This was such a hard decision, and it’s one we made with a lot of care and love. The truth is, life has been moving quickly and unpredictably, and with everything going on—especially Mitchell’s health—we knew we needed to keep things small, simple, and as low-stress as possible. We didn’t want anyone to feel hurt or excluded. We just needed to hold this moment gently and protect the little bit of peace we could find in it. If we could have had every person we love right beside us, we would have. But please know: this choice wasn’t about keeping you out. It was about getting through this in the way that felt most right for us, in this season.
We’re not doing a traditional registry or honeymoon, but we’ve set up a Venmo for anyone who feels moved to support us. There’s truly no expectation—your love and care are already such meaningful gifts. If you'd like to contribute, find us on Venmo @MandMtotheEXTREME Any gifts will help us navigate this season—frequent trips for Mitchell’s treatment, the unexpected costs of life, and the quiet joys we’re holding onto as we build this future together, one moment at a time. Thank you for being part of our circle.
Absolutely. Whether it's lighting a candle, raising a glass, sending a voice memo, or sharing a memory or well wish—those gestures mean more than we can say. We're carrying all of you with us that day and will share photos and videos as soon as possible.
That’s so kind of you—and we’d absolutely love that. Notes, cards, or anything sent with love mean the world to us, especially since we can’t gather with everyone in person. If you’d like to mail something, just reach out and we’ll be happy to share our address. Your thoughtfulness is deeply felt.
We’re taking it day by day—grateful, overwhelmed, full of love, and just trying to soak in this moment for all it is. Your support helps more than you know.