Photos

Sisterly love: Cindy (left) & Sharon (right) are Kerry's matrons of honor. True story: their dresses for the wedding have POCKETS. Try not to be jealous, ladies.

At our first wedding together. (Not our own.) Turns out we clean up pretty nicely.

Casey's favorite sports team is the Tampa Bay Bucs. No, he's never lived in Florida.

Casey in a Bryce Canyon slot canyon on our drive cross country to move to Charlotte. Something that actually makes him look short - crazy, right?

Casey's brother Mike (pictured left) is Casey's Best man. We're pretty sure you'll be able to spot him - he's the only person taller than Casey invited to the wedding.

Our second wedding together! (Again, not ours). Bonus points if you spot our pal Brofka.

One of our favorite holiday activities is Christmas Week road trips. This was Christmas Eve in Laguna Beach. (We might miss CA winters just a little bit.)

On another Christmas road trip, we did back to back steak nights in Vegas. We won't be winning any environmentalism awards, but the steaks here are damn good.

Casey's 2nd bar mitzvah and indoctrination into Goldstein family parties. This is also the dress Kerry wore during his proposal; the dry cleaner recovered it nicely after the tabasco-pocolypse.

This photo was taken at the airport on the way to an Edelstein Thanksgiving, where Casey would meet Kerry's parents for the first time.

Father of the bride! Will his grandkids get him on the dance floor again? We're counting on you.

Kerry's 40th birthday weekend! Naturally, Casey manned the grill, which included pretty much all the items sold at Costco. Casey cooks like a Jewish mom. Which is fortunate, because Kerry does not.

Mother of the bride, and her 3 daughters. You might see them walking down the aisle.

Nobody takes a selfie better than Casey and his long arms.

We went to Niagara Falls on Casey's first visit to Rochester, and mother nature cooperated with an 80 degree sunny day. What a blast!

Our very first selfie! Taken at a brunch spot in Mar Vista. We were still in our 30s here...ah, the good old days. ;-)

Ellyn and Arthur, Mother and Father of the Bride, and your wedding hosts! We hope we're this cute in 35 years.

The proposal, on the beach that was no longer, where we spent our 1st anniversary eating oysters on a picnic blanket.

Our favorite photo. And it's a selfie. Take that, Millennials who hire stealth photographers. #GenXwedding

Dinner at our favorite sushi spot in LA, right before we left. The t-shirt is for all our Cornellians in the house.

Our first activity in Charlotte: rooting against the Panthers at a Bucs game. The irony did not go unnoticed.

Visiting the Bells (and my childhood pal Anna) in Colorado on our trip cross country. Casey often tells Kerry, "You do Fall really well." Must be the upstate NY upbringing.

The ring. Passed down from Grandma E to Mom to Kerry. They don't make 'em this beautiful anymore.

The photo that made Casey swipe right. He noticed the cars were going the wrong way in the background. On Tinder. He noticed. The direction of traffic. Kerry knew then that he was a keeper.

You'll notice a theme of pics with water in the backdrop. You'll notice that theme at the wedding too. Unless it rains, which it better not. We're talking to you, mother nature. NO HURRICANES PLEASE.

Kerry introducing Casey to Cornell. He dressed in theme.

Casey's favorite childhood memory is Disneyland with his mom, before she passed. On the 30th anniversary of her passing, we went back to Disney and had the most magical day. It's like she was with us.