The Best Wedding Venues in Riverhead, NY

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4 Wedding Venues in Riverhead, NY

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Bourne Mansion 
Rating: 4.7 (90 reviews)
·Ratings include Zola and Google reviews
Oakdale, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor

This historic Vanderbilt mansion is a turn-of-the-century work of art that offers a traditional and classic setting for the grandest black tie affairs. From lawn events hosting over 1,000 guests, to weddings and corporate affairs hosting 300 guests, Bourne Mansion personifies luxury and grandeur and the elaborate celebrations of yesteryear. Bourne Mansion is conveniently located, only 90 minutes from New York City, yet worlds away.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Offers full-service amenities
  • Classic elegance
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Best for events with big guest lists
Awarded Best of Zola
“We got married 1/5/25 but had been working with Miriam for probably a year and a half before our big day. She was always so personable with us a treated us like family. Words cannot describe the love and care we felt from Jake, our maître D and Samantha, our bridal attendant, on our wedding day. We were cared for tediously and effortlessly. We felt like at ease, happy and totally relaxed. I needed Samantha and didn’t even know it, I am forever indebted to her - she could not have been more attentive and wonderful. Comforting me, assuring me, getting me where I need to be and when. So friendly, kind and amazing. Thank god for Jake. He is so special and we’re so lucky we got him as our maître D. He deems himself as a “yes man” and he is not lying. Anything you could have ever wanted from him, he’d deliver. We wanted for nothing, had wonderful direction from him all night and he took care of EVERYTHING!  The night was flawless, amazing, perfect and all we could have ever hoped for. The staff at Bourne is unmatched, we made the right choice with this venue. Guests will be in awe of the venue and talk about the food for years to come. I wish I could do it all again. Thank you Bourne mansion & staff for the best night of our lives! I don’t have all my pics back yet!”
Sara C., 2 years ago
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Atlantis Banquets & Events 
Rating: 5.0 (3 reviews)
Riverhead, NY
  • Up to 350 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $105

Atlantis Banquets & Events can accommodate your wedding for 50 to 340 guests in one of nine diverse locations including the modern and beautiful Sea Star Ballroom with sweeping views of the Treasure Cove Resort Marina and Peconic River. The Coliseum Room is another perfect venue located within the Long Island Aquarium, which houses our most captivating and colorful aquatic habitats. Your ceremony can take place outside, in the Riverside Pavilion just on the banks of the river, or in the Grand Foyer of the Sea Star Ballroom, with beautiful marble features and a stunning Chihuly-inspired glass chandelier. An event like no other, only Atlantis Banquets & Events can bring the element of nature to your wedding with photo sessions including our penguins, sea lions, sharks or within our indoor and always tropical Butterfly Garden.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides a dedicated team on-site
  • Bridal suite on site
  • Handles all cleanup logistics

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No built-in audiovisual options
  • Does not allow pets
“Atlantis Banquets & Events was an absolute dream to work with for our wedding! Their communication style was effective, easy, and accommodating - they really listened to us and made sure our vision came to life. The quality of their work and value was exceptional, with a beautiful, big ballroom and 10/10 food. The fact that there was a hotel right next door was the icing on the cake. My Maitre D Christina was beyond great, and my bridal attendant Maddy made the day run so smoothly - I didn't know about any hiccups, which is exactly what you want! I highly recommend asking for Joanne LaRosa when booking, and requesting Christina K as your Maitre D and Maddy as your bridal attendant. They will make sure your special day is perfect from start to finish.”
Christina West and J., 8 months ago
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The Vineyards at Aquebogue 
Rating: 4.7 (73 reviews)
·Ratings include Zola and Google reviews
Aquebogue, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $14,100

Nestled on the North Fork of Long Island, The Vineyards at Aquebogue provides a captivating setting at any time of year for your next event. Whether it be your dream wedding, an intimate celebration or corporate event, we will make your dreams come true.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Versatile for various event styles
  • Provides a dedicated team on-site
  • All-inclusive venue packages

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
Awarded Best of Zola
“I truly can't say enough good things about our experience at The Vineyards at Aquebogue. From our very first tour, we were blown away, not just by how beautiful the venue is, but by the exceptional service we received from Kate and Emily. Kate alone made such an incredible impression during that first visit that we immediately knew this was the place for us. Throughout the entire planning process, both Kate and Emily went above and beyond. They were always accommodating, responsive, and genuinely kind. No question was too small, and no request was ever a problem. Their professionalism and warmth made what could have been a stressful experience feel effortless. On the day of our wedding, they made sure everything ran perfectly. We were able to truly relax and enjoy every moment, knowing they had everything under control. The venue looked absolutely stunning, the service was impeccable and our guests are still raving about how amazing it was! Thanks to The Vineyards at Aquebogue and their outstanding team, our wedding day was everything we dreamed of and more. We couldn’t have imagined getting married anywhere else. If you're looking for a breathtaking venue with a team that genuinely cares, look no further.”
Jacqui & A., a year ago
East Wind Long Island 
Rating: 4.6 (8 reviews)
Wading River, NY
  • Up to 1000 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $12,000

East Wind Long Island is an award-winning catering facility situated on 26 lush acres of the North Fork, where you find a venue for any size or style event. For your "one wedding at a time" experience, our ALL NEW VINEYARD with picturesque grounds offering a romantic, rustic setting, or experience luxurious elegance at the Estate, where the space is exclusively yours for the day. For a stately soiree, the Inn features Grand Ballroom and the Newly renovated Veranda. East Wind is a destination, with a luxury hotel, a 10,000 square foot full-service Spa & Salon, Desmond’s Restaurant, just right for the rehearsal dinner and breakfast buffet. The Shoppes, just a few steps away, offer impressive array of retailers and Ruggero's Family Style Italian Restaurant with a grand carousel right outside the front door for a perfect photo backdrop. East Wind caters to all cultural, ethnic and LGBT wedding clients with many inclusive package options. It's the perfect destination to say “I do”!

Why you'll love this venue

  • All-inclusive venue packages
  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Provides event staff

Venue considerations

  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • Does not allow pets
  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
“After trips to other different venues, I knew East Wind was for us. The venue was rustic and beautiful. Jen McLaughlin, our sales rep, was awesome and consistent throughout the whole process. Very sweet, pleasant, communicative, prompt and was reliable regarding concerns I have. Fast forward to our wedding day, 12/8, it was perfect and everything I could ask for. Reid, the maitre d, took over and made everything seamless. Placed all my DIY decorations as they should be and more, turned my vision to reality. Very mellow guy. Patient, sweet, chill and very attentive to our needs. Our wedding party loved him! And Barbara, our bridal attendant, what a doll! Very nurturing presence. She was very lowkey and whatever I asked help for, it was magically done right away. I asked for food or drink, done. Honestly, all the staff had been awesome to us, including the bartenders, the waiters. It was perfect, none that gave us headaches at all. And the food. Our guests couldn't stop raving about it. It was delicious and never ending. I wanted to attend to any wedding at East Wind just to have a great dinner and experience everything again. Thankful for this bunch! ️️”
Gem G., 2 years ago

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About wedding venues in Riverhead, NY

Why is New York the Perfect Wedding Destination?

New York gives you incredible variety for your special day, from Manhattan's iconic skyline to the charming countryside of Upstate. You can enjoy timeless elegance at The Plaza Hotel with its grand ballrooms overlooking Central Park, or take in breathtaking panoramic views of Manhattan at Tribeca Rooftop. Brooklyn offers photography-friendly industrial-chic spaces like The Foundry with its character-filled exposed brick and factory windows. Head Upstate and you'll find City Winery Hudson Valley where your celebration unfolds against the backdrop of a working vineyard with mountain views that change beautifully with each season. April sees the most wedding inquiries in New York, showing just how many couples are drawn to the region during spring's beautiful blooming season.

What's the Reality of Wedding Costs in New York?

Expect to pay more for your New York wedding than the national average of $6,500-$12,000 for venues alone. New York venues typically cost around $16,709 which makes up about 22% of your total wedding budget. Your overall costs will vary based on how many guests you're hosting:

Guest CountTotal Wedding Budget
50 guests (small wedding)$32,316
100 guests$54,844
150 guests$76,011
200 guests$94,911
250 guests$113,810
300 guests (large wedding)$132,709

Your other major expenses will include catering at $13,367 (18%), bar services running $10,694 (14%), florals at $8,177 (11%), planners costing $6,044 (8%), photography at $5,119 (7%), videography at $4,622 (6%), entertainment at $2,298 (3%), cake and desserts at $1,067 (1%), and hair and makeup averaging $550 (1%).

How Do NYC Wedding Venues Compare to Upstate Locations?

NYC venues offer you urban sophistication with distinctive skyline views. At Tribeca Rooftop + 360° you'll enjoy floor-to-ceiling windows showcasing Manhattan panoramas while The Plaza presents opulent ballrooms featuring chandeliers ornate molding and gold accents. The 620 Loft & Garden gives you a stunning rooftop terrace overlooking St. Patrick's Cathedral and Fifth Avenue. Upstate venues surround you with natural beauty and historic architecture. City Winery Hudson Valley welcomes you to a renovated factory featuring vaulted ceilings stone walls and vineyard views. You can host up to 350 guests here and customize your outdoor ceremony areas to create exactly the atmosphere you're dreaming of.

Which New York Venues Offer Outstanding Culinary Experiences?

You can treat your guests to Two Michelin star cuisine at Manhatta perched 60 floors high in the Financial District where Executive Chef Justin Bogle creates memorable dishes like hamachi and black truffle dumplings. The River Cafe in Brooklyn serves Michelin-starred cuisine featuring Hudson Valley foie gras and Nantucket Bay scallops with Brooklyn Bridge views right outside your window. For a farm-to-table experience Blue Hill at Stone Barns in Westchester County offers cuisine sourced directly from their on-site farm with their HayLoft space accommodating anywhere from 40 to 260 guests.

Where Can You Find Accessible Wedding Venues in New York?

For couples prioritizing accessibility 620 Loft & Garden offers customizable settings that can work with various needs though you'll want to confirm specific features during your planning. Prospect Park Boathouse and Central Park Conservatory Garden provide accessible options with proper pathways for all your guests. Always ask about specific accommodations like wheelchair ramps elevators and accessible restrooms when you're researching potential venues to ensure everyone can fully participate in your celebration.

How Can Guests Participate Remotely at New York Weddings?

Historic Manhattan venues can make remote guests feel included by incorporating virtual tours during ceremony breaks while Midtown Loft & Terrace supports interactive platforms that go beyond simple passive streaming. You might consider venues in Chelsea or SoHo that can enhance those famous skyline views with live streaming that includes interactive elements like virtual photobooths live chats or virtual toasts. These features help create genuine engagement for participants joining your special day from afar.

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