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What sets me apart is the depth I bring beyond the ceremony itself — with over 25 years in marriage counseling, I don’t just officiate weddings, I help couples build a strong foundation for the marriage ahead through pre-marital counseling. I love shaping services that reflect each couple’s story, whether traditional or more relaxed, and my goal is always to help you feel grounded and present so you can truly enjoy your day. Let’s create a wedding — and a marriage — you’re ready for.

“From our first conversation, Minister Wes made it clear he understood exactly what we wanted for our ceremony. He was...” — Edward M., 1 month ago

What distinguishes The Lovers Agency is our ability to blend literary and visual storytelling. With a professional background in poetry and creative writing, we specialize in crafting custom vows that resonate with your specific bond. By pairing this with our photography services, we offer a cohesive and streamlined experience, documenting your day through both moving language and timeless imagery to tell one unified, beautiful story.

“Between the custom-written vows and the stunning photography, every moment felt like a story being told.” — Ben J., 3 months ago

I specialize in inclusive ceremonies that celebrate all forms of love. As an LGBTQIA+ community member, I prioritize authentic self-expression, chosen names and pronouns, and warmly welcome polyamorous and non-traditional relationships. I also serve couples from mixed religious, cultural, or racial backgrounds, and those with diverse or no spiritual beliefs. Plus, I love incorporating geek, nerd, or cosplay passions to create a truly unique wedding experience.

Bonnie feels your wedding ceremony should never feel scripted or generic. She takes the time to truly understand each couple so the ceremony feels natural, heartfelt, and deeply personal—never templated, never recycled. Her approach blends authentic storytelling with emotional connection, creating ceremonies that feel alive in the moment and unforgettable in memory. She brings a unique combination of experience, intuition, and creativity that allows her to perform each ceremony with confidence, care, and meaning.

“As a personal friend, I know the time and effort Bonnie puts into every ceremony making it meaningful, special and...” — Carla Van D., 1 month ago

Kayelily works hand in hand with you so that your ceremony is unique to the two of you. She provides guidance and expertise and her exclusive collection of ceremony material as together you develop your unique ceremony script which includes the story of how you met and fell in love and your journey to your wedding day as well as the things you love about each other! A ceremony full of laughter and joyful tears that you will love hearing on your wedding day, honoring of your family and friends, and have your guests raving about how much they loved the ceremony as they celebrate your marriage.

“Kayelily is wonderful! We hired her to officiate our small elopement ceremony with our immediate family. From the start...” — Jennifer V., 10 months ago

Our unique background as comics offers a refined level of comfortability and proficiency in public speaking, more so than the average officiant. Combined with our writing skillset for custom vows or speeches, we strive to deliver an enjoyable, fun, and sincere service you and your guests won't soon forget!

“Matt was great to work with! He asked us questions, and tailored his wedding speech towards us and our story. I really...” — Kaitlyn J., 1 month ago

With over 35 years of ministerial experience and a decade as a college instructor, I bring a unique blend of personal touch and professional expertise to every wedding. As an ordained Baptist minister, I am authorized to officiate weddings throughout North Carolina. I'm based in Chapel Hill and proudly serve couples in Raleigh, Durham, Greensboro, Burlington, and all surrounding areas. I also welcome destination weddings!

“Amazing officiant! Perry was so professional and easy to work with! We did premarital coaching with him as well, and he...” — Demi D., 3 months ago

Have the Ceremony that you want. We will strive to get to know you, so that we can write and tailor a ceremony that is both personal and meaningful to you. There is no such thing as a "one-size-fits-all" ceremony. This is your day, and we will do everything possible to make the entire experience memorable for you, your family members, and friends so that they will say the same things that others have.

“We truly cannot recommend Rev Kevin Holland enough! From the very beginning, he was so thoughtful, kind, and helpful...” — Alexandra H., 3 months ago

I work with all couples who have made the decision to choose one another–your uniqueness will be honored! Together, we’ll find a way to create a ceremony that represents the emotion and the beliefs that ground your decision to take this step as a couple. I’m warm, easy-going, and well-organized. Once you book your date with me, I will keep track of the steps we all need to take to ensure that your wedding isn’t just beautiful but also legal and handled properly. I want you to rest assured that you can depend on me!

“Nicole was EXCELLENT! She prepared a beautiful, personalized ceremony and delivered it with charm, grace, and humor.” — Ben, 11 months ago

With more than 1,000 ceremonies performed, including a wedding at Walt Disney World, Sheryl brings confidence, warmth, and calm to every celebration. She creates each ceremony around the couple’s story, values, and vision rather than using a one-size-fits-all script. Ordained through an established brick-and-mortar church, she understands North Carolina marriage requirements and handles the details, timing, and unexpected moments so couples can relax and enjoy saying “I do.”

“Sheryl was absolutely amazing!! I can’t say enough good things about her. The ceremony she did was exactly how we...” — Hannah, 1 year ago

I am affirming in every sense of the word. I will do as religiously as I or as secular as you want. As a gay man, I want to make sure that anyone that wants to get married is able to. Whatever your plans are for you day, let’s make them a reality!

Very easy to work with and committed to creating a ceremony that reflects your unique relationship. I’ll guide you through the process without adding extra stress, making sure your day is personal, relaxed, and memorable.

“Our wedding ceremony with Aaron Gibson Officiant was absolutely perfect. From the start, Aaron's communication style...” — Suzanne G., 1 year ago