The Best Rehearsal Dinner & Bridal Shower Venues in Amherst, NY

The Best Rehearsal Dinner & Bridal Shower Venues in Amherst, NY

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11 Wedding Venues in Amherst, NY

Rehearsal dinner
Wurlitzer Events 

5.0

North Tonawanda, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor

The Wurlitzer Room; Seating: 300. Great atmosphere for weddings, large events. The room can be split in half for bridal and baby showers. Wurlitzer Room offers a full bar, music, 3 HD Projectors with three 10ft screens, microphone, podium, connectivity via Wi-Fi HDMI. Giant illuminated patio with seating and fire pit. Private bridal suite with bathroom. The Tower Room; Seating: 150. Great atmosphere for bridal showers, baby showers, birthdays, banquets, holiday parties, weddings. Tower Room offers a full bar, music, multiple TVs, microphone, podium, connectivity via Wi-Fi HDMI. Includes lounge area with a waterfall and seating for your guests to mingle. Private bridal suite. The Recital Room; Seating: 65. Great atmosphere for wedding ceremonies, showers, anniversaries, banquets, birthday parties, corporate events. Recital Room includes a portable bar, portable TV, microphone, podium, music, connectivity via WiFi HDMI. Email Events Manager for all inquiries: tammy@wurlitzerevents.com

Why you'll love this venue

  • Accommodates more than 200 guests
  • All-inclusive venue packages
  • Private area for the wedding party

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
We held our wedding here on 11/02/24 - Ali and the entire Wurlitzer staff went above and beyond all expectations. Ali answered dozens of questions over email, checked in regularly, made sure our decor was perfect, and made every step of the planning process an absolute breeze with her experience and knowledge. Our guests can’t stop talking about how beautiful the venue was, and how much they loved the food! Everything about our day was perfect with the Wurlitzer and staff being the biggest reason for that!
Amber S., 6 months ago
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The Grapevine Banquets 

5.0

Depew, NY
  • Up to 1800 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor

The Grapevine Banquets located in Depew and centrally located in Erie County can accommodate any number of guests in one of our sprawling ballrooms. If your guests list is on the smaller side, we also have a beautiful area that can accommodate you. With proven experience in hosting Weddings and special events from intimate to large gatherings, The Grapevine Banquets can provide the best service tailored just for your special event. Providing distinguished high quality food preparation and service since 1983. Our entire Team is dedicated to serving and executing your event with the professionalism and standards that The Grapevine has established as a recognized tradition in the region. We look forward to serving your special event ~ Team Grapevine

Why you'll love this venue

  • Private area for the wedding party
  • Handles all cleanup logistics
  • Wheelchair accessible

Venue considerations

  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • Does not allow pets
  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
Awarded Best of Zola
We have had every big event in our lives at the Grapevine Banquets over the last few years. My wife’s bridal shower, baby shower and of our kids christening parties. The staff went above and beyond for us. They took care of every detail. The food was delicious, the team was so friendly and it was such a great value. We recommend to everyone to have an event at the Grapevine Banquets!
Tony, 8 months ago
The Loft at Thin Man Brewery 

5.0

Buffalo, NY
  • Up to 165 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor

The Loft @ Chandler is nestled in historic Black Rock, and features a modern industrial aesthetic, freshly brewed Thin Man beer, and delicious food by Tappo Pizza, made on site in our dedicated events kitchen. An outdoor ceremony location is available - a cool community courtyard, surrounded by red brick buildings, and home to vibrant mural artistry. It is just across the street from the Loft. We rent chairs for this space at $4 per chair, and there is a $150 site fee for the courtyard. If your group is under a certain size (appox. 80 ppl), you may marry in the Loft space itself. Winter weddings may marry in the loft, with a small amount of chairs and standing room for ceremony.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Caters to out-of-town guests
  • Classic seating dinner
  • Provides a dedicated team on-site

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No on-site bridal suite
  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
If you are looking for a unique rustic vibe for your event, you need to go see The Lofts. Most don't know it exists but I can tell you it's worth your time to go see it. Kayla and her crew are outstanding and work so well together(that is not easy to find these days.) Wether it be a party, wedding or corporate event, you will not be disappointed here. The food was delicious too, this place has it all !!
Rick Schmitt, 3 years ago
The Mansion at Knox Farm 

5.0

East Aurora, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • Raw space
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $1,000

This historic treasure was the summer home of the renowned Knox Family until it was purchased by NYS to be enjoyed as a state park. The Colonial Revival style home was designed by Architects Frank Bell Meade and James Montgomery Hamilton in a simple classic design which exudes restrained elegance. The two story Mansion is 14,000 square feet and sits on 633 acres. The first floor rooms offer unparalleled grace and charm which are used for events, with ancillary rooms upstairs. This unique venue can be rented May through October; it is closed for the winter months. The Mansion at Knox Farm is the perfect setting to create the wedding of your dreams. Plan a delightful afternoon garden party or an elegant affair with all the trimmings.... It's your day and your dream. To bring your vision to reality, we offer you the ability to choose from a host of local vendors to suit your personal style. We want you to experience a magical day full of cherished memories.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Rustic charm with elegance
  • Has a fun and festive vibe
  • Caters to out-of-town guests

Venue considerations

  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • Limited cleanup and setup services
  • No in-house lighting and sound packages available
Marcia with The Mansion at Knox Farm is one of the best vendors we've had the pleasure of working with! She's thorough, courteous, and prompt to respond to questions. Most of all she truly cares about her guests special event. She's a pleasure, definitely one of our favorite vendors to work with! We at Lucarelli's highly recommend!
Colleen, 4 years ago
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The Gallagher 

5.0

Medina, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $7,000

The Gallagher is a space where your guests can enjoy both the casual laid back event of an outdoor celebration in combination with the formal elegance that comes from a great and well curated space! Our staff is focused on creating a wedding that is uniquely you and reflects your personality as a couple! We want everyone to enjoy celebrating your love on your big day!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away
  • Allows pets
  • Offers convenient lodging options

Venue considerations

  • No built-in audiovisual options
  • No free parking
  • Not wheelchair accessible
Awarded Best of Zola
I have been dreaming about getting married at The Gallagher for years and am not exaggerating when I say that my wedding on 9.28 exceeded every single one of my expectations! Jenna and Jenna took every bit of stress off my plate and handled every last detail of making my day what I envisioned it would be. Jenna helped my bridesmaids peel protective stickers off 125 champagne glass tags for our seating chart and then handled the rest from there - and of course, it turned out perfect. The house on the property is huge and absolutely beautiful. It was the perfect place to have our rehearsal dinner, get ready in the morning with my girls, and party all night long at the fire pit and pool table inside. My parents were able to bring their RV and park on the lawn behind the house so that our babies could sleep near us without having to stay inside the house with the wedding party. She even has umbrellas in the closet of the getting ready room in case of rain! The Gallagher is a 10/10 and I recommend this venue to any bride that wants to wake up on her wedding day and know that everything is going to be taken care of by people that genuinely want to see all your dreams come true!
Ashley A., 9 months ago
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Classic Events Buffalo 
Buffalo, NY
  • Up to 325 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $6,000

Classic Events has two distinct upscale properties located in Buffalo, NY and offers premier on and off-premise catering services. We host an array of events including weddings, showers, rehearsal dinners, corporate parties, galas, trade-shows, banquets, in-home parties, holiday events, graduations, picnics or any other special occasion you want to make memorable for you and your guests. Our extensive menus offer culinary delights suited for every occasion presented in a creative fashion. Our expert team is of the latest trends in cuisine, technology, design and décor and will assist in making your next event a cherished memory and will set your event apart from the rest.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Caters to out-of-town guests
  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Allows pets

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • On-site parking not available
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Jack Rabbit 
Buffalo, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $5,000

Historic Buffalo Building in the Heart of Elmwood Village with Four Unique Spaces...rent one or all to have the night of your dreams...Specializing in unique set ups and a fun and creative atmospheres...nothing is out of the possibility

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides catering services
  • Provides setup and cleanup
  • Classic, vintage atmosphere

Venue considerations

  • No on-premises lodging options
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • No dedicated areas for getting ready
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Other Half Brewing - Buffalo 
Buffalo, NY
  • Up to 275 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $1,500

Celebrate your love at Other Half Buffalo, a dynamic wedding venue located in the heart of downtown at the base of the iconic Seneca One Tower. Our spacious taproom combines industrial-chic style with warm hospitality—perfect for couples looking for a fun, laid-back setting with a touch of city flair. With fresh draft beers flowing, a curated selection of wine, spirits, and canned cocktails, plus a full kitchen offering elevated bar fare and crowd-pleasing bites, your guests will be toasting and mingling from the first cheers to the last dance. For a breath of fresh air, step outside into our expansive beer garden—ideal for lawn games, cocktail hour, or a casual reception under the stars. Whether you're planning a full reception, rehearsal dinner, or wedding after-party, Other Half Buffalo offers a uniquely fun, urban venue with space to celebrate your way.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Pets can join the celebration
  • Multiple event spaces
  • Accommodates more than 200 guests

Venue considerations

  • No dedicated areas for getting ready
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Does not provide event staff
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The Powerhouse by The Rich Entertainment Group 
Buffalo, NY
  • Up to 600 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $24,000

Choosing the right caterer & venue is one of the biggest decisions you’ll make for your event. The food should be exquisite, the venue breathtaking, and the staff attentive. The Rich Entertainment Group caterer & event planning service in Buffalo, NY. Originally, The Schoellkopf Powerhouse was constructed in 1917 as a world leading manufacturer of dyes for the textile industry, fueling a century of engineering & industrial advancement. Today, it has found a second life as an epicenter of entertainment & commercial activity with a flexible 22,000 square foot event space, four patios, & incredible masonry detail. Our expansive menu and culinary flair are unrivaled in Buffalo. Our expert team pays attention to the latest trends in cuisine, technology, design and décor to offer you one-of-a-kind choices. From housemade, hand-passed hors d’oeuvres and innovative entrees, to fashionable linens, spectacular lighting, and all your rental needs, Leave the details to us. Go enjoy the moment.

Why you'll love this venue

  • All-inclusive venue packages
  • Wheelchair accessible
  • Handles all cleanup logistics

Venue considerations

  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • Does not allow pets
  • No on-site guest accommodations
Suncliff on the Lake LLC 
Derby, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $8,000

This lakeside boutique mansion offers a complete wedding experience. With its beautiful Lakeside Tent, incredible ballrooms, elegant grounds, SunCliff can truly accommodate your ceremony as well as rehearsal dinner, brunch, and lodging. Ceremonies and Receptions can be held in the Lakeside Tent or inside the Mansion. Invite all your family and friends to an intimate one-of-a-lifetime destination wedding on Lake Erie

Why you'll love this venue

  • Accommodates more than 200 guests
  • Has onsite accommodations
  • All-inclusive venue packages

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
  • On-site parking not available
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The Chalet At East Hill Creamery 
Perry, NY
  • Up to 184 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor

Our venue, The Chalet at East Hill Creamery, completed in 2017, is an impressive example of local craftsmanship with Alpine influences. Owners Gary and Betty Burley knew they wanted to create an event space for the community that incorporated the natural beauty of the lumber from their land and the bright openness you can only get in the country-side. Featuring Amish post-and-beam construction in red oak, hemlock, and white pine and huge colonial windows, our venue offers a lovely balance of woodsy charm and modern sophistication.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has an energetic and exciting atmosphere
  • Full catering menu to choose from
  • Dressing room available

Venue considerations

  • Does not provide event staff
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No free parking

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About wedding venues in Amherst, NY

Why is New York the Perfect Wedding Destination?

New York gives you incredible variety for your special day, from Manhattan's iconic skyline to the charming countryside of Upstate. You can enjoy timeless elegance at The Plaza Hotel with its grand ballrooms overlooking Central Park, or take in breathtaking panoramic views of Manhattan at Tribeca Rooftop. Brooklyn offers photography-friendly industrial-chic spaces like The Foundry with its character-filled exposed brick and factory windows. Head Upstate and you'll find City Winery Hudson Valley where your celebration unfolds against the backdrop of a working vineyard with mountain views that change beautifully with each season. April sees the most wedding inquiries in New York, showing just how many couples are drawn to the region during spring's beautiful blooming season.

What's the Reality of Wedding Costs in New York?

Expect to pay more for your New York wedding than the national average of $6,500-$12,000 for venues alone. New York venues typically cost around $16,709 which makes up about 22% of your total wedding budget. Your overall costs will vary based on how many guests you're hosting:

Guest CountTotal Wedding Budget
50 guests (small wedding)$32,316
100 guests$54,844
150 guests$76,011
200 guests$94,911
250 guests$113,810
300 guests (large wedding)$132,709

Your other major expenses will include catering at $13,367 (18%), bar services running $10,694 (14%), florals at $8,177 (11%), planners costing $6,044 (8%), photography at $5,119 (7%), videography at $4,622 (6%), entertainment at $2,298 (3%), cake and desserts at $1,067 (1%), and hair and makeup averaging $550 (1%).

How Do NYC Wedding Venues Compare to Upstate Locations?

NYC venues offer you urban sophistication with distinctive skyline views. At Tribeca Rooftop + 360° you'll enjoy floor-to-ceiling windows showcasing Manhattan panoramas while The Plaza presents opulent ballrooms featuring chandeliers ornate molding and gold accents. The 620 Loft & Garden gives you a stunning rooftop terrace overlooking St. Patrick's Cathedral and Fifth Avenue.

Upstate venues surround you with natural beauty and historic architecture. City Winery Hudson Valley welcomes you to a renovated factory featuring vaulted ceilings stone walls and vineyard views. You can host up to 350 guests here and customize your outdoor ceremony areas to create exactly the atmosphere you're dreaming of.

Which New York Venues Offer Outstanding Culinary Experiences?

You can treat your guests to Two Michelin star cuisine at Manhatta perched 60 floors high in the Financial District where Executive Chef Justin Bogle creates memorable dishes like hamachi and black truffle dumplings. The River Cafe in Brooklyn serves Michelin-starred cuisine featuring Hudson Valley foie gras and Nantucket Bay scallops with Brooklyn Bridge views right outside your window. For a farm-to-table experience Blue Hill at Stone Barns in Westchester County offers cuisine sourced directly from their on-site farm with their HayLoft space accommodating anywhere from 40 to 260 guests.

Where Can You Find Accessible Wedding Venues in New York?

For couples prioritizing accessibility 620 Loft & Garden offers customizable settings that can work with various needs though you'll want to confirm specific features during your planning. Prospect Park Boathouse and Central Park Conservatory Garden provide accessible options with proper pathways for all your guests. Always ask about specific accommodations like wheelchair ramps elevators and accessible restrooms when you're researching potential venues to ensure everyone can fully participate in your celebration.

How Can Guests Participate Remotely at New York Weddings?

Historic Manhattan venues can make remote guests feel included by incorporating virtual tours during ceremony breaks while Midtown Loft & Terrace supports interactive platforms that go beyond simple passive streaming. You might consider venues in Chelsea or SoHo that can enhance those famous skyline views with live streaming that includes interactive elements like virtual photobooths live chats or virtual toasts. These features help create genuine engagement for participants joining your special day from afar.

Why is New York the Perfect Wedding Destination?

New York gives you incredible variety for your special day, from Manhattan's iconic skyline to the charming countryside of Upstate. You can enjoy timeless elegance at The Plaza Hotel with its grand ballrooms overlooking Central Park, or take in breathtaking panoramic views of Manhattan at Tribeca Rooftop. Brooklyn offers photography-friendly industrial-chic spaces like The Foundry with its character-filled exposed brick and factory windows. Head Upstate and you'll find City Winery Hudson Valley where your celebration unfolds against the backdrop of a working vineyard with mountain views that change beautifully with each season. April sees the most wedding inquiries in New York, showing just how many couples are drawn to the region during spring's beautiful blooming season.

What's the Reality of Wedding Costs in New York?

Expect to pay more for your New York wedding than the national average of $6,500-$12,000 for venues alone. New York venues typically cost around $16,709 which makes up about 22% of your total wedding budget. Your overall costs will vary based on how many guests you're hosting:

Guest CountTotal Wedding Budget
50 guests (small wedding)$32,316
100 guests$54,844
150 guests$76,011
200 guests$94,911
250 guests$113,810
300 guests (large wedding)$132,709

Your other major expenses will include catering at $13,367 (18%), bar services running $10,694 (14%), florals at $8,177 (11%), planners costing $6,044 (8%), photography at $5,119 (7%), videography at $4,622 (6%), entertainment at $2,298 (3%), cake and desserts at $1,067 (1%), and hair and makeup averaging $550 (1%).

How Do NYC Wedding Venues Compare to Upstate Locations?

NYC venues offer you urban sophistication with distinctive skyline views. At Tribeca Rooftop + 360° you'll enjoy floor-to-ceiling windows showcasing Manhattan panoramas while The Plaza presents opulent ballrooms featuring chandeliers ornate molding and gold accents. The 620 Loft & Garden gives you a stunning rooftop terrace overlooking St. Patrick's Cathedral and Fifth Avenue.

Upstate venues surround you with natural beauty and historic architecture. City Winery Hudson Valley welcomes you to a renovated factory featuring vaulted ceilings stone walls and vineyard views. You can host up to 350 guests here and customize your outdoor ceremony areas to create exactly the atmosphere you're dreaming of.

Which New York Venues Offer Outstanding Culinary Experiences?

You can treat your guests to Two Michelin star cuisine at Manhatta perched 60 floors high in the Financial District where Executive Chef Justin Bogle creates memorable dishes like hamachi and black truffle dumplings. The River Cafe in Brooklyn serves Michelin-starred cuisine featuring Hudson Valley foie gras and Nantucket Bay scallops with Brooklyn Bridge views right outside your window. For a farm-to-table experience Blue Hill at Stone Barns in Westchester County offers cuisine sourced directly from their on-site farm with their HayLoft space accommodating anywhere from 40 to 260 guests.

Where Can You Find Accessible Wedding Venues in New York?

For couples prioritizing accessibility 620 Loft & Garden offers customizable settings that can work with various needs though you'll want to confirm specific features during your planning. Prospect Park Boathouse and Central Park Conservatory Garden provide accessible options with proper pathways for all your guests. Always ask about specific accommodations like wheelchair ramps elevators and accessible restrooms when you're researching potential venues to ensure everyone can fully participate in your celebration.

How Can Guests Participate Remotely at New York Weddings?

Historic Manhattan venues can make remote guests feel included by incorporating virtual tours during ceremony breaks while Midtown Loft & Terrace supports interactive platforms that go beyond simple passive streaming. You might consider venues in Chelsea or SoHo that can enhance those famous skyline views with live streaming that includes interactive elements like virtual photobooths live chats or virtual toasts. These features help create genuine engagement for participants joining your special day from afar.

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