Flight
This is the best place to fly into. It takes about 30 min by the car from the airport to downtown Raleigh.
Hotel
The ceremony will be held in the country. If you are traveling, you will want to stay downtown Raleigh. There is a Sheraton and a Marriott. Downtown has a few focal points, there is a museum nearby and a few restaurants that are noteworthy, most by Ashley Christensen - James Beard winner (Best Chef Southeast) 2014) as well as "The Angus Barn" a steakhouse highly regarded in the food community nationwide. See the below website to explore all Raleigh has to offer: https://www.visitraleigh.com/