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Can I bring a plus one?Can I bring a plus one?
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Plus-ones are included for spouses, long term partners, and wedding party members due to venue space. Reach out with questions!
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Are children permitted to attend?Are children permitted to attend?
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Yes. Children are welcome to participate in our wedding. We're especially thrilled to invite all families to the reception afterward, which will be a joyful, kid-friendly gathering with games, snacks, and an outdoor space to run and play!
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How should I plan for parking?How should I plan for parking?
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For those driving, there are parking lots at both the church and venue with plenty of available space.
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Will there be food provided?Will there be food provided?
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Yep! There will be plenty to eat after the ceremony in Ashland. will be a cocktail hour with heavy hors d'oeuvres followed by a buffet style sit down meal during the reception, and pub grub at the after party.
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Will there be alcohol?Will there be alcohol?
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Yes, there will be alcohol at the reception. There will be an open bar serving mainly beer and wine with specialty cocktails and mocktails.
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What should I expect at the Catholic Mass?What should I expect at the Catholic Mass?
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We’re so excited to share our wedding day with you at a full Catholic Mass (~60-90 minutes) at St. Mary’s Catholic Church! You’ll experience heartfelt prayers, Bible readings, a short homily, the Rite of Matrimony where we exchange our vows, and the Rite of Communion. A Music Minister and Cantor will lead beautiful solo pieces and guide everyone in singing joyful hymns. To honor the sacrament’s importance to us, please silence phones and save chatting for the reception hall! Programs for music, readings, and prayers will be provided. Ushers will be more than happy to guide you in this intimate setting. We’re thrilled to share this special moment with you! For those who nervous or would like to learn more on the structure/etiquette of a catholic mass, please check out this video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4w_SSRtCdUw For more information on understanding the catholic sacrament of marriage please view the following page: https://www.spokenbride.com/blog/2020/3/20/answering-common-questions-from-non-catholic-wedding-guests-
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Is this an unplugged ceramony?Is this an unplugged ceramony?
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Yes. Please respect the couple's wishes and the church's policy by refraining from using your device during the ceremony out of respect for the holy sacrament. Photos will be provided by the photographer- anyone who wishes for copies of the photos, reach out to the couple after the wedding.
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What if I have accessibility needs?What if I have accessibility needs?
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Both St. Mary’s Catholic Church and Hanover Golf Club reception venue are fully accessible for those with physical mobility needs, offering close parking, ramps, and reserved seating if needed. Private spaces are also available at both locations if anyone needs a quiet moment for personal concerns (like a breather or sensory break). Please let the couple know your needs when you RSVP if accessibility is needed.
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How Do I RSVP?How Do I RSVP?
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Go to the RSVP tab on this website and type in your last name (this appears to be the easiest way for most people). Scroll down and select your party!
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What is the dress code?What is the dress code?
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For the ceremony, please dress in formal attire with suits or waistcoats and long or midi dresses in modest styles. Florals or spring attires are welcomes! For the reception, the couple encourages you to change into your most whimsical self: Hobbit, Lord of the Rings, Ren Faire, or cottage core outfits — whether that's a cute flower crown with leather belt or pointy ears/vest combo, or going all out! Have fun with it!!