FAQs

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Can I bring a date?

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Please check your invitation to see if your +1 is included. We’ve tried our best to keep numbers balanced, but we totally get that coming all the way to Hawaii can feel like a big trip to do solo. If your invite doesn’t include a +1 and you’d really love to bring someone, please reach out. We'll do out best!

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Are kids welcome?

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While we absolutely love the little ones, our wedding will be adults only. We hope this gives you a chance to relax, celebrate, and enjoy a night off. We can also help you organize onsite babysitting services. For those with newborns, we understand that bringing your baby may be essential. Please reach out if this is the case. We’d love to support you in making it work.

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What will the weather be like?

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May is one of the best times to visit Hawaii. On May 16, you can expect warm, sunny days with average highs around 80°F / 27°C and cooler evenings in the low 70s / around 21°C. While it's generally dry this time of year, there can occasionally be a passing shower. Fingers crossed for perfect island sunshine!

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Is the wedding indoors or outdoors?

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The ceremony, cocktail hour, and reception will all take place outdoors so you can enjoy the beautiful Hawaiian setting. Our after party will move indoors so we can dance and celebrate into the night.

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What is the dress code?

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For the Luau on Thursday, May 14, it will be casual attire. Feel free to come in whatever your heart desires including Hawaiian shirts. For the welcome party on Friday, May 15, the dress code is cocktail attire. For women, think short to midi length dresses. For men, a button down shirt with dress pants, slacks, or khakis (no jeans please). For the wedding day on Saturday, May 16, the dress code is formal wedding attire. The theme is garden party, so the overall vibe is soft, romantic, and a tiny bit whimsical. For women, think long or midi dresses in pastels or light tones (sage, blush, soft tan, light blue all work beautifully). For men, a suit or tux (ties optional). Blue, grey, or tan suits all work great. Let's save the Hawaiian shirts for the luau. 😉 The ceremony and cocktail hour will all take place on grass. We recommend wearing comfortable, grass-friendly shoes.

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Will there be a wishing well?

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We know it takes time, money, and effort to celebrate with us so your presence truly is the greatest gift we could ask for. For those who wish to spoil us further, we will have a physical wishing well at the wedding and a digital one on our website. We’re super grateful that you’re joining us for this special moment and can't wait to celebrate with you!

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When do I need to RSVP by?

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It would be great if you could please RSVP by December 31 2025.