The Best Barn & Farm Wedding Venues in Shelter Island, NY

The Best Barn & Farm Wedding Venues in Shelter Island, NY

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7 Wedding Venues in Shelter Island, NY

Farms, barns, ranches
250-300 guests
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Bill Miller's Castle 

5.0

Branford, CT
  • Up to 250 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $10,925

A magnificent, breathtaking landmark, Bill Miller’s Castle has served as an elegant venue for weddings, corporate events, and special occasions. Meticulous attention to detail, natural stonework, exposed reclaimed beams, an antique bronze bell weighing more than one ton, and rare antique furniture create a beautiful backdrop for any event or special occasion. Featuring five working field-stone fireplaces, three-story cathedral ceilings, ornate stained glass windows, crystal chandeliers, and a large dance floor; the grandeur of Bill Miller’s Castle will make your guests feel truly extraordinary from the moment they walk through the door.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Multiple event spaces
  • Bridal suite on site
  • Historic touches

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No on-site guest accommodations
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
Awarded Best of Zola
We cannot say enough about how incredible Bill Miller’s Castle in Branford, Connecticut, was for our November 8th, 2024 wedding. This family-owned and operated venue exceeded every expectation and delivered a level of care, sincerity, and expertise that left us speechless. From start to finish, Lisa, Victoria, and Christina were nothing short of phenomenal. From our very first meeting to the final moments of our celebration, they treated us like part of their family. Every detail was handled with thoughtfulness and precision—from decor and catering to timeline coordination, vendor recommendations, and bar service. Their willingness to step in and go above and beyond made our day seamless and magical. The venue itself is a true gem. The stunning architecture created a fairytale-like atmosphere that felt otherworldly. Every corner of the castle offered a unique and breathtaking backdrop, making it a dream come true. We cannot thank Lisa, Victoria, and Christina enough for their hard work, dedication, and genuine care for making our wedding day so perfect. From the bottom of our hearts, thank you! We highly recommend Bill Miller’s Castle to anyone searching for a venue that delivers excellence in every way. With love and gratitude, Trey and Cory
Trey and C., 10 months ago
Rockville Wedding and Special Events 

5.0

Rockville, RI
  • Up to 300 guests
  • Raw space
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $4,500

At Rockville Weddings, the possibilities for your wedding are truly limitless. Our stunning venue offers a variety of facilities to suit every aspect of your special day. Host your reception in our spacious 300-seat dining lodge, complete with an industrial kitchen to cater to all your culinary needs. The wedding party can relax and prepare in our luxurious lounge, while guests enjoy the charm of our outdoor ceremony options. As the evening unfolds, gather around our cozy firepits or retreat to our unique glamping sites, cabins, and bunkrooms for a memorable overnight stay. Whatever your vision, Rockville Weddings provides the perfect setting to bring it to life.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Rustic yet refined style
  • Rustic charm with elegance
  • Space for a large guest list

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • Does not provide event staff
  • Not for you if you don't want a rustic vibe
Rockville Wedding and Special Events was an absolute pleasure to work with for our wedding. From the very first interaction, their communication was easy and they were quick to respond to all of our questions and requests. The venue itself is a beautiful, clean, and well-maintained space that was the perfect backdrop for our special day. They worked with us on some unique requests to make the space our own, and we felt so lucky to have found this gem of a venue. Our guests raved about the beautiful setting, and we couldn't have been happier with how everything turned out. We highly recommend Rockville Wedding and Special Events to any couple looking for a stress-free, top-notch wedding experience.
Daniel T. D., 9 months ago
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Falls Creek Farm 

5.0

Moosup, CT
  • Up to 250 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $5,000

Falls Creek Farm is an enchanting 300-acre destination nestled in the picturesque Connecticut countryside. With two distinct venues onsite - The Reserve and Creekside -our property offers couples the flexibility to choose a setting that reflects their vision. At The Reserve, you’ll find our timeless stone chapel, lakefront ceremony options, and the Lakefront Barn for unforgettable receptions. At Creekside, celebrate in the Orangery, followed by a reception beneath our stunning Century Tent. Whether you dream of an intimate garden ceremony or a grand celebration in a barn with chandeliers, our versatile spaces and dedicated team will bring your day to life with timeless charm and unforgettable detail.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Picturesque garden backdrop
  • Rustic-chic setting
  • Both indoor and outdoor options

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Dance floor not included
  • Limited cleanup and setup services
Falls Creek Farm is such a hidden gem! Their team is quick to respond, super professional, and always ready to assist. The stunning grounds provide a picture perfect backdrop for any event!
Jules, a year ago
One Woman Wines & Vineyards 
Southold, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $10,000

Our vineyard and winery are located in Southold, NY. Previously a potato and melon farm, Claudia fell in love with the property across from her home and when it came up for sale in 2001 she did not want to see the farm developed. After closing her restaurant in western Nassau county she went forward with purchasing the property and selling the development rights to preserve it's beauty. Since then she's slowly hand planted and renovated the potato barns that existed on the property into her winery.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Unique barn setting
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away
  • Pets can join the celebration

Venue considerations

  • No dedicated areas for getting ready
  • Not for you if you're looking for a sleek and contemporary space
  • No on-site guest accommodations
The Charlestown Rathskeller 
Charlestown, RI
  • Up to 300 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor

The Charlestown Rathskeller started out as a speakeasy in a different time, and has grown into something entirely unique since then. Nestled in the woods of Charlestown since 1933, the Rathskeller is one of the most memorable dining and entertainment destinations in Southern New England. We serve deliciously grilled steaks, local seafood, burgers and sandwiches in our meticulously restored dining room and tavern, beautiful outdoor patio, and at our indoor and outdoor bars. Just across the restaurant’s backyard sits our rustic outdoor music and entertainment venue. Down Back, our summer stage, backyard bar and burger shack surround a roaring bonfire on cool summer nights. Guests from all over New England descend on the Charlestown Rathskeller for concerts featuring some of the best party, pop, rock and country cover acts in the region. With tasty food and beverages, plus backyard games like horseshoes, cornhole and bocce, guests can enjoy a whole day or night at the Rathskeller.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Space for a large guest list
  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Provides a dedicated team on-site

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
  • No on-premises lodging options

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About wedding venues in Shelter Island, NY

Why is New York the Perfect Wedding Destination?

New York gives you incredible variety for your special day, from Manhattan's iconic skyline to the charming countryside of Upstate. You can enjoy timeless elegance at The Plaza Hotel with its grand ballrooms overlooking Central Park, or take in breathtaking panoramic views of Manhattan at Tribeca Rooftop. Brooklyn offers photography-friendly industrial-chic spaces like The Foundry with its character-filled exposed brick and factory windows. Head Upstate and you'll find City Winery Hudson Valley where your celebration unfolds against the backdrop of a working vineyard with mountain views that change beautifully with each season. April sees the most wedding inquiries in New York, showing just how many couples are drawn to the region during spring's beautiful blooming season.

What's the Reality of Wedding Costs in New York?

Expect to pay more for your New York wedding than the national average of $6,500-$12,000 for venues alone. New York venues typically cost around $16,709 which makes up about 22% of your total wedding budget. Your overall costs will vary based on how many guests you're hosting:

Guest CountTotal Wedding Budget
50 guests (small wedding)$32,316
100 guests$54,844
150 guests$76,011
200 guests$94,911
250 guests$113,810
300 guests (large wedding)$132,709

Your other major expenses will include catering at $13,367 (18%), bar services running $10,694 (14%), florals at $8,177 (11%), planners costing $6,044 (8%), photography at $5,119 (7%), videography at $4,622 (6%), entertainment at $2,298 (3%), cake and desserts at $1,067 (1%), and hair and makeup averaging $550 (1%).

How Do NYC Wedding Venues Compare to Upstate Locations?

NYC venues offer you urban sophistication with distinctive skyline views. At Tribeca Rooftop + 360° you'll enjoy floor-to-ceiling windows showcasing Manhattan panoramas while The Plaza presents opulent ballrooms featuring chandeliers ornate molding and gold accents. The 620 Loft & Garden gives you a stunning rooftop terrace overlooking St. Patrick's Cathedral and Fifth Avenue.

Upstate venues surround you with natural beauty and historic architecture. City Winery Hudson Valley welcomes you to a renovated factory featuring vaulted ceilings stone walls and vineyard views. You can host up to 350 guests here and customize your outdoor ceremony areas to create exactly the atmosphere you're dreaming of.

Which New York Venues Offer Outstanding Culinary Experiences?

You can treat your guests to Two Michelin star cuisine at Manhatta perched 60 floors high in the Financial District where Executive Chef Justin Bogle creates memorable dishes like hamachi and black truffle dumplings. The River Cafe in Brooklyn serves Michelin-starred cuisine featuring Hudson Valley foie gras and Nantucket Bay scallops with Brooklyn Bridge views right outside your window. For a farm-to-table experience Blue Hill at Stone Barns in Westchester County offers cuisine sourced directly from their on-site farm with their HayLoft space accommodating anywhere from 40 to 260 guests.

Where Can You Find Accessible Wedding Venues in New York?

For couples prioritizing accessibility 620 Loft & Garden offers customizable settings that can work with various needs though you'll want to confirm specific features during your planning. Prospect Park Boathouse and Central Park Conservatory Garden provide accessible options with proper pathways for all your guests. Always ask about specific accommodations like wheelchair ramps elevators and accessible restrooms when you're researching potential venues to ensure everyone can fully participate in your celebration.

How Can Guests Participate Remotely at New York Weddings?

Historic Manhattan venues can make remote guests feel included by incorporating virtual tours during ceremony breaks while Midtown Loft & Terrace supports interactive platforms that go beyond simple passive streaming. You might consider venues in Chelsea or SoHo that can enhance those famous skyline views with live streaming that includes interactive elements like virtual photobooths live chats or virtual toasts. These features help create genuine engagement for participants joining your special day from afar.

Why is New York the Perfect Wedding Destination?

New York gives you incredible variety for your special day, from Manhattan's iconic skyline to the charming countryside of Upstate. You can enjoy timeless elegance at The Plaza Hotel with its grand ballrooms overlooking Central Park, or take in breathtaking panoramic views of Manhattan at Tribeca Rooftop. Brooklyn offers photography-friendly industrial-chic spaces like The Foundry with its character-filled exposed brick and factory windows. Head Upstate and you'll find City Winery Hudson Valley where your celebration unfolds against the backdrop of a working vineyard with mountain views that change beautifully with each season. April sees the most wedding inquiries in New York, showing just how many couples are drawn to the region during spring's beautiful blooming season.

What's the Reality of Wedding Costs in New York?

Expect to pay more for your New York wedding than the national average of $6,500-$12,000 for venues alone. New York venues typically cost around $16,709 which makes up about 22% of your total wedding budget. Your overall costs will vary based on how many guests you're hosting:

Guest CountTotal Wedding Budget
50 guests (small wedding)$32,316
100 guests$54,844
150 guests$76,011
200 guests$94,911
250 guests$113,810
300 guests (large wedding)$132,709

Your other major expenses will include catering at $13,367 (18%), bar services running $10,694 (14%), florals at $8,177 (11%), planners costing $6,044 (8%), photography at $5,119 (7%), videography at $4,622 (6%), entertainment at $2,298 (3%), cake and desserts at $1,067 (1%), and hair and makeup averaging $550 (1%).

How Do NYC Wedding Venues Compare to Upstate Locations?

NYC venues offer you urban sophistication with distinctive skyline views. At Tribeca Rooftop + 360° you'll enjoy floor-to-ceiling windows showcasing Manhattan panoramas while The Plaza presents opulent ballrooms featuring chandeliers ornate molding and gold accents. The 620 Loft & Garden gives you a stunning rooftop terrace overlooking St. Patrick's Cathedral and Fifth Avenue.

Upstate venues surround you with natural beauty and historic architecture. City Winery Hudson Valley welcomes you to a renovated factory featuring vaulted ceilings stone walls and vineyard views. You can host up to 350 guests here and customize your outdoor ceremony areas to create exactly the atmosphere you're dreaming of.

Which New York Venues Offer Outstanding Culinary Experiences?

You can treat your guests to Two Michelin star cuisine at Manhatta perched 60 floors high in the Financial District where Executive Chef Justin Bogle creates memorable dishes like hamachi and black truffle dumplings. The River Cafe in Brooklyn serves Michelin-starred cuisine featuring Hudson Valley foie gras and Nantucket Bay scallops with Brooklyn Bridge views right outside your window. For a farm-to-table experience Blue Hill at Stone Barns in Westchester County offers cuisine sourced directly from their on-site farm with their HayLoft space accommodating anywhere from 40 to 260 guests.

Where Can You Find Accessible Wedding Venues in New York?

For couples prioritizing accessibility 620 Loft & Garden offers customizable settings that can work with various needs though you'll want to confirm specific features during your planning. Prospect Park Boathouse and Central Park Conservatory Garden provide accessible options with proper pathways for all your guests. Always ask about specific accommodations like wheelchair ramps elevators and accessible restrooms when you're researching potential venues to ensure everyone can fully participate in your celebration.

How Can Guests Participate Remotely at New York Weddings?

Historic Manhattan venues can make remote guests feel included by incorporating virtual tours during ceremony breaks while Midtown Loft & Terrace supports interactive platforms that go beyond simple passive streaming. You might consider venues in Chelsea or SoHo that can enhance those famous skyline views with live streaming that includes interactive elements like virtual photobooths live chats or virtual toasts. These features help create genuine engagement for participants joining your special day from afar.

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