FAQs

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How should I RSVP?

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To RSVP to our wedding, please go to the RSVP tab of the website and input your name. Please submit your RSVP no later than Friday, September 11, 2026 so we can ensure you are included in the wedding festivities. Any RSVP’s received after this date may not be able to be accommodated.

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Can I bring a plus one?

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We are so blessed to have such a large community. However, our hope is to keep our wedding as intimate as possible and limited to those individuals whom we personally know and have met. With that said, our wedding festivities are by invitation only. Only those explicitly named on your invitation/RSVP are included as a plus one and part of the guest list. Thank you for understanding!

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What is the dress code?

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American Ceremony: Our wedding dress code is formal. For women, this means a long evening gown, and for men, a tux/dark suit and tie are appropriate. Traditional Yoruba Ceremony: We welcome guests to keep wearing their formal attire or wear traditional Nigerian/African clothing!

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Yoruba Ceremony Colors

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Locally woven Nigerian Aso oke colors: Navy blue Gelè (women’s head scarf), shoulder piece, and Fila (men’s hat) color: Burgundy/raspberry wine

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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Both the American and Traditional Yoruba ceremonies will start ON TIME. Please arrive at least 15 minutes before each ceremony to get settled.

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Are kids welcome?

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We have decided to only include our nieces and nephew in the wedding festivities. We love your kids but respectfully request no children at the reception, allowing all of our guests to enjoy an adults-only evening!

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Can I take pictures during the ceremony?

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American Ceremony: This ceremony will be unplugged. We kindly request that guests do not take photos during the ceremony and remain present so our photographer Malik is able to capture moment. Traditional Yoruba Ceremony: We understand that this will be the first time many guests will experience a Traditional Yoruba ceremony and invite all to take pictures and videos!

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

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Yes, there will be parking available on-site at the mansion for all guests. Uber/Lyft is also accessible, but we advise for guests utilizing ride-share services to schedule their pickup in advance!

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What is a Traditional Yoruba Ceremony?

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Fun fact: for those who don't know, Tomi is a first-generation American in her family! She is very proud of her Nigerian culture and is honored to be able to include this experience as part of the wedding festivities. Larry and Tomi are excited to have guest participate in the ceremony, dancing, and eat the Nigerian food that is part of their dinner menu! LEARN MORE- copy/paste any of the links below in your browser to learn more about what a Yoruba ceremony is: https://www.eventdesignbybe.com/the-ultimate-guide-to-nigerian-wedding-traditions-for-yoruba-weddings/ https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=awHuGLD0zPY&pp=ygUcbmlnZXJpYW4gdHJhZGl0aW9uYWwgd2VkZGluZw%3D%3D https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=nbJXk1CTcl0&pp=ygUcbmlnZXJpYW4gdHJhZGl0aW9uYWwgd2VkZGluZ9IHCQkeAaO1ajebQw%3D%3D https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=IBkUR5k1tAE&pp=ygUOeW9ydWJhIHdlZGRpbmc%3D https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=yQGp1I5Wrpc&pp=ygUcbmlnZXJpYW4gdHJhZGl0aW9uYWwgd2VkZGluZw%3D%3D

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What is “Spraying?”

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Spraying is an African tradition where guests give or “spray” money to celebrants, especially newlyweds, as a symbol of happiness, good fortune, and affection. During the Yoruba ceremony, guests will often gather around the couple and gently “spray” cash on their shoulders and all around them. All guests are invited to participate in this tradition, but it is not mandatory! If you would like to participate we advise for guests to withdraw or order $1 bills from their bank, prior to the wedding. LEARN MORE: https://www.eventdesignbybe.com/the-ultimate-guide-to-nigerian-wedding-traditions-for-yoruba-weddings/

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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

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Please let us know by September 11, 2026, if you have a food allergy and we will try our best to accommodate.