The Best Historic Estate & Mansion Wedding Venues in Ellendale, DE

The Best Historic Estate & Mansion Wedding Venues in Ellendale, DE

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13 Wedding Venues in Ellendale, DE

Historic estates, mansions
150-200 guests
Available on May 30, 2026
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The Farmhouse 

5.0

  • Up to 190 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $7,500

Conveniently located in Wilmington, Delaware, The Farmhouse is family owned and operated and hosts one event per day. The historical estate boasts a beautiful outdoor ceremony site underneath romantic willow trees & four acres of manicured grounds and gardens. Hosting up to 190 guests, the Farmhouse offers numerous indoor spaces for your event including the bright and open main terrace hall, indoor lounge and bar, dressing suites and more. Outside, a large wrap around deck and patio overlook the gazebo bar & gardens. The Farmhouse is proud to be a women-owned business, still managed by the fourth generation of the Murray family. As a small family-run business, the Farmhouse provides a personal touch and flexibility in hosting your dream wedding.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Lush gardens
  • Pets can join the celebration
  • Dressing room available

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
  • No built-in audiovisual options
  • Not for you if you prefer a more modern aesthetic
Awarded Best of Zola
The Farmhouse was an absolute dream to work with for our wedding. From our very first interaction, their communication was great, easy, and thoughtful - they made us feel at ease and confident that all would be taken care of. The quality of their work was beautiful, timeless, and elegant, creating an atmosphere that was perfect for our special day. They were attentive to any need we had to ensure a smooth, seamless experience. We couldn't recommend The Farmhouse more highly - book them for your wedding, you won't regret it!
Dana and A., 6 months ago
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Bellevue Hall 

5.0

  • Up to 250 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor

This notable estate is truly a one-of-a-kind property at which to host your wedding celebration. The mansion was built in the 1850’s and is the former home of William DuPont Sr. and his family. Your ceremony can be held on the sprawling lawn alongside a charming gazebo and gorgeous perennial garden. An elegant reception then follows beneath a pristine clear outdoor tent or, for a more intimate crowd, in one of the mansion’s luxurious indoor rooms. Bellevue Hall features stylish dining rooms, elaborate marble fireplaces, a sophisticated wood-paneled library, and an enormous central foyer with a grand staircase. Celebrate your happy occasion at Bellevue Hall. It’s sure to be a memorable event!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Space for a large guest list
  • Both indoor and outdoor options
  • Dressing room available

Venue considerations

  • Dance floor not included
  • No on-premises lodging options
  • Does not allow pets
I have photographed multiple weddings at Bellevue Hall, and it is by far one of my favorite venues to work at! The property is gorgeous, the mansion makes such a stunning backdrop for getting-ready portraits and cocktail hour, and even the outdoor reception tent is beautiful! I love watching the horses frolic while the most stunning sunsets fall behind the reception tent. The venue and catering staff are the best in the industry and treat all couples, guests, and vendors like royalty. And the food is absolutely delicious! If you want to have a seamless wedding day where you are able to fully focus on celebrating with your loved ones, look no further!
Carrie Kizuka, 2 years ago
Sunnybrae Mansion 

5.0

Milford, DE
  • Up to 400 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor

Sunnybrae Mansion offers a historic and elegant setting for weddings. The venue features grand architecture, beautifully landscaped grounds, and a stately atmosphere. Sunnybrae Mansion's commitment to personalized service and attention to detail ensures a timeless and sophisticated celebration for couples and their guests.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Offers convenient lodging options
  • Accommodates more than 200 guests
  • Historic touches

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Limited cleanup and setup services
  • Not for you if you prefer a more modern aesthetic
We recently got married at Sunnybrae and it is a beautifully stunning mansion. There are so many spots to take gorgeous photos. Having the mansion for the entire weekend with 9 bedrooms was the perfect solution for our out of town wedding. We absolutely recommend Sunnybrae to have the wedding of your dreams!
Caitlyn, 6 months ago
Eagle Manor 

5.0

Bridgeton, NJ
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $8,950

Eagle Manor is a pre-colonial waterfront estate built in 1736 that boasts 10 bedrooms with fireplaces and marble bathrooms. The acres of waterfront lawn are ideal for wedding ceremonies while the expansive 2300 sq. ft. river deck is perfect for cocktail hours. Our cathedral size historic dairy barn is ideal for rustic receptions. Eagle Manor is more picturesque than most parks, with peacocks and other ornamental birds roaming the grounds. Great images can be taken from the river deck, the waterfront lawn, the historic dairy barn, and any number of our freshwater ponds. Our spacious grounds do not limit your guest count and give the perfect background to your celebration.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides catering services
  • Has a fun and festive vibe
  • Space for a large guest list

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • Lighting and sound are not included
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
Our wedding was 11/01/2025, Eagle Manor was the perfect venue for our wedding day! The staff was incredibly kind and responsive, providing quick feedback to any questions we had. This NJ hidden gem is truly a rustic and beautiful place. They allowed us to rent out the venue for an extra few nights, and made sure everything ran smoothly while always communicating with us. Such a special, magical place - my husband and I will forever cherish the memories we made at Eagle Manor! Everyone loved the food and the stunning views, it felt like a vacation as well as our wedding! We have absolutely no complaints. This is an absolute must-see venue for any couple planning their wedding!
Leah C., a month ago
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The Deauville Inn 

4.6

Strathmere, NJ
  • Up to 260 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor
  • Starts at $180

Located on Ludlam islands bayside, you will find one of the most amazing and well-kept secrets on the jersey shore, the Deauville Inn. Nestled between sea isle city and ocean city, it faces some of the most amazing sunsets you have ever seen. The Deauville Inn is a full-service facility featuring 6 distinct environments to accommodate any event. Our state-of-the-art a/v system, multifaceted culinary team, and expertly trained staff are standard at the Deauville Inn. This incredible facility is perfect for your wedding, reception, or rehearsal dinner. Please allow our team the opportunity of hosting your next unforgettable event.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Space for a large guest list
  • Provides catering services
  • Venue is completely outdoors

Venue considerations

  • No on-premises lodging options
  • Does not allow pets
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
I know what you’re thinking — isn’t that a restaurant? It is, but it’s also one of the most amazing wedding venues you could ever dream of. From the very first meeting, you’ll work with Judy, the event manager, and let me tell you, she is a true rockstar. Judy doesn’t just help plan your day; she makes the impossible possible. Every idea I threw her way, no matter how out-of-the-box, she brought to life. I wanted a roaming cannoli bar — I got it. I wanted drinks served out of a canoe and a freshly shucked oyster bar — I got those too. Nothing was too big, too small, or too complicated for her. She is hands down one of the hardest-working, most detail-oriented people you will ever meet. The food? Absolutely phenomenal. It wasn’t just your standard “wedding food” — it was fresh, flavorful, and truly unique to the Deauville experience. Weeks later, our guests are still raving about how it was some of the best food they’ve ever had at a wedding. And the location itself? Unmatched. There’s something so magical about being right on the water — it feels both relaxed and elegant at the same time. When I first toured, Judy told me, “The night will already be memorable because of the location.” She couldn’t have been more right. Between the setting sun, the ocean breeze, and the warm glow of the venue, it was beyond anything I could have imagined. It was, without a doubt, the most amazing venue we could have ever chosen. 10/10 recommend — if you’re even considering it, stop thinking and just book it.
Julia P., 3 months ago
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Kent Island Resort 

4.0

Stevensville, MD
  • Up to 275 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $6,000

Situated on Maryland’s Eastern Shore, Kent Island Resort welcomes guests with a historic manor house and sprawling countryside, perfect for landmark celebrations. Tailored wedding packages, three elegant venues, celebrated chefs, and a dedicated team ensure unforgettable moments—whether it’s an intimate affair or a grand celebration. The Resort boasts exclusivity, modern sophistication, waterfront views, boating activities, hiking trails, cycling, and luxurious onsite amenities. Located just an hour from Washington, D.C., Kent Island Resort offers outstanding service and memorable experiences.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Allows pets
  • Historic touches
  • All-inclusive venue packages

Venue considerations

  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • Dance floor not included
  • On-site parking not available
From start to finish, the team at Kent Island Resort was incredibly responsive and organized, ensuring our wedding day went smoothly. Mackenzie was there to answer any questions we had throughout the entire process, and we felt heard and understood when it came to bringing our vision to life. The simple elegance and beauty of the venue were exactly what we were looking for, and the Kent Island Resort team executed it perfectly!! We could not have asked for anything more from this wonderful team - our wedding day was truly magical thanks to their hard work and attention to detail.
Carlie D., a year ago
The Southern Mansion 
Cape May, NJ
  • Up to 150 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $11,175

The Southern Mansion is set on 1.5 acres of private tree-lined grounds, this architectural masterpiece boasts luxurious and spacious guest rooms, exquisite mahogany woodwork, intricately carved crown moldings, soaring fifteen feet ceilings, giant gilded mirrors, grand ballrooms, and 5,000 square feet of verandahs. A Victorian Cape May B&B. Circa 1863 the Mansion has been restored impeccably, winning national and local awards for its beauty. No other Cape May Inn offers such comforts and amenities available. With millions of dollars worth of antiques, a stay is “not to be missed” and its the “only place to stay in Cape May” (The New York Times). Southern Mansion is perfect for Cape May Weddings or Corporate Retreats.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Classic, vintage atmosphere
  • Caters to out-of-town guests
  • Has a dance floor for celebration

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • No built-in audiovisual options
  • Not wheelchair accessible
The Brandon Estate 
Parsonsburg, MD
  • Up to 600 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $15,000

Founded in 2003, the gated-entry Brandon Estate is a cherished and prized estate of the Brandon Family. An Fierm, which translates to “The Farm” in Irish, was originally a smaller four bedroom house, primarily used as a getaway cabin and romantic escape. Over the years, the Brandons added over 3000 square feet of living space and amenities including a great room, a stone wood-burning fireplace, a wine cellar, a pool, a game room, and a private balcony overlooking the estate. The mansion is now well over 5000 square feet- comprised of 6 bedrooms, 7 bathrooms, and a stunning designer kitchen. All in all, the mansion can sleep 16 people comfortably. With over 300 acres of private farm land, 200 acres of which is farmed crop. Loaded with scenic walking trails, barns, fresh water fish-stocked ponds, canoes, a stone chapel, and rolling landscape- the property is sure to keep you busy during your stay!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Allows pets
  • Caters to out-of-town guests
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away

Venue considerations

  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Not for you if you prefer a more modern aesthetic
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The Oaks 
Easton, MD
  • Up to 250 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $75,000

Say “I Do” on Maryland’s Eastern Shore. The setting is magical and entirely yours. The Oaks and its grounds become a private preserve for you, your wedding party, and your guests. It’s all yours on the evening before, the day of, and the morning after your waterfront wedding. The meticulously landscaped grounds of our waterfront wedding venue in Maryland offer a wide variety of outdoor activities in a relaxing setting. The wedding celebration itself becomes part of enduring memories, tailored just to accommodate your preferences… and how you’ve always dreamed your wedding should be.

Why you'll love this venue

  • All-inclusive venue packages
  • Provides catering services
  • Provides event staff

Venue considerations

  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • On-site parking not available
  • Not wheelchair accessible
Brittland Manor/ River Lodge 
Chestertown, MD
  • Up to 400 guests
  • Raw space
  • Outdoor
  • Starts at $45,000

Historic mansion, river vistas and forever fields, the world of Brittland personifies an old world luxury elegance in a rural setting. The hilltop setting commands magnificent views of the Chester River. Brittland Manor gives the discerning couple a series of settings and moods to create their distinctive celebration. This secluded mansion has a garden, pool, wildlife pond, 530 riverside acres, and woodside fields. A waterfront cottage perfectly compliments the 530 acre Brittland Manor estate. It offers a rustic riverside setting for ceremony and/or a rehearsal dinner.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Wheelchair accessible
  • Rustic yet refined style
  • Surrounded by nature

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • No venue-provided food services
  • Does not have a dance floor
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Deep Blue at Kitty Knight 
Galena, MD
  • Up to 200 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $8,250

Our historic establishment is dedicated to providing an exquisite setting for all wedding-related occasions, including showers, welcome parties, rehearsal dinners, and more. Whether you envision an indoor affair accommodating up to 125 guests or an enchanting outdoor celebration for 150+ guests, both options offer stunning views of the Sassafras River. Our dedicated team is committed to ensuring that every detail of your event is flawlessly executed. We offer our guests a comprehensive wedding package, which can be further tailored to meet the unique requirements of their special day. From menus to personalized touches, we strive to exceed expectations and create unforgettable memories for you and your loved ones. To add to the historical experience, our 18th-century historic Kitty Knight Inn is located on the property and is available for guests to stay in. The inn has 11 recently updated rooms but still keep their historic charm that we are so well known for.

Why you'll love this venue

  • All-inclusive venue packages
  • Caters to out-of-town guests
  • Provides setup and cleanup

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • On-site parking not available
Stepne Manor 
Chestertown, MD
  • Up to 250 guests
  • Raw space
  • Outdoor

Brittland Estates embraces a collection of heritage properties located in the historic Chestertown area of Maryland's Eastern Shore. Its distinctive properties are rich with history, expansive settings from fields to rivers, and a rural sophistication. Each property is an ideal venue for weddings, small retreats and meetings, reunions, and get-a-ways. Stepne Manor is a marvelous property. Boasting a front porch that looks out onto the expansive lawns, there is a cultivated sophistication to the building’s exterior. After you have been joined in matrimony at your outdoor ceremony, make your way indoors to delight at the interiors. Here, there is a great deal to appreciate. Stepne Manor’s dining room provides space for you and your guests to sit and eat, while the kitchen affords any hired culinary staff with an ideal preparation base. The great room, den, and sun porch provide ample room for everyone to kick back, relax, and enjoy the festivities.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Wheelchair accessible
  • Caters to out-of-town guests
  • Raw space for complete customization

Venue considerations

  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
  • No on-site bridal suite
  • Does not allow pets

Location flexible? Discover venues near Ellendale, DE

About wedding venues in Ellendale, DE

Why Choose Delaware for Your Wedding Celebration?

Delaware packs exceptional wedding venues into its compact size, giving you access to stunning waterfront settings along the Chesapeake Bay, historic mansions with roots in the 18th century and charming rural farm estates featuring centuries-old barns. You'll appreciate Delaware's strategic location that makes it easy for your guests traveling from Philadelphia, Baltimore and Washington DC to attend without you having to pay the premium prices these metropolitan areas command.

What Does a Typical Delaware Wedding Cost?

Planning a wedding with 150 guests in Delaware? You'll want to budget around $38,281 with venue costs averaging $4,622 which represents about 12% of your total wedding budget.

Here's what you can expect to spend based on guest count:

  • 50 guests (small wedding): $17,057
  • 100 guests: $27,995
  • 150 guests: $38,281
  • 200 guests: $47,482
  • 250 guests: $56,683
  • 300 guests (large wedding): $65,884

Where Can You Find Delaware's Most Beautiful Venues?

You'll discover Delaware's wedding venues clustered in three main regions across the state. In Northern Delaware and the Wilmington Area you can celebrate at Hotel Du Pont with its ornate chandeliers European-inspired architecture and century-old craftsmanship or choose Winterthur Museum & Country Estate featuring 60 acres of breathtaking naturalistic gardens. The Delaware Beaches offer perfect settings for couples dreaming of waterfront celebrations with panoramic bay views and beachfront ceremony spaces. If you head to Southern Delaware you'll find The Farmhouse with its 1800s architecture massive timber beams and multiple outdoor ceremony sites nestled within lush gardens.

Which Delaware Venues Offer Accessibility Features?

You can count on Hilton Wilmington/Christiana for wheelchair accessibility throughout all spaces along with stylish event rooms and customizable packages that fit your vision. The Clubhouse at Baywood gives you wheelchair-accessible pathways connecting all ceremony sites to reception spaces and accommodates up to 250 guests with both indoor and outdoor options so everyone in your party can fully participate in your celebration.

How Can Delaware Venues Enhance Remote Participation?

Juniper by Tonic in Wilmington offers you contemporary design with floor-to-ceiling windows creating an ideal backdrop for incorporating interactive live streaming and digital platforms that bring distant loved ones into your celebration. At Hagley Museum you'll enjoy historic charm with lush gardens where virtual attendees can experience 360-degree views of your special day. Winterthur Museum & Country Estate can help you integrate virtual tours of its vast gardens and galleries for remote guests making them feel included in all aspects of your wedding day.

Which Delaware Venues Offer Outstanding Culinary Experiences?

You'll love Juniper by Tonic's famous seafood and steak options served in a chic dining atmosphere that impresses even the most discerning guests. Deerfield Golf Club near White Clay Creek State Park delivers refined catering options and comprehensive culinary experiences that can be tailored to your preferences. Hotel Du Pont provides you with luxurious dining experiences in a prestigious setting where every detail is crafted to enhance your celebration.

When Should You Book Your Delaware Wedding Venue?

You need to book Delaware venues about 16 months (484 days) before your wedding date with October being the most competitive month requiring even earlier planning. If you're eyeing prime Saturday dates in May June September or October you should move quickly as these book first especially at historic properties with limited weekend availability.

What Seasonal Considerations Matter for Delaware Weddings?

Spring weddings let you showcase Delaware's flowering landscapes while fall ceremonies feature dramatic foliage creating vibrant backdrops for your photos. Summer beach weddings give you extended daylight for stunning sunset photography opportunities. Winter celebrations benefit from existing holiday décor at venues like Hotel Du Pont and often come with attractive off-season pricing at waterfront properties that might otherwise be beyond your budget.

Why Choose Delaware for Your Wedding Celebration?

Delaware packs exceptional wedding venues into its compact size, giving you access to stunning waterfront settings along the Chesapeake Bay, historic mansions with roots in the 18th century and charming rural farm estates featuring centuries-old barns. You'll appreciate Delaware's strategic location that makes it easy for your guests traveling from Philadelphia, Baltimore and Washington DC to attend without you having to pay the premium prices these metropolitan areas command.

What Does a Typical Delaware Wedding Cost?

Planning a wedding with 150 guests in Delaware? You'll want to budget around $38,281 with venue costs averaging $4,622 which represents about 12% of your total wedding budget.

Here's what you can expect to spend based on guest count:

  • 50 guests (small wedding): $17,057
  • 100 guests: $27,995
  • 150 guests: $38,281
  • 200 guests: $47,482
  • 250 guests: $56,683
  • 300 guests (large wedding): $65,884

Where Can You Find Delaware's Most Beautiful Venues?

You'll discover Delaware's wedding venues clustered in three main regions across the state. In Northern Delaware and the Wilmington Area you can celebrate at Hotel Du Pont with its ornate chandeliers European-inspired architecture and century-old craftsmanship or choose Winterthur Museum & Country Estate featuring 60 acres of breathtaking naturalistic gardens. The Delaware Beaches offer perfect settings for couples dreaming of waterfront celebrations with panoramic bay views and beachfront ceremony spaces. If you head to Southern Delaware you'll find The Farmhouse with its 1800s architecture massive timber beams and multiple outdoor ceremony sites nestled within lush gardens.

Which Delaware Venues Offer Accessibility Features?

You can count on Hilton Wilmington/Christiana for wheelchair accessibility throughout all spaces along with stylish event rooms and customizable packages that fit your vision. The Clubhouse at Baywood gives you wheelchair-accessible pathways connecting all ceremony sites to reception spaces and accommodates up to 250 guests with both indoor and outdoor options so everyone in your party can fully participate in your celebration.

How Can Delaware Venues Enhance Remote Participation?

Juniper by Tonic in Wilmington offers you contemporary design with floor-to-ceiling windows creating an ideal backdrop for incorporating interactive live streaming and digital platforms that bring distant loved ones into your celebration. At Hagley Museum you'll enjoy historic charm with lush gardens where virtual attendees can experience 360-degree views of your special day. Winterthur Museum & Country Estate can help you integrate virtual tours of its vast gardens and galleries for remote guests making them feel included in all aspects of your wedding day.

Which Delaware Venues Offer Outstanding Culinary Experiences?

You'll love Juniper by Tonic's famous seafood and steak options served in a chic dining atmosphere that impresses even the most discerning guests. Deerfield Golf Club near White Clay Creek State Park delivers refined catering options and comprehensive culinary experiences that can be tailored to your preferences. Hotel Du Pont provides you with luxurious dining experiences in a prestigious setting where every detail is crafted to enhance your celebration.

When Should You Book Your Delaware Wedding Venue?

You need to book Delaware venues about 16 months (484 days) before your wedding date with October being the most competitive month requiring even earlier planning. If you're eyeing prime Saturday dates in May June September or October you should move quickly as these book first especially at historic properties with limited weekend availability.

What Seasonal Considerations Matter for Delaware Weddings?

Spring weddings let you showcase Delaware's flowering landscapes while fall ceremonies feature dramatic foliage creating vibrant backdrops for your photos. Summer beach weddings give you extended daylight for stunning sunset photography opportunities. Winter celebrations benefit from existing holiday décor at venues like Hotel Du Pont and often come with attractive off-season pricing at waterfront properties that might otherwise be beyond your budget.

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