FAQs

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What should I wear?

Answer

We would love for our guests to dress up with us! The dress code is cocktail. But please avoid wearing all black or white. If you would like some inspiration, please see the 2 Pinterest boards below. Men: https://pin.it/2HcJt8LPO Women: https://pin.it/5v2fRkd9t For the women, if you use code “WGLAURENPAYNE” you can save 25% off Pashion shoes! Very comfortable convertible heels so you don't have to bring back up flats! https://pashionfootwear.com/

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Can I take pictures during the ceremony?

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No. It is an “unplugged” ceremony so cell phones should be silenced and put away. However, we would love for you to take photos and share them with us during the cocktail hour and reception!

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Can I bring a guest?

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Unfortunately no, unless your invitation says otherwise.

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Can my children and/or pets come?

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Unfortunately, no. While we love and adore your child please leave them at home. Parents Night out!!!

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When should I RSVP?

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Please RSVP on this website by Saturday March 1, 2025. If you miss this deadline, you will be marked as ‘not attending’ and we will miss you!

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What should I do if I have a food allergy?

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If you have any food allergies or dietary restrictions, please indicate that when you RSVP.

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When should we arrive?

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Please be at Rust Manor House by 4:15 pm as the ceremony will start promptly at 4:30. However, please do not arrive before 4:00 pm.

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Where will the ceremony, cocktail hour, and reception be held?

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The ceremony will be behind the house along a paved path. This does mean it will be outside unless there is inclement weather. The cocktail hour will be in the house and outside as there will be plenty of space available to move around! The reception will be also on the grounds but indoor. Given the varying locations and the unpredictable Virginia spring weather, we do recommend bringing a jacket!

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How should we get there / what’s the parking situation?

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If you plan on drinking, please be safe! We recommend using a ride service like Uber or setting a designated driver. There is also plenty of parking on site if you don’t drink or have a DD. It will fit more than enough cars!

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Where should I direct my questions to day of and before the big day?

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Any questions during the wedding should be directed to our wonderful day of coordinator. Questions before the big day will likely be answered here, on the transportation page, things to do page, or Rust Manor’s website. If they are not, you may ask the bridal party or immediate family.