FAQs
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What time should I arrive?
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The ceremony will begin promptly at 3:00 pm. Please arrive no earlier than 2:30 pm, as St. Patrick's school will be in session and performing bus pick-up. An ideal time to arrive will be 2:45 pm to ensure you are seated and we can begin on time. If you choose to not attend the ceremony, the cocktail hour at Westbury Manor begins at 7:00 pm.
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Is there a dress code?
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We are requesting Formal Attire for our wedding. For gentlemen, a suit and dress shoes are perfect—no need for a tuxedo. For ladies, a formal gown or cocktail dress is great. Please feel free to wear any color except white. The bridesmaids will be wearing a foresty-dark green, in case you'd prefer to avoid matching them.
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Can I bring a plus one?
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Due to limited space, we can only accommodate guests who are formally invited. If you have received a plus one, it will be specifically addressed within the invitation. Thank you for understanding.
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Are children welcome?
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As much as we love your little ones, our wedding is exclusively for adults, with the exception of immediate family, children belonging to our wedding party and kids over 12.
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How do I RSVP?
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Please refer to the "RSVP" tab and use the link provided to confirm if you will be joining us. Search by your first and last name. If you are having issues searching for your name, please contact us by phone or email at pmcwedding25@gmail.com.
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What date should I RSVP by?
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Once the link is available, please RSVP by 9/30/2025. This will give us ample time to provide a final headcount to the venue.
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Have you reserved blocks of rooms at one or more hotels?
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Yes! We have a block of hotel rooms at the Courtyard Westbury Long Island. Please refer to the "Travel" tab for more information.
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Will there be shuttle service to the wedding venue?
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Yes! We have listed the location of the ceremony and reception on our website. If you choose to stay at our selected hotel, there will be a shuttle service that will bring you to and from Westbury Manor. If you choose to drive yourself, there is a large parking lot at the venue with no valet parking.
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Will there be a time gap between your wedding ceremony and reception?
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Yes! You will have some time between the ceremony and the start of cocktail hour. Please refer to the "Things to Do" tab for a variety of activities in the Huntington and Westbury area to fill your time.
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What type of food will be served?
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For cocktail hour, there will be a wide variety of selections to choose from. For dinner, each guest will have a choice of entree to select at your seat (including a fish and vegetarian option). Hosts will be pre-selecting the appetizer and dessert.
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Will there be an open bar at the venue?
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Yes! We want you to have the best time, so the drinks are on us but the hangover is on you!
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Will there be an after party?
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Reception will end at 12:00am. For those party animals (cough Melissa's dad cough), make sure to grab a to-go snack and join us as we extend the hours of the Courtyard Marriott hotel bar. This will be a cash bar.