FAQs
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Where is the wedding?
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The wedding will be at the The Founders Inn and Spa in Virginia Beach, Virginia.
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What is a baraat, and can I join in?
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The baraat is the groom’s wedding procession and a super fun, high-energy part of the day! Traditionally, the groom arrives at the ceremony location accompanied by family and friends dancing to music—sometimes with a dhol drummer, DJ, or even a horse. Everyone is welcome to join the celebration and dance their way in! As the baraat approaches the venue, the bride’s family greets the groom’s side in a warm and symbolic welcome called the milni, which often includes hugs, garlands, and sometimes playful rituals. It’s a beautiful moment of both families coming together before the ceremony begins.
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What happens during the Hindu wedding ceremony?
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The Hindu wedding ceremony is a sacred and symbolic ritual filled with meaningful traditions. It takes place under a decorated canopy called a mandap. The ceremony includes exchanging floral garlands (jaimala), circling a sacred fire (agni), and taking seven steps together (saptapadi), each representing a vow. Most of the ceremony is conducted in Sanskrit by a priest, but don't worry—a translation or explanation is often provided throughout, so you can follow along. The ceremony will last about 45 minutes to an hour, and it’s perfectly okay to quietly enter or exit if needed. It’s a spiritual event, but also welcoming and inclusive—come with curiosity and open hearts!
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What should I wear?
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We’re so excited to celebrate with you! The dress code is formal—feel free to wear either Western or Indian attire. For Western outfits, think suits and ties or formal dresses. If you’d like to wear Indian attire, saris, lehengas, sherwanis, or kurta sets are all wonderful options. We’d love to see you in whatever makes you feel festive and comfortable! If you have any questions, contact Sam or Becca!
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Can I change outfits between the ceremony and the reception?
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Yes! It’s common at Indian weddings for guests (and the couple!) to change outfits between the ceremony and the reception. If you'd like to switch things up—go from traditional to formal Western wear, or just refresh your look—you’re absolutely welcome to. We'll have a break between the events to allow time for a change.
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Where can I buy an Indian outfit?
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There are many shops in DC and NJ. There are also a variety of online options as well, we list some below. If you would like a one stop shop, look into an India fest in your area. Men (look for 'kurtas): https://www.manyavar.com/en-us/men/wedding-attendee https://www.mirraw.com/men/clothing/kurta-pajama Women: houseofindya.com azafashions.com lashkaraa.com
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Can I take photos during the ceremony?
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We kindly ask that you keep phones away during the ceremony so everyone can be fully present with us. We’ll have a professional photographer capturing everything, and we promise to share photos afterward!
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May I bring a plus-one?
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We kindly ask that only guests listed on your invitation attend. If a plus-one is not named, we appreciate your understanding in keeping the celebration intimate. Thank you!
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Where do I RSVP?
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The RSVP deadline has passed. Please contact the bride or groom with any changes to your RSVP