FAQs

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Can I make a weekend of it?

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We hope you do! You can check out the section of recommendations for what to do on Bainbridge Island, but be assured that there is plenty to do right on-site (including nothing at all if that is what you are in need of). We will be having our "traditional" wedding on Saturday, April 20th but outside of that set chunk of time, we will have a lot of choose-your-own-adventure opportunities. Nature walks, yoga, and shuttles to take you into the cute town of Winslow where there is an art museum, shops, wine tasting, and plenty more. There will also be yard games, treehouses to explore, and lots of food! Our goal was to have this weekend be more of an experience than an event. We all have different needs and bandwidths. So, please explore and enjoy as much or as little as is right for you.

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How do I get there?

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Once you make your way to Seattle, Bainbridge Island (where IslandWood is located) is a short (30-minute) ferry ride away from downtown Seattle. You can either walk or drive onto the ferry. You can also drive around (and not take the ferry), but that is a longer route. Please check the ferry schedule to plan accordingly in order to catch the ferry you want (see more details on the travel page). If you do not have a car all you will need to do is get yourself on the ferry as a walk-on passenger. We will have shuttles running on Friday the 19th and Sunday the 21st. IslandWood is only an 11-minute drive from the Bainbridge Ferry Terminal. If you have a car you will find plenty of free parking on-site at IslandWood.

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When should I book my room?

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Booking of IslandWood rooms has closed. If you need to make adjustments or additions, please reach out to IslandWood directly.

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What should I pack?

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This weekend will be filled with lots of opportunities for relaxation and activities. A choose-your-own-adventure, if you will. We would recommend coming prepared for a range of experiences. We suggest walking shoes, clothes you can move and feel comfortable being in the forest in, a rain shell, party outfits, fun accessories, your toothbrush, sweatpants, and whatever you will need to feel fun, relaxed, and comfortable. Don't forget your dancing shoes (though we will probably end up barefoot). Oh, and an umbrella, but only if you don't want to look like a local. While the lodges at IslandWood are very comfortable, they provide only a 3-in-1 body product in the showers and do not provide hair dryers in the room. If you would like to bring any toiletries to make your stay more comfortable, please do!

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What will the weather be like?

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The weather in Seattle is unpredictable any time of year! While we're crossing our fingers for warm sunshine, the weather in Seattle in April can be cold so warmer clothes are a good idea. Rain is always tentatively in the forecast so a rain jacket (or umbrella) is also smart. TBD. Steve Pool (RIP) will tell us closer to the date. Keep your eyes on the weather to pack accordingly. We will have a rain plan but will plan to be outside as much as possible. Even if it is a little chilly.

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What is the dress code for the actual wedding?

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This is a celebration so we hope you do dust off a fun outfit but don't stress about it being fit for the queen. We want you to wear whatever color, whatever style, whatever outfit you feel great wearing. Wear whatever makes you feel your best! For those needing more direction, we'll say this - there is no need for your tux or ballgown at this event, but you may feel a bit underdressed in jeans and t-shirt. If you're a suit-wearer, there's no expectation of a tie or jacket so it's up to you if those pieces complete your look and you want to take them out for a spin. As they say, "look good, feel good!" Weather permitting, we'll be outside on gravel and grass so wear shoes that you're comfortable walking (and dancing) in.

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Are the kids invited?

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They are not. With a few exceptions for our family, we are asking that the little ones stay home or find another party to attend.

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Can I bring a date?

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The invitation you received has the name(s) of the people in your household invited to the wedding. If there has been a major life change that is not reflected in your invitation then please let us know.

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Are you registered? Where?

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The gifts we love most are your presence (Aislinn is glowing at this pun!). Is your love language quality time? Honestly, we know that it is a financial and energetic investment in us by you to attend our wedding weekend. That is gift enough and our favorite kind. We have received some feedback that some guests might like to have the opportunity to give a gift. Is your love language acts of service? If you are in this camp, please consider donating to either Ryther (a Seattle-based therapy center for youth) or Summer of Sass (a nonprofit organization dedicated to relocating LGBTQI 18-20-year-olds from oppressive areas in the US to the queer-friendly community of Provincetown). Is your love language gifts? We have also been told that it can feel meaningful to give and receive gifts that are tangible reminders of our wedding and our relationships. We have created a small registry to honor those who fall into this category. Please see the "Registry" tab to find this.