FAQs

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What do I wear!? - Welcome Dinner

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Now, we totally get that you want to look amazing and pack efficiently. Below, we’ve included suggested attire for each event to help make planning (and suitcase space!) easier. Let’s start with what not to wear: please avoid white for all events—that one’s reserved for the bride🤍 🍷 Dress to the Nines for Pizza & Wine Welcome Dinner Dress Code: “Play Pretend Rich” We’re kicking off our wedding celebration in full glam—think old money elegance with a cheeky wink. Channel your inner aristocrat, heiress, or dashing rogue. This is your moment to play pretend like you’ve just stepped out of: ✨ The Great Gatsby ✨ Beauty and the Beast's enchanted castle ✨ A Bridgerton ballroom (but with a wine glass in hand and pizza on your plate) The Vibe: Glamorous. Romantic. Slightly ridiculous. A little extra (in the best way). Feathers, faux pearls, opera gloves, bowties, brooches, slick hair, red lips, costume jewelry, vintage hats, velvet smoking jackets, or anything that says I summer in the south of France, darling. Yes to: – Statement accessories (pearls, gloves, feathers, fans, cigars—real or prop!) – Dapper suits or tuxedos with flair (think velvet, white dinner jackets, dramatic lapels) – Dramatic gowns or cocktail dresses in luxe fabrics (satin, lace, brocade) – Romantic silhouettes (puff sleeves, corset tops, ruffles, A-line skirts) – Vintage-inspired makeup & hair (finger waves, bold lips, soft curls) – A sense of humor and willingness to lean into the fantasy No need for: – Real diamonds (unless you really want to) – Modern minimalism (save that for another day) – Full-on cosplay (unless it’s amazing—then go for it) Let’s dress like we’ve inherited a château… and are hosting a pizza party on the lawn 🍕🍷

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What do I wear!? - Wedding Day

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Please avoid white for all events—that one’s reserved for the bride🤍 And for those of you who have asked what color our wedding party is wearing - they'll be in Olive Green on the wedding day. 💍 Wedding Day Attire Black Tie Recommended 🖤 Our wedding takes place at a château in the French countryside—so the setting is naturally romantic, timeless, and cinematic. We invite you to dress accordingly: chic, elegant, and ready for the pages of Vogue. Last night, we played the part for the Welcome Dinner, but today- you're fully embodied in your show-stopping, timeless elegance. No playing pretend today, just truly radiating as your most gorgeous and dapper selves! The Vibe: Think Grace Kelly meets a glass of Bordeaux. Old money sophistication with a touch of modern refinement. This is your excuse to go all out. For Women: – No requirement on dress length, just keep it elevated and classy – Classic silhouettes in rich or neutral tones – Statement earrings, soft updos, timeless heels – Fabrics that catch the light: satin, silk, tulle, chiffon – Editorial beauty: glowy skin, bold lips, intentional elegance For Men: – Tuxedos or formal suits (black tie preferred, but not required) – Crisp white shirt, polished shoes, well-fitted tailoring – Bowtie or tie—your call, but bring your A-game – Optional: velvet blazers, classic cummerbunds, cufflinks Yes to: – Dressing like you’re attending a European soirée under the stars – Romantic details and classic glamour – Feeling confident, timeless, and fabulous No need for: – Anything too casual (no jeans, no sneakers, no cargo pants ever) – Overly trendy or loud prints (save the pineapple shirt for vacation) – Stress—we care more about your presence than perfection We can’t wait to see you looking stunning as we say I do in the vines of Moulon, surrounded by candlelight, music, and the people we love most.

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What do I wear!? - Farewell Brunch

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🥐 Farewell Brunch Attire Garden Chic After a weekend full of love, laughter, and late nights, we invite you to join us one last time— in the garden at the château—for a relaxed and stylish sendoff. This is your breezy brunch era. You’ve made it through the dance floor and the vows—now you get to sip champagne in linen and sunglasses. The Vibe: Think effortless elegance. A garden party with European flair. Light, polished, and pretty—but nothing too fussy. For Women: – Flowy sundresses, elevated sets, or midi skirts – Florals, pastels, or neutral tones – Wedges or flats for walking on grass – Oversized sunglasses, a chic sunhat, or a playful clutch – Hair up, hair down—whatever feels lovely and low effort For Men: – Lightweight button-downs, linen pants, or tailored chinos – A crisp polo or blazer (optional but welcome) – Loafers or clean dress sneakers – Sunglasses, rolled sleeves, and maybe a Bloody Mary Yes to: – Easy, elegant, and garden-appropriate – Soft fabrics, breathable layers, relaxed sophistication – Looking like you brunch in the French countryside on the regular No need for: – Heels that sink into grass – Tight tailoring or formalwear – Overthinking it—comfort and style can coexist We’ll have a full spread of brunch bites, coffee, and cocktails (for those who need a little hair of the dog)— and we can’t wait to savor this last slow morning with you before we all head off into married life (and your travel plans).

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Shuttle Information

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🚌 Wedding Events Shuttle Info We will have shuttle service available all three days of the celebration! Please note that vehicle size and timing will vary, so we’ve broken down the details for each event below. To help everything run smoothly, we kindly ask that you: RSVP to any and all days you plan to use the shuttle Let us know if you’ll be driving yourself so the venue can coordinate parking accordingly 🍕 Welcome Dinner – October 14 Theme: Dress to the Nines for Pizza & Wine Location: Château de Garde Shuttle Type: Small van (8-person max) Shuttle pickup begins at 5:45 PM from Saint-Émilion and runs on a loop every 30 minutes Drop-offs back to town will also run every 30 minutes throughout the evening Since most guests will likely head back around 10 PM, we recommend driving yourself if you’re not planning to drink Parking is available on-site for those driving 💍 Wedding Day – October 15 Location: Château de Garde Shuttle Type: 50-person coach + small van (backup only) The coach will depart from Saint-Émilion at 3:00 PM sharp A 15-minute grace period will be given before it leaves Ceremony begins promptly at 4:00 PM If you miss the bus and do not have a car, please contact Chelsea’s Matron of Honor, Danielle, and the small shuttle van will be sent to you (emergency use only) Return shuttles (small van) will run back to Saint-Émilion every 30 minutes starting at 9:30 PM 🥐 Farewell Brunch – October 16 Location: Château Garden Shuttle Type: Small van (8-person max) First pickup from Saint-Émilion begins at 11:40 AM Shuttle will run every 30 minutes Since brunch will be light and casual, driving is encouraged if you’re not drinking For anyone enjoying some hair of the dog, the shuttle is your friend 🍾

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Getting to the Venue (or Saint Emilion) from Bordeaux

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If you'll be staying at the Chateau with us then we recommend renting a car in Bordeaux and driving directly to the venue. If you'll be staying in Saint Emilion we recommend either renting a car or taking the bus to Saint Emilion. The Saint Emilion train station does NOT take you into the village center. It's about a 20min walk from the village and the roads are uphill and unpaved. Uber and Lyft is not popular in Saint Emilion, hence why we will have a shuttle or recommend a car. If you prefer not to rent a car please take the bus from Bordeaux for your own convenience.