Wedding Party
Pete Carrillo
Officiant
Uncle Pete holds a special place in our hearts, and we are so honored that he will be marrying us. As a beloved uncle, role model, and steady presence in our lives, Pete brings warmth, wisdom, and a great sense of humor to every family gathering. Having him officiate our wedding makes this moment even more meaningful, and we could not imagine a better person to help us begin this next chapter together.
Jaime Esquivel
Best Man
Jaime and Robert have been a duo since the 9th grade, a bond that eventually led them to join the "Stud Club" together a self made but highly sought after club by no one. Whether they are out camping, discovering new music, or playing guitar, they have shared countless hobbies over the years—though these days, you’re just as likely to find them out riding bikes. Beyond their shared love for the outdoors, they’ve navigated plenty of adventures. One as "Pace and Picante." They still laugh about the time they took over the dance floor in Las Vegas; after a few too many drinks, they confidently declared themselves "Pace and Picante" while attempting to dance salsa with anyone. Jaime is the rare kind of friend where, no matter how much time passes between hangs, they always pick up exactly where they left off. Robert is honored to have his fellow Stud Club member standing by his side.
Elizabeth Harris
Matron of Honor
Elise’s sister has been one of the most important people in her life from the very beginning. As sisters, they have shared countless memories, inside jokes, and milestones over the years, building a bond that has only grown stronger with time. She has always been someone Elise can count on—for honest advice, unwavering support, and plenty of laughter along the way. Whether celebrating life’s big moments or navigating its challenges, she has been a constant source of encouragement and friendship. This season of life has been especially meaningful for them, as they’ve been able to share the experience of wedding planning together, with Liz getting married just six months before Elise. Being able to celebrate both weddings side by side has made this time even more special.
Molly Pantages
Matron of Honor
Molly has been one of Elise’s closest friends since kindergarten, which means their friendship goes back just about as far as Elise can remember. Over the years, they’ve shared countless memories growing up together—from childhood adventures to celebrating life’s biggest milestones. Their friendship has taken them far beyond their hometown. Together, they’ve road-tripped across the country and traveled around the world, creating unforgettable memories along the way. Through every stage of life, Molly has been a constant source of friendship, laughter, and support. Their long history together has created a bond that feels more like family than friendship.
Emilio Alvillar
Groomsman
Emilio and Robert first met as colleagues over 15 years ago, a professional introduction that quickly grew into a lifelong friendship. Having seen Robert through many"walks of life," Emilio has been a constant presence through the highs and lows. The two have spent countless hours on the road for work trips, which naturally led to some legendary—if not slightly delirious—inside jokes. Nothing bonded them quite like the time they found themselves eating army rations while working out of town; between the boredom and the "gourmet" cuisine, Robert went a bit loopy, repeating "Freaking army, bro!" for hours on end just to keep the morale high. Beyond the road trip antics, Emilio is known as a man with the patience of a saint and a lending ear for any situation. Robert is proud to have a friend as steady and supportive as Emilio standing with him on the big day.
Paul Contreras
Groomsman
Paul is Robert’s older brother and his very first teammate. Their bond was forged through thousands of hours playing Streets of Rage on the Sega Genesis and endless games of basketball in the front yard—balanced out, of course, by the character-building chore of pulling weeds in the backyard. Growing up, Robert looked to Paul for more than just gaming tips; he was the ultimate source of style and sound. Robert spent his high school years "borrowing" Paul’s band t-shirts and raiding his CD collection, which is why Robert’s musical taste ranges from the alt-rock of Third Eye Blind and Blink-182 to the heavier vibes of Marilyn Manson and the punk energy of NOFX. Paul has been a steady influence and a great big brother from the beginning, and Robert is incredibly happy to have him standing by his side as he starts this new chapter.
Justin White
Groomsman
Justin and Robert first connected through mutual friends and a shared obsession with music. That passion quickly evolved from listening to creating, as the two spent much of their 20s collaborating on everything from hip-hop tracks to acoustic sessions. Their creative partnership didn't stop at the studio, though—long before "podcasting" was a household term, they were ahead of the curve, leasing out a dedicated space and launching their very own full-scale podcast network. Man these dudes are so dreamy... While their personalities might be polar opposites, they complement each other in a way that just works. Justin’s perspective has always been the perfect balance to Robert’s, making them effective in creativity as they are in friendship. Robert is thrilled to have his longtime creative partner and friend standing with him on the big day.
Robert Carrillo Jr.
Groomsman
Robert Jr. is Robert’s oldest son and, at 16 years old, is quickly becoming a young man his father deeply admires. A true talent in every sense of the word, Robert Jr. excels in everything from his academic pursuits to his skill on the piano. His arrival into Robert’s life was a turning point, shaping him into a better man and providing a sense of purpose that changed his world forever. While Robert’s pride and love for his son are often beyond what words can express, having him stand by his side as a groomsman says it all. Robert couldn't be prouder to share this milestone with the person who has taught him so much about life and love.
Bradley Carrillo
Groomsman
Bradley is Robert’s 14-year-old son, a young man defined by his immense heart and a relentless creative engine. Whether he is producing videos, composing music, or diving into 3D design, Bradley is constantly bringing something new and impressive into the world. He has a natural gift for artistry that is truly great to witness, and his unique perspective on life shines through in everything he creates. Beyond his creative talents, Bradley’s sharp wit and sense of humor keep everyone around him smiling. He has been a profound influence on his father’s life, helping Robert learn to slow down and lead with more patience and love. His natural empathy and "voice of reason" are qualities as impressive as they are rare, and Robert is honored to have Bradley’s kind spirit and artistic energy by his side on such an important day.
Jaime Dimattio
Bridesmaid
Elise and Jaime’s friendship began the summer before 9th grade at show choir dance camp—an introduction that Elise will never forget. During camp, Jaime smashed a cupcake in Elise’s face, and somehow that moment turned into the start of a lasting friendship. From that day on, the two have shared years of laughter, memories, and plenty of stories that only they can truly appreciate. What started with a cupcake prank quickly turned into a friendship that has stood the test of time.
Nicole Martinelli
Bridesmaid
Elise met Nicole in Washington, D.C. while they were both working for a youth leadership company right after graduating from undergrad. They quickly bonded over the fact that they were both heading to graduate school in the fall to pursue careers in the health professions. They knew their friendship was meant to last after one particularly memorable night of bar hopping that ended back at home, eating the leftover hot wings they had saved from happy hour earlier that evening. Somewhere between the laughs, late-night conversations, and wing sauce that ended up all over Elise's pajamas, it became clear they had found a lifelong friend in each other.
Tami Hefferon
Bridesmaid
Elise met Tami when she was hired at FPU to assist with one of Tami’s classes. During that very first class, Tami made quite the introduction—by hopping on Elise’s back and having her back squat her in front of the students. It was a moment Elise definitely didn’t expect, but it set the tone for what would become a very memorable friendship. Since then, Tami has continued to push Elise’s personal space boundaries in the most entertaining ways, and their professional relationship quickly grew into a close friendship beyond work. Over time, Tami—and her family—have become part of Elise’s chosen family.
Megan Weir
Bridesmaid
Elise met Megan during a girls trip to Nashville, where Megan quickly made a memorable first impression. Throughout a night of bar hopping, Megan kept poking Elise in the behind—only to immediately blame it on the strangers standing next to them. Elise eventually caught on, but the pranks continued all night long. After hours of dancing, laughing, and Megan’s relentless poking, the night ended back at their Airbnb with late-night cheese and crackers and a heart-to-heart conversation in the kitchen. Somewhere between the pranks and the meaningful conversation, a friendship was formed. Megan later played an even bigger role in Elise’s story when she introduced Elise and Robert to one another during a trip to Puerto Rico—proving that sometimes the friend who pokes you all night also ends up introducing you to your future husband.
Olivia Carrillo
Flower Girl
Olivia is Robert’s 8-year-old daughter and the heart of the family. Lovingly known as his "little chicken noodle," she is the spark that keeps Robert young and possesses a rare, natural gift for bringing people together like no one else can. A vibrant and creative spirit, Olivia is happiest when she is diving into her art, practicing gymnastics, or dancing. Her deep compassion for animals is unmatched—though it is closely rivaled by her future stepmother, Elise. As the flower girl, Olivia’s intelligence and beauty will surely shine, but it is her kind heart that makes Robert and Elise most proud. Robert and Elise couldn't imagine this day without their favorite little lady by their side.