FAQs
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When should I RSVP by?
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We kindly ask for all RSVPs by May 25th, 2026. We hope you will be able to join us!
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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?
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Please arrive by 4:00pm. The ceremony will begin promptly at 4:30pm in the Garden Courtyard.
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Is there a dress code?
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For the Wedding Welcome Party on July 17th 2026, Cocktail Attire is kindly requested. For the Wedding day on July 18th, 2026, Black Tie Attire is kindly requested. For gentlemen, this means tuxedos or elegant matching suits, wearing a tie or bow tie, and dress shoes are required. For women, this means floor length gowns and formal accessories. We also politely remind you to refrain from wearing white, to keep this color reserved for the wedding couple.
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Can I bring a date?
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We truly wish we could celebrate with everyone, but due to space limitations, we are only able to accommodate the guests listed within your Invitation. We appreciate your understanding!
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Is there parking for the wedding day?
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Yes, complimentary valet parking will be available at the hotel entrance on the wedding day. For your convenience, rideshare services are also permitted for drop-off and pick-up at the hotel if you prefer not to drive. Please note that parking be non-hosted the rest of the wedding weekend for all guests attending the Welcome Party or other celebrations on property. Self-parking will be available for $35 per car, per day.
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Any recommendations for guests making a weekend out of it?
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We hope you’ll make the most of your time in sunny La Jolla! Here are a few local favorites to explore before or after the celebrations: – Head into downtown La Jolla to enjoy delicious restaurants, boutique shopping, and sightseeing. (Please reference our "Things To Do" page for dining suggestions and activity ideas) – For guests staying at Estancia, please take full advantage of the resort amenities. Lounge by the pool, unwind at the spa or fitness center, stroll through the gardens on a self-guided botanical tour, or visit the butterfly garden and onsite apiary.