Wedding Party
Andrea Bactol
Maid of Honor
Hello, my name is Andrea! I am the sister of the Bride. I wish I could remember my first time meeting her but she’s just always been there for me. One of my favorite memories growing up has to be during those late summer nights- It would be 2am; “Unwrapped”, “The Nanny”, or “Cake Wars” is on the TV and we would pretend we’re contestants on Cupcakes Wars rushing with 1 minute left on the clock 😂 let’s just say… we were serious and we did this multiple times. My sister is one of the kindest and warmest people I know and all you need is 30 seconds with her to realize that. I’ve had the honor of having front row seats to their love story; from locking herself in her room for hours video chatting with Jordan, to surprising her in Lake Chelan for their engagement. It’s so exciting to be witnessing their love unfold. I’m glad my sister found Jordan. Shoutout hinge!
Brad Ashton
Best Man
Jordan has been someone I’ve looked up to for as long as I can remember. Although we are four years apart, he never made me feel like the annoying little brother. Instead, he let me hang around with him and his friends, which meant more to me than he probably knows. We bonded over computers growing up, and that shared interest ended up shaping my own path into IT. More than anything, though, he has always led by example with his genuine kindness and patience. In many ways, he reminds me of our father - caring, thoughtful, and deeply committed to the people he loves. Seeing him with Meredith makes it clear he has found something truly special. She is kind, warm, and brings so much light with her. From the moment I met her family, I knew our families blending together would be a blessing. I couldn’t be happier for them and the life they are building - one that will undoubtedly be filled with love, laughter, and a lifetime of happiness.
Christin Nguyen
Matron of Honor
Mere and I met in 2012, freshman year of college. We met through FASA (Filipino American Student Association) and we also lived in the same dorm building. After the first couple of interactions with her I remember thinking “she’s fun, I want to be her friend.” We quickly grew close and she became my one of my best friends and basically a sister. Throughout the past 13+ years, we’ve made countless memories. Whether it was partying in our college days, studying at the library, going grocery shopping, or doing absolutely nothing… we have the best time together. Mere brings such a light into everyone’s lives and has the most genuine heart. I am so happy she found Jordan and I’m truly honored to stand by her side as they take the next step into marriage.
Mar Bactol
Groomsman
Being Meredith’s brother, I’m honored to stand alongside Jordan as a groomsman. I’ll always remember when Meredith first told me she was dating someone. We were away on a family vacation at Ocean Shores (Washington Coast). It was during the height of COVID so being away from people while social distancing at the beach made sense at the time. We were playing a game of cards (I won of course) and after the game out of nowhere Meredith said she had something to say….. At that moment, Meredith shared that that she was dating someone. I honestly was shocked. My first thought was how could you possibly meet anyone during COVID when the world was in isolation and everyone in their own bubble. But also somewhat surprised because Meredith has never dated or mentioned anyone up to that point (at least that I knew of haha) so I’ve never had to play the protective older brother card. Fast forward to getting to know Jordan. I’ve seen who he is as a person and respect and appreciate him. He’s a great addition to the family. I wish the couple a marriage filled with happiness, strength, and look forward to watching your continuous commitment grow and thrive in the years ahead.
Christine Consolacion
Bridesmaid
My name is Christine, Mere's cousin. I've known Meredith since we were little and since then we've grown through our teenage years together, partied at the same University together and now are embarking the beauties of adulthood together. Meredith is one of the most thoughtful and empathetic people I know. I couldn't have imagined a better fit for her than Jordan. Jordan compliments every aspect of Meredith and I look forward to celebrating their union and beautiful marriage. Jordan, thank you for loving our dear sister, cousin and friend! 🧡 #bridesquad
Richard Barrow
Groomsman
I met Jordan in either kindergarten or 1st grade and with that length of time, it's safe to say I don't remember a time where Jordy wasn't in my life. Jordy comes from a family that's both big & close, and kind enough to treat us as their own. We spent many days and summers starting or ending at Jordy's house. Our group may be scattered across thousands of miles now but we've managed to stay in touch, which feels like a rare achievement nowadays; even if it means we're all a little chronically online. After meeting Meredith and spending some time around them both together, I'm so happy that these two found their matches in each other. The warmth, kindness and love they show to each other is effortless. It's not just Jordy and Mere coming together, but the love and growth of two big families as well. I feel so lucky to be a part of it, and wish them both love and luck for the years to come.
Raisa West
Bridesmaid
I met Meredith during our freshman year at Western, and I couldn’t be more grateful our paths crossed! She quickly became one of the most supportive, caring and genuine friend anyone could ask for. It has been so special watching her find Jordan, her perfect match. I’ll never forget the first time I met Jordan. We were carving pumpkins at my house and their chemistry was impossible to miss! It was so clear they were meant to be. They compliment each other perfectly and watching their love grow over the past few years has been such a joy. I’m honored to stand by Mere’s side and celebrate this special day! Love you Mere & Jor!
Nicholas Pennycooke
Groomsman
You’ll probably hear this a couple of times, but Jordan and I have been friends since pre-school. We’re fortunate as a group to have that kind of longevity, but it means we’re more like brothers than anything else. By extension, having a brother means having a second set of parents. Nothing in my mind represents that more than after Hurricane Ivan that heavily impacted Jamaica. For those who don’t know, I grew up in the mountains surround Kingston aka the bush, and so our one road was almost entirely destroyed. To make sure I could still go to school, Jordan’s family took me in, living with them for a while until things stabilized in the hills. That’s the kind of family the Ashton family is, and that’s the kind of person Jordan is. To the Bactol family: this is exactly who you are bringing into your arms. May that warmth and love continue to build and maintain the loving home they both will keep. To your forever, Jordy.
Denilene Lalas
Bridesmaid
My name is Denilene! I met Mere when I thought I could dance at our college Filipino Club’s dance crew and thank goodness I met someone who looked at me like “yeahhh we’re not supposed to be in this extracurricular” and at that moment I knew that was my girl. We talked that night and found out we lived in the same building! The rest was history. Mere been my turnup twin since Western days and I can always count on her for a good time! She has been a ride or die in the last 10+ yrs and the amount of laughs she provides is endless. I am so excited for this chapter for you and Jordan - I remember when we used to talk about this as college babies. Your fairytale has come true and I am honored to be apart of this day and to stand by you as we get to witness another amazing life chapter for you! 🧡
Andrew Raymore
Groomsman
Jordy and I have been friends for decades, and no matter how many times life has moved us to different cities and countries, our friendship has never missed a beat when we are together. That kind of bond doesn’t come around often, and it says a lot about the kind of person Jordy is — loyal, genuine, and all in for his family and the people he cares about. And being friends with Jordy has meant feeling like family. Seeing him find this kind of connection with someone with his values in Meredith is incredible. They have what I always knew Jordy deserved. And it’s amazing to see them building together and bringing out the best in each other. I’m honored to stand beside Jordy on this day and wish them both a lifetime of love, laughter, and adventure together.
Rachel Umetsu
Bridesmaid
Mere was my very first roommate as a freshman at WWU (shoutout Kappa!). We weren’t originally assigned to room together but we both coincidentally requested reassignment at the last minute and somehow by the fate of the dorm room gods, we got put together. And I’m so grateful we did. I still remember 18-year-old Mere and Rachel giggling in our dorm room, eating Jimmy Johns, and imagining what our futures would look like and who we’d marry someday. All I knew for certain back then was that we’d stay in each other’s lives forever and that whoever Mere ended up with would be just as amazing as she is. I’m not saying I can predict the future but here we are 13+ years later and I was spot on. I’m so excited to celebrate you both and witness the beginning of this beautiful chapter together! Love you both!
Michael Cercado
Bridesman
Hello, my name is Michael, and as Mere’s cousin, I can see why orange is her favorite color. They both convey happiness, optimism and a fun youthful spirit! Through our bond as family (and as middle children), she has become one of the funniest, dependable, and approachable people in my life. So easy to talk to, Mere is our social butterfly and my beautiful mango sister who always cares about the people around her, and who moves with love, laughter and understanding. From weekend hangouts to the times vacationing in Vegas and Hawaii together, seeing the love both Jordan and Mere have for each other is entertaining and inspiring. Jordan, you’re family approved! And I can’t wait to raise a glass with both of you as we celebrate your big day!
Michelle Bactol Voluntarioso
Bridesmaid
As Mere’s cousin and my first best friend since the moment we were born, I’ve had a front-row seat to her life since the very beginning. My favorite memories are rooted in our childhood adventures - weekend sleepovers, making up our own little dance routines, creating our own inside jokes - we were inseparable then, and I’m so grateful we still are now. It’s been an honor to grow up by your side, and I am so excited to see you and Jordan start this new chapter. I look forward to watching the two of you build a home filled with that same lifelong friendship anchored by the kind of loyalty and laughter we’ve shared since we were kids.
Nigel Byles
Groomsman
I’ve known Jordan his whole life and almost all of mine. We’re only 25 days apart, and in a tight-knit family - that meant every holiday, most weekends, and entire summers were spent together. We grew up together playing everything from monopoly, to Zelda and as we matured(ish), we’ve kept gaming as a long distance bond. We have been present in each other's lives through every milestone and sharing many of those with our "hombres" with plenty of laughs! All that to say, Jordan has always been my closest friend. My cousin-brother has found a partner with a warm heart and with the same fun-loving family values cemented in us over the years and I’m so excited to watch Jordan and Meredith celebrate this milestone and continue to grow together in love, partnership, and a lifetime of shared joy.
Margery Cercado
Bridesmaid
It’s an honor to be part of Meredith and Jordan’s wedding party. Mere is my younger first cousin, so I’ve known her since she was born 🧡 Much like our other cousins, we were raised more like siblings—and I truly see her as a sister! We are about three years apart in age and I have many fond memories laughing and getting into lots of mischief together when we were younger. I recall meeting Jordan when he and Mere first started dating, of course at one of her all time favorites: happy hour sushi. He was warm and soft spoken, with a lovely chuckle and a calm presence. I remember thinking at the moment they complimented each other so well, and that made me so happy. It’s honestly been such a joy to watch Jord and Mere grow in love with each other over the years. I’m excited for their wedding and to see what the future holds as they embark on a new journey together 🧡
Khari Stewart
Groomsman
Jordan is the definition of easy going, down for whatever and wanting a good time. To this day, I don't think I can remember when Jordy has said “no” - he is always down to hangout. From drinking way too much from bottomless cup madness or having to share an air mattress with Nigel and I, we had 4 other guys sharing the room on our first Negril trip - there was never a complaint and always so much laughter! From 14 on to full on adulthood Jordan is still the same easy going guy that will be there with you for whatever phase of life and I'm proud that I'm able to say I have the same friends from then until now and even prouder to be apart of Jordy's next phase of life. Welcome to married life and we will always only be a discord away lol.
Giselle Bactol
Junior Bridesmaid
Goddaughter
Meleyah Cruz
Junior Bridesmaid
Goddaughter
Camryn and Mila Bactol
Flowers Girls
Nieces/Goddaughters
Lucas Bactol
Ring Bearer
Godson
Christopher Bustamante Osorio
Officiant
Meredith and I became friends in high school in drama class. Since seating was alphabetical order, we sat right next to each other. Since then, Mere and I grew our relationship in high school. Even after I graduated high school and we both went to different colleges, Meredith and I continued to keep our friendship strong. Now that we are in our thirties I am happy to share a friendship with Mere for over 15 years. Some of my favorite memories with Meredith including getting sushi, frozen yogurt, taking trips to Vegas, seeing Adele live, and just being able to go on random errands together. Once I had met Jordan, I knew that he was the right person for Meredith. He compliments her in every way, and I can see he cares about Meredith in every way. I am looking forward to seeing their relationship grow and having children. Cheers to the happy couple!