Please see our Hotels & Travel section for further details, including recommended taxi companies. The full address of the venue is The Barn at Botley Hill, Limpsfield Road, Titsey Hill, Surrey CR6 9QH. The sat nav co-ordinates are 51.281916, -0.001370. Both the ceremony and reception will be held at the venue.
We ask that you arrive at no later than 1:00pm to ensure you are seated prior to a 1:30pm start.
Yes. The venue provides a free dedicated car park for guests. Cars left overnight are at the owner’s risk and must be collected by 10:30am the following morning.
For day guests, black tie is preferred. Paul and his groomsmen will be suited and booted on the day and would love for you to join them! Cocktail attire is a close second. For evening guests, our dress code is cocktail attire - cocktail dresses, LBDs, dressy jumpsuits, suits and shirts...whatever you fancy! However, most of all, we want you to feel comfortable. So, if the shoes are too high or your top button is too tight, wear the flats or let it all hang loose!
Yes. Please see the Hotels & Travel section which includes details on The Lingfield Park Hotel & Country Club, as our nominated hotel and a secondary option of three luxury shepherd shuts available for guests to hire onsite at The Barn at Botley Hill.
We appreciate that guests will be coming from various places to get to the wedding and so we ask guests to arrange their own transport to the venue. For the return trip home, for those staying Lingfield Park Hotel & Country Club, we will be providing a complimentary coach at carriages to return guests to the hotel. Please take a look at our Hotels & Travel page for further information.
There is no need. We have it in plentiful supply!
We ask that you check your invitation. As you'll know, we absolutely adore little ones! However, our wedding is going to be a predominantly adults-only event. The venue has a cap on numbers for little people due to insurance requirements. As a result, we have had to prioritise those with children who are travelling long distances and those with very young children. If your invite includes a child, then they are on the list! Thanks for your understanding!
Please let us know as soon as possible and we will ensure the caterers are notified. This includes vegans, vegetarians, pescatarians, gluten-freers etc!
Yes. Both cash and card are accepted, with the exception of AMEX.
We’d love to know if you can make it (and we really hope you can!) as soon as possible to help us begin coordinating and finalising the day. At the latest, we ask that you confirm no later than 15 May 2022. If you cannot make it, boo! That's such a shame. You will be missed! Please still RSVP to confirm "no" so we can plan accordingly.
We are having an “unplugged ceremony” and so ask that any phones and recording devices are put away or placed on silent during this time. We’ve got a fantastic photographer and videographer with us on the day to capture the wedding from start to finish. We'll share this following the event! Following the ceremony, please feel free to snap away!
Of course! We would love to see your snaps following the wedding. If you remember, please use the hashtag #TheBergins when uploading onto social media platforms so we can easily spot them!
Just like Cinderella, all great events have to come to an end. Carriages are at midnight at which point the complimentary coach will return any hotel guests back to the The Lingfield Park Hotel & Country Club along with the new Mr & Mrs Bergin. Miss the bus? You'll turn into a pumpkin!