistication with distinctive skyline views. At Tribeca Rooftop + 360° you'll enjoy floor-to-ceiling windows showcasing Manhattan panoramas while The Plaza presents opulent ballrooms featuring chandeliers ornate molding and gold accents. The 620 Loft & Garden gives you a stunning rooftop terrace overlooking St. Patrick's Cathedral and Fifth Avenue. Upstate venues surround you with natural beauty and historic architecture. City Winery Hudson Valley welcomes you to a renovated factory featuring vaulted ceilings stone walls and vineyard views. You can host up to 350 guests here and customize your outdoor ceremony areas to create exactly the atmosphere you're dreaming of.

Which New York Venues Offer Outstanding Culinary Experiences?

You can treat your guests to Two Michelin star cuisine at Manhatta perched 60 floors high in the Financial District where Executive Chef Justin Bogle creates memorable dishes like hamachi and black truffle dumplings. The River Cafe in Brooklyn serves Michelin-starred cuisine featuring Hudson Valley foie gras and Nantucket Bay scallops with Brooklyn Bridge views right outside your window. For a farm-to-table experience Blue Hill at Stone Barns in Westchester County offers cuisine sourced directly from their on-site farm with their HayLoft space accommodating anywhere from 40 to 260 guests.

Where Can You Find Accessible Wedding Venues in New York?

For couples prioritizing accessibility 620 Loft & Garden offers customizable settings that can work with various needs though you'll want to confirm specific features during your planning. Prospect Park Boathouse and Central Park Conservatory Garden provide accessible options with proper pathways for all your guests. Always ask about specific accommodations like wheelchair ramps elevators and accessible restrooms when you're researching potential venues to ensure everyone can fully participate in your celebration.

How Can Guests Participate Remotely at New York Weddings?

Historic Manhattan venues can make remote guests feel included by incorporating virtual tours during ceremony breaks while Midtown Loft & Terrace supports interactive platforms that go beyond simple passive streaming. You might consider venues in Chelsea or SoHo that can enhance those famous skyline views with live streaming that includes interactive elements like virtual photobooths live chats or virtual toasts. These features help create genuine engagement for participants joining your special day from afar.

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