The Best Rehearsal Dinner & Bridal Shower Venues in Oyster Bay, NY

The Best Rehearsal Dinner & Bridal Shower Venues in Oyster Bay, NY

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5 Wedding Venues in Oyster Bay, NY

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Westbury Manor 

4.8

Westbury, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $5,000

The Perfect Setting For Your Special Occasion Welcome to Westbury Manor, Long Island’s premier venue for weddings, corporate affairs, family celebrations, and social gatherings. When you plan an event at Westbury Manor, we are dedicated to creating a individualized experience. Our lush, sophisticated surroundings are the perfect backdrop to any occasion. Set upon 5 acres of meticulously landscaped gardens and grounds, our historic mansion is home to several ballrooms and cocktail rooms that can be adapted to any mood or celebration. Our professional staff is dedicated to creating a seamless experience for you and your guests. We are delighted to welcome your family and friends, and most of all, to help you make your event truly your own.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Versatile for various event styles
  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Provides setup and cleanup

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No on-site guest accommodations
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
Awarded Best of Zola
My wedding party ran late with getting ready which delayed so many things, but the Maître d’, Phil, made sure everything ran smoothly once we got to Westbury. He offered solutions for the timing of each portion of the reception and what I expected to be a stressful day ended up being the best day ever. And our bridal attendant, Dilcia, was so nice! She made sure I was fed and hydrated, that I changed my dress, and just her presence was enough to keep me calm. I cannot thank them enough for making this day one of the best of my life so far. They were a blessing to have.
Jessica J., 3 years ago
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The Mansion at Oyster Bay 

5.0

Woodbury, NY
  • Up to 500 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

The Mansion at Oyster Bay stands majestically in the heart of 120 perfectly manicured acres in Woodbury, Long Island. The ambiance of this former magnificent Gold Coast estate is rich with elegance and hospitality, but updated with modern amenities. Come enjoy this experience of Long Island Gold Coast luxury, and share it with your guests in an unforgettable setting.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Both indoor and outdoor options
  • Full catering menu to choose from
  • Has a dance floor for celebration

Venue considerations

  • Lighting and sound are not included
  • Does not allow pets
  • Not wheelchair accessible
Awarded Best of Zola
The Mansion at Oyster Bay was the perfect venue for our wedding. Right after we contacted the venue, Jennifer Sammarco responded and set up a tour for us immediately. From the moment we pulled up to the beautiful grounds and mansion, we fell in love with the venue. Jennifer did a great job of helping us envision our wedding day, and thoroughly explained all of their package deals to help us stay within our budget. Throughout the entire process, Jennifer was so helpful and answered every single question that we had (and we had a lot!). She was always available, right up to the day of the wedding. We were able to meet some vendors during the seasonal showcases that the venue has, and we were able to taste the food and drink at a tasting closer to the date of the wedding. Leading up to the wedding, Mike Langis, the maître-d' reached out and coordinated a drop off meeting with us to drop off all of our decorations and day of items for the wedding. Mike was so incredibly kind and accommodating and made us feel at ease that he would be on the ball the day of. He absolutely was, as well as the rest of the staff at the venue. Mike helped put out all of our decorations in the morning, helped rearrange items from the ceremony to the reception, and was even able to quickly and quietly remedy a situation where we forgot a few boxes of favors, without interrupting any of the festivities of the day. He ran the entire rehearsal with the wedding party for the ceremony that we opted to have on site and connected our playlists to the venue speakers for cocktail hour and after party. Any requests that we had for coordination of the entire day was fantastically handled by Mike! We also paid to have use of the bridal suite for the entire morning, and Natalie was our bridal attendant. She was excellent, steaming my entire wedding gown, bringing drinks and food to us in the bridal suite, and helped carry my dress, drinks and food during photos. We were told that we had the A-Team between Mike and Natalie, and that couldn't have been more true! So many of our guests told us how exceptional the staff was for food and bar service as well. Everyone was so impressed by the beauty of the venue, the quality of the food and drinks, and the professionalism of the staff. We were so fortunate to have found the Mansion at Oyster Bay, because it honestly had everything that we were looking for on our wedding day. If you are looking for a beautiful venue with exceptional staff, has flexible options and packages to help you stay within budget, and is experienced in hosting weddings, this is definitely the place for you! (Photos by Izzie Cervantes Photography)
Maria P., 7 months ago
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The Barn at Old Bethpage Village Restoration 

5.0

Old Bethpage, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor

Lessing’s newest event venue, The Barn at Old Bethpage Village Restoration, offers the unique combination of a rustic yet elegant barn setting with the personalized attention to detail and service that Lessing’s is known for. With over 8,000 square feet of indoor and outdoor event space, The Barn is fitting for a guest list of up to 300 for weddings, galas and more. The exposed wooden beams stretched across high ceilings, sprawling country fields and authentic farmhouse scenery are sure to delight your guests and have them talking for years to come.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Space for a large guest list
  • Rustic-chic setting
  • Has a dance floor for celebration

Venue considerations

  • No in-house lighting and sound packages available
  • Does not allow pets
  • No on-site bridal suite
The Barn gave us the wedding of our dreams. From the staff to the food to the space to the professionalism - everything exceeded our expectations. 10/10 recommend!
Jeanette F., 7 months ago
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Regal Caterers at Woodbury Jewish Center 
Woodbury, NY
  • Up to 750 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor

Lavish, stunning, and chic, the Woodbury Jewish Center is a conservative synagogue in the heart of Nassau County. With 90 chandeliers hung from stainless steel trusses, a three-tier wall of fire, and a massive 65-foot long bar, the Woodbury Jewish Center will have all your guests talking for months after your event. The Woodbury Jewish Center can host up to 750 guests in its grand dining hall, with more intimate layout options available. With its neutral palette and transitional rooms, the dining hall can be dressed from ultra-modern to rustic chic, and everything in-between.

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Muttontown Country Club 
East Norwich, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $15,000

One Wedding at a Time, No Membership Required Experience the elegance of a private country club without the need for membership. Whether you're envisioning an outdoor reception, a grand ballroom wedding, or a dazzling black-tie affair, The Muttontown Club will bring your dream celebration to life. Our expert chefs and acclaimed catering services will craft a memorable menu tailored to your desires. From elaborate dinners to receptions and al fresco lunches, every meal is executed with impeccable service and flawless flair. Make your special day unforgettable—contact us today to start planning your perfect wedding.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Accommodates more than 200 guests
  • Versatile for various event styles
  • Provides catering services

Venue considerations

  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • Does not allow pets
  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues

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About wedding venues in Oyster Bay, NY

Why is New York the Perfect Wedding Destination?

New York gives you incredible variety for your special day, from Manhattan's iconic skyline to the charming countryside of Upstate. You can enjoy timeless elegance at The Plaza Hotel with its grand ballrooms overlooking Central Park, or take in breathtaking panoramic views of Manhattan at Tribeca Rooftop. Brooklyn offers photography-friendly industrial-chic spaces like The Foundry with its character-filled exposed brick and factory windows. Head Upstate and you'll find City Winery Hudson Valley where your celebration unfolds against the backdrop of a working vineyard with mountain views that change beautifully with each season. April sees the most wedding inquiries in New York, showing just how many couples are drawn to the region during spring's beautiful blooming season.

What's the Reality of Wedding Costs in New York?

Expect to pay more for your New York wedding than the national average of $6,500-$12,000 for venues alone. New York venues typically cost around $16,709 which makes up about 22% of your total wedding budget. Your overall costs will vary based on how many guests you're hosting:

Guest CountTotal Wedding Budget
50 guests (small wedding)$32,316
100 guests$54,844
150 guests$76,011
200 guests$94,911
250 guests$113,810
300 guests (large wedding)$132,709

Your other major expenses will include catering at $13,367 (18%), bar services running $10,694 (14%), florals at $8,177 (11%), planners costing $6,044 (8%), photography at $5,119 (7%), videography at $4,622 (6%), entertainment at $2,298 (3%), cake and desserts at $1,067 (1%), and hair and makeup averaging $550 (1%).

How Do NYC Wedding Venues Compare to Upstate Locations?

NYC venues offer you urban sophistication with distinctive skyline views. At Tribeca Rooftop + 360° you'll enjoy floor-to-ceiling windows showcasing Manhattan panoramas while The Plaza presents opulent ballrooms featuring chandeliers ornate molding and gold accents. The 620 Loft & Garden gives you a stunning rooftop terrace overlooking St. Patrick's Cathedral and Fifth Avenue.

Upstate venues surround you with natural beauty and historic architecture. City Winery Hudson Valley welcomes you to a renovated factory featuring vaulted ceilings stone walls and vineyard views. You can host up to 350 guests here and customize your outdoor ceremony areas to create exactly the atmosphere you're dreaming of.

Which New York Venues Offer Outstanding Culinary Experiences?

You can treat your guests to Two Michelin star cuisine at Manhatta perched 60 floors high in the Financial District where Executive Chef Justin Bogle creates memorable dishes like hamachi and black truffle dumplings. The River Cafe in Brooklyn serves Michelin-starred cuisine featuring Hudson Valley foie gras and Nantucket Bay scallops with Brooklyn Bridge views right outside your window. For a farm-to-table experience Blue Hill at Stone Barns in Westchester County offers cuisine sourced directly from their on-site farm with their HayLoft space accommodating anywhere from 40 to 260 guests.

Where Can You Find Accessible Wedding Venues in New York?

For couples prioritizing accessibility 620 Loft & Garden offers customizable settings that can work with various needs though you'll want to confirm specific features during your planning. Prospect Park Boathouse and Central Park Conservatory Garden provide accessible options with proper pathways for all your guests. Always ask about specific accommodations like wheelchair ramps elevators and accessible restrooms when you're researching potential venues to ensure everyone can fully participate in your celebration.

How Can Guests Participate Remotely at New York Weddings?

Historic Manhattan venues can make remote guests feel included by incorporating virtual tours during ceremony breaks while Midtown Loft & Terrace supports interactive platforms that go beyond simple passive streaming. You might consider venues in Chelsea or SoHo that can enhance those famous skyline views with live streaming that includes interactive elements like virtual photobooths live chats or virtual toasts. These features help create genuine engagement for participants joining your special day from afar.

Why is New York the Perfect Wedding Destination?

New York gives you incredible variety for your special day, from Manhattan's iconic skyline to the charming countryside of Upstate. You can enjoy timeless elegance at The Plaza Hotel with its grand ballrooms overlooking Central Park, or take in breathtaking panoramic views of Manhattan at Tribeca Rooftop. Brooklyn offers photography-friendly industrial-chic spaces like The Foundry with its character-filled exposed brick and factory windows. Head Upstate and you'll find City Winery Hudson Valley where your celebration unfolds against the backdrop of a working vineyard with mountain views that change beautifully with each season. April sees the most wedding inquiries in New York, showing just how many couples are drawn to the region during spring's beautiful blooming season.

What's the Reality of Wedding Costs in New York?

Expect to pay more for your New York wedding than the national average of $6,500-$12,000 for venues alone. New York venues typically cost around $16,709 which makes up about 22% of your total wedding budget. Your overall costs will vary based on how many guests you're hosting:

Guest CountTotal Wedding Budget
50 guests (small wedding)$32,316
100 guests$54,844
150 guests$76,011
200 guests$94,911
250 guests$113,810
300 guests (large wedding)$132,709

Your other major expenses will include catering at $13,367 (18%), bar services running $10,694 (14%), florals at $8,177 (11%), planners costing $6,044 (8%), photography at $5,119 (7%), videography at $4,622 (6%), entertainment at $2,298 (3%), cake and desserts at $1,067 (1%), and hair and makeup averaging $550 (1%).

How Do NYC Wedding Venues Compare to Upstate Locations?

NYC venues offer you urban sophistication with distinctive skyline views. At Tribeca Rooftop + 360° you'll enjoy floor-to-ceiling windows showcasing Manhattan panoramas while The Plaza presents opulent ballrooms featuring chandeliers ornate molding and gold accents. The 620 Loft & Garden gives you a stunning rooftop terrace overlooking St. Patrick's Cathedral and Fifth Avenue.

Upstate venues surround you with natural beauty and historic architecture. City Winery Hudson Valley welcomes you to a renovated factory featuring vaulted ceilings stone walls and vineyard views. You can host up to 350 guests here and customize your outdoor ceremony areas to create exactly the atmosphere you're dreaming of.

Which New York Venues Offer Outstanding Culinary Experiences?

You can treat your guests to Two Michelin star cuisine at Manhatta perched 60 floors high in the Financial District where Executive Chef Justin Bogle creates memorable dishes like hamachi and black truffle dumplings. The River Cafe in Brooklyn serves Michelin-starred cuisine featuring Hudson Valley foie gras and Nantucket Bay scallops with Brooklyn Bridge views right outside your window. For a farm-to-table experience Blue Hill at Stone Barns in Westchester County offers cuisine sourced directly from their on-site farm with their HayLoft space accommodating anywhere from 40 to 260 guests.

Where Can You Find Accessible Wedding Venues in New York?

For couples prioritizing accessibility 620 Loft & Garden offers customizable settings that can work with various needs though you'll want to confirm specific features during your planning. Prospect Park Boathouse and Central Park Conservatory Garden provide accessible options with proper pathways for all your guests. Always ask about specific accommodations like wheelchair ramps elevators and accessible restrooms when you're researching potential venues to ensure everyone can fully participate in your celebration.

How Can Guests Participate Remotely at New York Weddings?

Historic Manhattan venues can make remote guests feel included by incorporating virtual tours during ceremony breaks while Midtown Loft & Terrace supports interactive platforms that go beyond simple passive streaming. You might consider venues in Chelsea or SoHo that can enhance those famous skyline views with live streaming that includes interactive elements like virtual photobooths live chats or virtual toasts. These features help create genuine engagement for participants joining your special day from afar.

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