FAQs

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Can children attend?

Answer

Absolutely! If your child’s name wasn’t included on your invitation, please know you can still bring them! If you know us, then you know we love children and you know that Mary’s family is basically 1/4 under the age of 13, so please bring your kiddos!

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Can I bring a plus one?

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Unless your invitation states otherwise, please refrain from bringing uninvited guests! In order to accommodate our venue spaces, we were only able to extend plus one invites to those who we know are in long-term, committed relationships, so that those significant others aren’t left out!

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What should I wear?

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The dress code is semi-formal/cocktail attire! Women might wear a cocktail dress or jumpsuit and men could wear a suit and tie or sports coat! Just please, no denim, and be respectful of the Bride on her big day and avoid colors like white, ivory, off-white, champagne, and blush!

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Are you registered? Where?

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Yes! We are registered on Zola!

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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

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Yes! As a diabetic, Mary is used to having to make food accommodations so we’d be happy to put in a request with our caterers! Please try to put this request in in a timely manner, so we have time to discuss with our vendors!

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When should I RSVP by?

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Please RSVP by the date written on your invitation! If you do not get your RSVP in on time, you will not be able to attend so please pay close attention to the invite!

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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Please be on time! The date and time is listed on your invitation. The church is large, so there is room for everyone, but if you want a good seat you may want to try to arrive early!

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The gift I want to get you is out of stock, what should I do?

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The gifts go in and out of stock, since they’re on so many registries! If you’re dead-set on something that is out of stock, the good news is that most of the items we chose are available from various places, so you are welcome to purchase it from somewhere else! Just let us know so we can remove it from the registry!

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How is COVID affecting your wedding?

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With the vaccine rolling out across the US, many of our guests have had the opportunity to get vaccinated and become as safe as possible in this pandemic, including those at most risk, healthcare professionals, and educators, which makes up a huge percentage of our wedding. At this time, we have not been given any guidelines from our venue or vendors regarding downsizing, and do not plan on doing so to any extreme. However, we encourage you to bring a mask, and will provide some, and we will give guests the opportunity to socially distance and check temperatures at the ceremony and reception. We understand that not all guests will be vaccinated, and are prepared to make everyone feel safe and comfortable. We completely understand anyone who still doesn’t feel comfortable to attend, and respect your decision.