Wedding Party
Margaret A. Westley
Bride
I'm stoked to marry, Nathaniel Francis Aguilar. He came into my life at a difficult time, and has been a bright light ever since. He has one of the most genuine hearts and sweetest demeanors I have ever encountered. He makes me laugh all the time, which is one thing I love to do, as many people know. Actually, I can be identified just by my laugh. My, "HA! HA! HA!" usually let's people know exactly who, or where, I am. Thinking about our wedding makes me choke up because I can envision vowing my love to Nathaniel in front of, God, and so many of the people in our lives who have contributed to us being the people, and the couple, we are. I am eternally grateful! xo, Margo
Nathaniel F. Aguilar
Groom
I really don't like writing about myself, so I will simply say I am very thankful to God for Margaret. Not only is she amazing, loving and caring...her story is incredibly inspiring. Looking forward to seeing all of you on the big day! I am a music performer and educator, I like hot sauce, am an ambivert, and would one day like to become an inventor for music instruments and accessories. Margaret says I'm a blurter. Hablo Espanol un poco. Tengo los cassete tapes de Espanol. Foodie. I've been skydiving twice, but will never go again.
Dana Sato Tobiassen
Matron of Honor
Dana is so honored to stand up with her dear friend, Margaret, on her wedding day. When they first met in college, Margaret quickly gave Dana the nickname "D-Dog" and it has stuck ever since. Dana is the proud mom of twin boys, who call Margaret their auntie. If having twin newborns sounds hard, that's because it is: Dana isn't sure how she would have survived those first few months without Margaret's support and help. She lives by the motto: "It doesn't matter how many hot chocolates we drop on the asphalt."
Roberto Aguilar
Best Man
Roberto is Nathaniel’s old(er) brother.. ..wait. Why am I speaking in third person.. Hi I’m Roberto, Nathaniel’s elder brother. I love the outdoors in new Smyrna beach Florida. I love to travel and perform new places, I love good food and to cook a little and I also love to party. I am also a musician, performer and educator. I think it’s pretty cool that Nathaniel and I ended up on the same career path. Music came pretty natural to both of us except Nathaniel was a much better student. So when I need help with anything, he’s just a call away to help. I’m so proud of Nathaniel. He’s got such a big heart and one of the most unique demeanors. I look up to him in so many ways and it blesses my heart that he’s found Margaret. They are so wonderful together.
Carolina Aguilar
Junior Bridesmaid
Hi! I am Carolina and I am the grooms baby sister. I enjoy adventures and being with friends as well as partying! I love to take on a challenge and hope to achieve my dreams. I am so proud of my big brother Nathaniel, he is such a sweet guy with the biggest heart. I love him so much!!! He has always looked over me and helped me with anything I have that worries me.......he is a great person to talk to and help you through tough times. I cant wait to see where this takes him in life and I am happy for this wonderful moment in each of both Nathaniel and Margaret's lives.
Lucienne Bayles
Flower Girl
Hello, My name is Lucienne (people like to call me Lucie) and I just turned 2. I love dogs, tulips, ducks, and my lake. I am starting to talk more and more every day and I am learning how to jump. I hope to have that down by Nate and Margaret's wedding. I know Nate and Margaret through my parents. Nate is funny and he always lends me milk when we run out. I love being his neighbor because I always get to hear good drum beats from his house or nice accordion sounds from his deck. I always get so excited when I see Margaret get out of Nate's blue car. She is so sweet and makes me smile within in seconds of being around her. I am so glad I get to be a part of their special day! My Mommy and Daddy are so excited too and we can't wait to celebrate with you all!
Ebba Simone Pettingill
Flower Girl
Ebba Simone is a gregarious and fun loving 9 year old living in the tropical paradise that is Lake Worth, FL. She loves music, dancing, reading, writing, gymnastics, math, and science. A joy to be around, Ebba is ready for adventure and loves traveling, snorkeling, the beach and art. Being a flower girl for the beautiful union of Margaret and Nathaniel is an honor for her. Ebba can't wait to celebrate in September. Don't forget to watch out for her on the dance floor! She is a smooth operator, and when the beat drops, Ebba is usually found cartwheeling down to the floor into a full split. Wowza!
Magnus Johnson
Ring Bearer
Magnus is 9 years old and loves swimming, soccer, art and video games. He is known for his dyed blue hair, silly sense of humor and skill as an artist. He has a dog named Velma, his favorite food is pizza, and he loves to do trick shots. And watch out...he may bust out 'the worm' on the dance floor!
Pastor John Bayles
Officiant
Pastor Ruth Hamilton
Officiant
Rev. Ruth Hamilton has served as Co-Pastor of Westminster Presbyterian Church of SW DC since 1996 along with her husband and co-pastor Rev. Brian Hamilton. Margaret and her mother came to Westminster when they moved to DC from Texas. Margaret's grandmother had known Ruth's father, Rev. Dr. Bill Lytle, from her Texas church and made the introduction. Margaret helped to nurture the Hamilton's son, Roman, as he grew up in the congregation, especially on the Friday Jazz Nights that continue to this day.
David Bayles
Groomsher
Nathaniel is one of my oldest friends and my TBFL*. Some of my best and most life-changing times were driving down with Pat to Stetson to hang out, record music, rollerblade around campus, and play shows with Natty and Roberto. I met my wife Candace at one such show, and we now have a two-year old daughter who is always excited to see her “Nate-bor”, who lives right next door, and is always up for an epic organ/drum jam or late night pizza/drink/movie session. Nathaniel is an intuitively gifted mixologist, and also one of the most generous, kind, unique, talented, clever, and hilarious people that I know of, and I’m so happy that he has found someone as kind, generous, special, truly selfless, fun, funny, and sweet as Margaret. They’re a match made in heaven. * True Bro For Life
Patrick Ruffner
Groomsher
On any given day, Pat can be found sitting at his piano making music or turning the living room into a recording studio. A true Gemini, his interests are vast and ever-changing. His constant loves (other than family, friends, music, etc...), are crafting home brew and cheeseburgers. Pat and Nate have been joking around since high school and he is so excited to see his good friend get to marry the Amazing Margaret!
Patrick Boyle
Groomsher
Hey, I'm Patrick aka. Paddy B. When not studying for law school, I play music, embarrass myself on the dance floor & beat Natty in hot-sauce eating challenges. Natty (Natty Bo-Batty) has been a dear friend since high school. He's a brother, co-conspirator in mischief & musical comrade of the first order. I saw when the Police let him go with a warning for his criminally funky bucket drumming, saw him dazzle people with his fancy roller blading & seen him play jazz on his vibraphone while next to a full-sized taxidermy mountain lion. There are tons of memories I could tell of adventure, laughter, growth & support. I'm over the moon for Marg and Natty. I was there when they were first dating & it was clear how much fun they had. I couldn’t be happier for them & can't wait to celebrate.
Jordan Pettingill
Groomsher
I'm so happy to be one of the 1st Groomshers ever! Nate & I met in college playing music for the show, Little Shop of Horrors. On drives there, we'd talk about Bob Dylan, BBQ, Jesus Christ & best shower temps for greasy hair. On breaks, we'd drink huge Big Gulps of Mellow Yellow & at times have a cigar. We'd wreak of smoke giggling about Nat's fart joke. We were classy adults. It was thee best. I've grown a little, have a beautiful wife Christine & darling kids Ebba & Dorian. After teaching music & workin' at a boring 9-5 job, I took a leap of faith & started my own print & design studio. I love cuddling with bae, my kids, snorkeling, tattooing, & playing music. I can’t wait to have fun at the wedding. Nate chipped his tooth doing the worm at my wedding. I hope I can return the favor.