The Best Barn & Farm Wedding Venues in Cato, NY

The Best Barn & Farm Wedding Venues in Cato, NY

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15 Wedding Venues in Cato, NY

Farms, barns, ranches
150-200 guests
Available on May 30, 2026
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The Barrack's Inn 

5.0

  • Up to 230 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $5,000

We are an upscale wedding venue with both inside and outside seating located directly on picturesque Lake Ontario with our 1600 square foot dock over it. The Barrack’s Inn stone center building was the first building built in the War of 1812 to be the bakery. It is on the historic national register. Inside we can seat 150 people, while outside we can seat an additional 100 people. We are happy to make any and all food requests and we feature all-inclusive packages which include: flowers, table decorating, music, photography, cake and desserts, ceremony, favors and all food and beverages.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Rustic charm with elegance
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away
  • Allows pets

Venue considerations

  • No on-site bridal suite
  • No on-premises lodging options
  • On-site parking not available
Awarded Best of Zola
We had our wedding at The Barracks Inn last month (Labor Day 2022). What a beautiful venue, the view can't be beat, the reception/dinner room is beautiful, the food was wonderful. And the drinks were perfect! The owner was so accommodating with all of my quirky plans - never complained, listened to what we wanted and made it all happen. We are picky so this is really something. The sound system is great - really over the top from what you would normally expect. Dancing on the beautiful deck that sits out on the water was heaven. We could have danced until dawn. I heartily recommend this venue and Kim (the owner) as "the" place to have your wedding, anniversary party, birthday party, or just a party party! You will be very pleased with the whole process.
Elise Ambrose & J., 3 years ago
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The Rosemary at Spano Lake 

5.0

  • Up to 200 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor
  • Starts at $6,000

Discover The Rosemary at Spano Lake - the latest addition to Upstate New York's stunning outdoor wedding and events venues. Just a short drive from the historical town of Cooperstown, The Rosemary offers a picturesque setting for your special occasion. Encompassing a vast expanse of 325 acres, this private waterfront location is surrounded by breathtaking natural beauty, making it the perfect choice for your wedding or private gathering. Experience the magic of a secluded and intimate celebration beside the tranquil waters of our private lake, creating unforgettable moments that will be treasured forever.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a dance floor for celebration
  • Pets can join the celebration
  • Bridal suite on site

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you don't want a rustic vibe
  • Requires outside catering services
  • No on-premises lodging options
Awarded Best of Zola
The Rosemary at Spano Lake is the perfect venue! Jackie and Dan are the kindest, most thoughtful owners you'll come across. I have not only been lucky enough to photograph an engagement session, senior session, and a wedding here, but also attend a wedding and host an event. My experiences both as a photographer and as a guest have been incredible. You can feel the love that Jackie and Dan have for making sure their couple's wedding day is nothing short of perfect. Truly, a fairytale wedding venue in the heart of Upstate NY!
Mary Kathleen P., 7 months ago
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Curtis Manor Oswego NY 

5.0

Oswego, NY
  • Up to 275 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $3,500

Curtis Manor is a rustic barn venue located in Oswego, New York. This newly renovated dairy homestead offers everything you'll need for a picturesque, nature-inspired event. With a young apple orchard, pond, and several elegant indoor spaces from which to choose, it is an ideal place for family reunions, weddings, community events, corporate meetings, or team-building events both large and small. The relaxed environment and accommodating spaces fit both formal events and casual get-together events. No matter what your event vision may be, choose Curtis Manor to make it come to life.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Wheelchair accessible
  • Multiple event spaces
  • Space for a large guest list

Venue considerations

  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • Does not allow pets
  • Not for you if you're looking for a sleek and contemporary space
Throughout the whole wedding process Sharon Abbi and Erin have been amazing to work with. Every question I’ve had they had answered within a reasonable time frame. They have such beautiful decorations to choose from. They also set up and break down most things. The staff is just as fun. One server was dancing with us while working and it was a blast. They definitely made my wedding process and wedding everything i could have asked for. If you are looking for a barn style wedding this should be on your list.
Haley C., 9 months ago
Arlington Acres 

5.0

Lafayette, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $3,000

We're more than just a wedding venue. When you choose Arlington Acres, you're continuing the 150 year tradition of creating memories on our family farm. From your first tour, you'll notice the difference in the care, passion and personal attention we provide all our couples.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Both indoor and outdoor options
  • Bridal suite on site
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • On-site parking not available
  • Not for you if you prefer a more modern aesthetic
We had our wedding at Arlington Acres and couldn't have been happier with the venue and staff. Katie and her team were extremely responsive throughout the planning process, answering all our questions thoroughly and creatively troubleshooting any issues that came up. Their communication style made wedding planning feel effortless. The rustic open space allowed us flexibility in decorating and arranging the event exactly how we envisioned. Katie went above and beyond day-of to make sure everything ran smoothly so my husband and I could relax and enjoy our special day. By the end, the Arlington Acres staff felt like family, contributing so much warmth and care. We highly recommend this venue for couples wanting a beautiful, rustic setting with accommodating, detail-oriented coordinators devoted to creating your perfect wedding.
Amanda C., a year ago
Windridge Estate 

5.0

Cazenovia, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor

Looking for one of the best Upstate New York wedding venues? We have you covered! With acres of outdoor access, our three unique venues nestled between landscaped gardens, a dedicated location for a tent ,and a cottage on-site - we are the perfect place to host your entire weekend with ease.  We include much in our packages, like the climate comforts and decor,  lounges, and even a planning package with Elizabeth Moore of Paper Crane Calligraphy to save you time and stress so you can celebrate. 

Why you'll love this venue

  • Offers full-service amenities
  • Has a dance floor for celebration
  • Caters to out-of-town guests

Venue considerations

  • No venue-provided food services
  • Not for you if you're looking for a sleek and contemporary space
  • Not wheelchair accessible
I would recommend this venue to anyone. MB is kind, and goes above and beyond. Elizabeth is incredible. The entire weekend was easy, and the most beautiful wedding we could have asked for. It was the best decision getting married here.
Sarah F., 7 months ago
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Osmica at Spring Trail Farm 

5.0

Lansing, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor

As the premiere sustainable wedding venue in the Finger Lakes, we focus on creating unforgettable memories for you and your guests, AND being kind to the planet. We truly believe that you can leave a small footprint on your big day. We provide a bespoke experience for all of our couples. We strive to support your vision, while helping you navigate the logistics. You will have exclusive use of the rustically elegant barn, farmhouse and land during your rental period, and we will be by your side the whole weekend to help manage your vendors and address any concerns. We are not a wedding factory! We host a limited number of weddings each season, so we can give your event the attention it deserves. Our stunning countryside views and historic farm buildings offer unique opportunities to create a charming and inviting venue for an intimate gathering or lavish event only a short drive outside of Ithaca, NY. Let us capture your imagination and help make your event dream a reality!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Multiple event spaces
  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Offers full-service amenities

Venue considerations

  • No all-inclusive dining options
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • Not wheelchair accessible
Awarded Best of Zola
Highly recommended ! We are so over the moon happy that we were able to celebrate our rehearsal dinner at Osmica farm for a little over 100 guests. Can’t say enough wonderful things about our experience! Our families were so impressed by the natural, rustic and inviting feel of the farm! The owners, Allie and Kurt were truly a joy to work with! They were so responsive and helped us so beautifully plan every detail of our day! They helped us with our table decorations, beautiful flower arrangements and other rentals! The list of the vendors they provided were also so nice and responsive and easy to work with. They truly made our experience completely stress free! The farm has the most stunning sunset and lots of space indoors and outdoors for kids and adults to enjoy lawn games. And the most meaningful thing is that Allie and Kurt were so friendly and introduced themselves to our guests, everyone loved them. They were available and ready to help from the first to the last minute. We will definitely visit and stay at their beautiful bed and breakfast in the future.
Negar T., 9 months ago
Dutch Harvest Farm 

5.0

Lansing, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor

Dutch Harvest Farm sits on 50 picturesque acres along the east side of the Cayuga Lake Wine Trail (Route 34B) in Lansing, NY. The Farm is bordered by tall mature trees that create a wooded-wonderland but not to be out done by the cascading falls running the length of the property into Cayuga Lake. We are conveniently located only 15 minutes from downtown Ithaca, the Ithaca Tompkins Regional Airport (ITH) and an hour from Syracuse Hancock International Airport (SYR). ​ Our 7,000+ square foot event barn offers many layout options that let you design the event your way. The barn can comfortably seat 280+ people inside for a reception and there is no need for a tent with plenty of ceremony options such as the enclosed loft, attached porches, custom pavilion or our lavish gardens. You have plenty of layout options - it's your day, plan it your way! ***Date availability, pricing information or tour requests must be submitted on our website***

Why you'll love this venue

  • Feels like a getaway
  • Accommodates more than 200 guests
  • Lush gardens

Venue considerations

  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
  • Does not provide event staff
  • Requires outside catering services
Awarded Best of Zola
Laura has been a dream to work with. She is quick in her responses and has eased my worried-bride mind countless times. Covid struck the wedding business so hard but she has operated with grace throughout the whole process. The barn is gorgeous and we love that our wedding is in the town we met and went to college in. I would highly recommend Dutch Harvest Farm to anyone looking for an easy, professional, and picture perfect wedding experience.
Bridget, 4 years ago
The White Gazebo Inn of the Finger Lakes 

5.0

Trumansburg, NY
  • Up to 200 guests
  • Raw space
  • Outdoor
  • Starts at $4,000

One of the most distinctive historic properties in the Finger Lakes, the former White Gazebo Inn B&B, is now open for seasonal events, celebrations and Weddings! This historic regional property is an ideal setting for bridal showers, weddings, and receptions! The White Gazebo is home to an original Victorian gazebo built in 1853, as well as a picturesque period barn, sprawling pastures, and quiet woodland privacy. The regal, historic home includes a private terrace and patio for gathering and reception cuisine, and extensive grounds for walking, or just sitting and sipping wine and enjoying the bounty of the Finger Lakes. Flowers bloom all around! The Inn is a charming, cozy historic home with a recent addition with key amenities- It sleeps 10-12 with a Master Bedroom suite, a cozy family room, and a utility room perfect for staging. The upstairs has two bedrooms and a shared bathroom with windows facing the historic gazebo. The Inn is negotiable with a wedding or reception booking.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Combines timeless elegance with history
  • Has a warm and cozy vibe
  • Multiple event spaces

Venue considerations

  • No dedicated areas for getting ready
  • No built-in audiovisual options
  • Not for you if you're looking for a sleek and contemporary space
The White Gazebo Inn holds a special place for us. I was at the time the greeter for Christine and hosted the wedding event for my son. The property is a lovely fit for a small wedding. We found it to be the perfect spot for our special day.
Terri E., 3 years ago
Wolf Oak Acres 

5.0

Oneida, NY
  • Up to 240 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $7,450

Our private climate controlled and handicap accessible 8,000sf venue is set amid rolling green pastures, and intoxicating vistas of the rolling hills, streams, waterfalls, and meadows. Enjoy the fresh air and pristine views from 206 acres nestled on the banks of the Cowasselon Creek, in Madison County’s picturesque countryside. ​​ Our spectacular setting will give you uniquely creative photo opportunities, as well as, a one-of-a-kind destination that offers you complete privacy for your next gathering. It offers the perfect backdrop for your intimate ceremony, reception, shower, corporate picnic, wedding or other celebratory event, along with an unforgettable experience. ​​ ​Pairing romance and charm with simple luxuries and privacy, the estate will offer a secluded slice of paradise. We look forward to sharing the special spirit of our land with you!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Rustic charm with elegance
  • Offers full-service amenities
  • Picturesque garden backdrop

Venue considerations

  • No in-house catering options
  • Does not provide event staff
  • No in-house lighting and sound packages available
Wolf Oak Acres made our wedding the absolute best it could’ve been! They were very responsive to any questions I had with decor, catering, makeup recommendations, bar service and beyond. When you plan with them, they will dig down deep into what your vision is for your wedding and help suggest how to make those ideas a relating. They even have a Something Borrowed closet which had just SO MUCH leftover decor from previous weddings that people didn’t want and even had their own decor available so because of this, we were able to save so much money on decorations. They had such a large variety available because that’s the worst part of preparing for a wedding. Buying all the decor yourself to use ONCE and then having to struggle on getting rid of it through garage sales and whatnot. Not here you don’t! We gave our coordinator at the venue some ideas and she ran with it and they even set up EVERYTHING for you! When I walked into the venue the day before the wedding, I was not expecting to start crying from how above and beyond the crew went with the decorations. It was absolutely gorgeous and exactly what I had wanted. They work with your caterers and DJ and photographer before, during, and after to make sure everything is going perfectly. They were there for me the entire weekend and the best best bonus they offered was lodging on site. They have 6 cabins and a HUGE absolutely gorgeous house for all your wedding party and guests to stay at for the weekend of the wedding. Plus, they’re close enough to Turning Stone so if need be, you can rent rooms out at any of the hotels there and it’s maybe a 15 drive. I will forever recommend this venue because they have an amazing crew who care about making sure you and your guests all have the best time ever!
Tamera P., 2 years ago
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The Kester Homestead 
Memphis, NY
  • Up to 170 guests
  • Raw space
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $4,500

The Kester Homestead is a historic farm venue located on the cusp of Finger Lakes Region in Upstate NY. Enjoy access to the entire property for the duration of your gathering weekend. Stay in the 1854 House with your family and bridal party, wander the trails to our Woodland Cathedral for ceremony, head to our Wild Garden for cocktails then dine and dance in our Gambrel Barn. We have on-site coordination, an extensive prop closet and floral services which makes the planning seamless. Reach out to us directly at The Kester Homestead at gmail or online.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Offers convenient lodging options
  • Rustic charm with elegance
  • Both indoor and outdoor options

Venue considerations

  • Does not have a dance floor
  • Does not allow pets
  • No in-house catering options
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The Orchards at Rocking Horse Farm 
Jamesville, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor

The Orchards barn is set in picturesque Jamesville, New York - located just 10 miles south of downtown Syracuse, New York. The Orchards barn is at the heart of a beautiful valley and was built with barn weddings and farm weddings in mind. With 150 acres of breathtaking landscapes, The Orchards property offers scenic country views, a pond, a tree farm, apple orchards, a gazebo and plenty of friendly horses, alpacas and mini donkeys to create the perfect backdrop for your barn wedding.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Allows pets
  • Provides event staff
  • Natural elegance with open spaces

Venue considerations

  • No free parking
  • No on-premises lodging options
  • Does not have a dance floor
The North Farm 
Geneva, NY
  • Up to 240 guests
  • Raw space
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $10,000

The North Farm is a large, recently renovated wedding event venue located in Geneva, New York. Consisting of repurposed 19th century dairy barns, a large courtyard and a manicured ceremony location with gorgeous lake views, this venue is perfect for rustic wedding couples who are looking for something truly unique. With six different gathering spaces available, you’ll have an environment that is centered around sustainability and flexibility, allowing you to create a completely customized and memorable experience that you’ll cherish for a lifetime. The uniqueness of the space will provide a truly memorable wedding backdrop; you can also make use of the space for incredibly memorable wedding photos that you can cherish for years to come!

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away
  • Classic, vintage atmosphere
  • Offers convenient lodging options

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Not for you if you prefer a more modern aesthetic
  • Limited cleanup and setup services
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The Meadows at Sweet Farm 
Himrod, NY
  • Up to 170 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $2,500

The Meadow is a four-season venue on Seneca Lake. Home to Vineyard View Winery’s Seneca Lake tasting room, our 100-person event space can be expanded during the warmer seasons to host up to 170 people in an indoor-outdoor experience. Located on the shores of Seneca Lake, our space offers sweeping lake views, stunning fields of flowers, and optional experiences to spend time with the Sweet Farm Rescued Animal Ambassadors.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Pets can join the celebration
  • Dressing room available
  • Promotes a party atmosphere

Venue considerations

  • Couple must handle cleanup and setup
  • Not for you if you don't want a rustic vibe
  • Lighting and sound are not included
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Abandon Brewing Company 
Penn Yan, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor
  • Starts at $4,000

Abandon Brewing Company offers a unique and naturally relaxing setting for your special day. Nestled in the Finger Lakes of upstate New York, Abandon is the perfect place to host your rustically beautiful event.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Private area for the wedding party
  • Accommodates more than 200 guests
  • Pets can join the celebration

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you're looking for a sleek and contemporary space
  • No free parking
  • No venue-provided food services
Silver Queen Farm 
Trumansburg, NY
  • Up to 220 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor

Silver Queen Farm is a rustic barn wedding venue located in Trumansburg, New York. The venue is a working fruit and vegetable farm with crops that provide a picturesque backdrop for your wedding photos. Silver Queen Farm sits on a 100-acre plot of land in the Finger Lakes with several spaces to choose from for ceremonies and receptions both inside and out. The barn is filled with rustic charm, but can be easily transformed to offer an elegant ambiance for your perfect wedding.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides lighting and sound
  • Accommodates more than 200 guests
  • Rustic charm with elegance

Venue considerations

  • No all-inclusive dining options
  • Additional event staff required
  • Best for events with big guest lists

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About wedding venues in Cato, NY

Why is New York the Perfect Wedding Destination?

New York gives you incredible variety for your special day, from Manhattan's iconic skyline to the charming countryside of Upstate. You can enjoy timeless elegance at The Plaza Hotel with its grand ballrooms overlooking Central Park, or take in breathtaking panoramic views of Manhattan at Tribeca Rooftop. Brooklyn offers photography-friendly industrial-chic spaces like The Foundry with its character-filled exposed brick and factory windows. Head Upstate and you'll find City Winery Hudson Valley where your celebration unfolds against the backdrop of a working vineyard with mountain views that change beautifully with each season. April sees the most wedding inquiries in New York, showing just how many couples are drawn to the region during spring's beautiful blooming season.

What's the Reality of Wedding Costs in New York?

Expect to pay more for your New York wedding than the national average of $6,500-$12,000 for venues alone. New York venues typically cost around $16,709 which makes up about 22% of your total wedding budget. Your overall costs will vary based on how many guests you're hosting:

Guest CountTotal Wedding Budget
50 guests (small wedding)$32,316
100 guests$54,844
150 guests$76,011
200 guests$94,911
250 guests$113,810
300 guests (large wedding)$132,709

Your other major expenses will include catering at $13,367 (18%), bar services running $10,694 (14%), florals at $8,177 (11%), planners costing $6,044 (8%), photography at $5,119 (7%), videography at $4,622 (6%), entertainment at $2,298 (3%), cake and desserts at $1,067 (1%), and hair and makeup averaging $550 (1%).

How Do NYC Wedding Venues Compare to Upstate Locations?

NYC venues offer you urban sophistication with distinctive skyline views. At Tribeca Rooftop + 360° you'll enjoy floor-to-ceiling windows showcasing Manhattan panoramas while The Plaza presents opulent ballrooms featuring chandeliers ornate molding and gold accents. The 620 Loft & Garden gives you a stunning rooftop terrace overlooking St. Patrick's Cathedral and Fifth Avenue.

Upstate venues surround you with natural beauty and historic architecture. City Winery Hudson Valley welcomes you to a renovated factory featuring vaulted ceilings stone walls and vineyard views. You can host up to 350 guests here and customize your outdoor ceremony areas to create exactly the atmosphere you're dreaming of.

Which New York Venues Offer Outstanding Culinary Experiences?

You can treat your guests to Two Michelin star cuisine at Manhatta perched 60 floors high in the Financial District where Executive Chef Justin Bogle creates memorable dishes like hamachi and black truffle dumplings. The River Cafe in Brooklyn serves Michelin-starred cuisine featuring Hudson Valley foie gras and Nantucket Bay scallops with Brooklyn Bridge views right outside your window. For a farm-to-table experience Blue Hill at Stone Barns in Westchester County offers cuisine sourced directly from their on-site farm with their HayLoft space accommodating anywhere from 40 to 260 guests.

Where Can You Find Accessible Wedding Venues in New York?

For couples prioritizing accessibility 620 Loft & Garden offers customizable settings that can work with various needs though you'll want to confirm specific features during your planning. Prospect Park Boathouse and Central Park Conservatory Garden provide accessible options with proper pathways for all your guests. Always ask about specific accommodations like wheelchair ramps elevators and accessible restrooms when you're researching potential venues to ensure everyone can fully participate in your celebration.

How Can Guests Participate Remotely at New York Weddings?

Historic Manhattan venues can make remote guests feel included by incorporating virtual tours during ceremony breaks while Midtown Loft & Terrace supports interactive platforms that go beyond simple passive streaming. You might consider venues in Chelsea or SoHo that can enhance those famous skyline views with live streaming that includes interactive elements like virtual photobooths live chats or virtual toasts. These features help create genuine engagement for participants joining your special day from afar.

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