FAQs

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When should I RSVP by?

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Please RSVP by August 21, 2019

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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Please arrive by 6:00 p.m.

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Are kids welcome?

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Sort of. Children of our guests are welcome at the informal gatherings on Friday night and Sunday morning. They are NOT welcome at the Saturday wedding ceremony or reception unless you get an invitation with their name on it. Only a select handful of family members over the age of 10 will be invited to the Saturday evening wedding and reception, and unfortunately we cannot accommodate other children. We will, however, provide babysitting information on this website for those of you who travel with your kids. And let's be honest: there's going to be an open bar, a great band, and couple hundred grownups reveling in a weekend away - do you really WANT your kids there on Saturday? We didn't think so.

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When will I receive my invitation?

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Invitations will go out mid to late summer. All information you need will be posted here to the website ahead of time, so that you can make travel plans

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Will the wedding start on "Casey time" or "Kerry time"?

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Oh, you clever little bugger, you. Even Kerry is on time to weddings, so we know you can manage too.

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What exactly is "full donut" and why is it your hashtag?

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Most of you know that Casey really likes to talk about beer. (#understatement) Well, one day he was talking about beer, and Kerry just, well....she ran out of beer conversation. (She was a bit beerversated out, shall we say.) Casey looked at her and proclaimed, "Oh, you've gone full donut on me." "Donuts, what?" Kerry perked up. "What does that mean? Did you get donuts?!" Casey laughed. "You are TOTALLY GLAZED OVER." Kerry nearabout keeled over laughing. "Full donut, that's hilarious!" Since then, "Full donut" has become our running joke. It's our way of saying, "Honey, even when you're totally boring me, you can still make me belly laugh." So, #fulldonut away. But don't go full donut on us.

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Why is there a dog in the header photo?

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That's Maggie, Sharon's dog. Kerry had the nerve to get up and clear her plate after dinner one night, and Maggie decided that seat next to Casey belonged to her, doggonit. (pun intended.)

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Babysitting Service

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We recommend Babysitters of CharlotteHotel babysitting 1-2 children-$16 an hour 3 children-$20 an hour 4 children-$25 an hour 704-727-2242

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Wedding Day Guest Transportation

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Residence Inn Birkdale Shuttle: Picks up at 5:00 p.m. If you are a Lake Norman local or are staying at an AirBnB or other Lake Norman lodging alternative and want to take the shuttle, PLEASE TAKE THE RESIDENCE INN SHUTTLE. That way we can ensure that there’s enough room on each bus for everyone. Four Points/Courtyard/Embassy Suites Shuttle – This will pick up at the Four Points at 4:30, the Courtyard at 4:40, and then Embassy Suites at 5:15.