With the best of intentions, some of you may be tempted to refer to this event as 'a gay wedding'. We prefer to think of it as any other wedding where two people who love each other gather with their loved ones.
As soon as the invites are sent out, the sooner the better! We have listed May 15 as the deadline, so we ask you to stay as close to that as possible as we finalize numbers to send over to caterers and such. However, we also know that we are in uncertain times, so we of course understand plans change and we absolutely respect that. Just reach out to either bride with any changes or updates.
Yes, actually! We welcome humans of all ages, and as we build a number of how many kiddos and littles will be coming, we'll make arrangements for entertainment and/or breakaway spaces for them, as needed.
This is not a black-tie affair. We'll be outside, with rolling hills surrounding us and a rushing creek nearby. We want you to be classy, but comfortable. Familiar, but with a flex. Respectfully, no tennis shoes or flip-flops. But also no need for a 3-piece Armani tuxedo either, ya know?
If your invitation card directly names another person or says 'and guest', then absolutely! If your invitation card lists 'and guest', please be sure to put your plus-one's name & info on the RSVP.
There actually are. We want to make the most of our wedding week, especially for the out-of-towners staying a few days. So we've planned a bonfire, local hangout, and a tubing adventure for those who want to join! Details on the RSVP page.
Open bar.