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We can’t wait to see you! Online RSVPs are now disabled.
We can’t wait to see you! Online RSVPs are now disabled.
May 16, 2026
Chicago, IL
Monstera LeafMonstera Leaf

FAQs

Can't attend our ceremony? View the livestream at this link: https://livestream.oldstpats.org/weddings-1/events/rafaela-brendan
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What's the Dress Code?

Answer

Garden Party Formal! Formal attire (black tie optional) is requested, and a botanical flare is encouraged. Please be aware the conservatory may be warm in some rooms with potentially uneven flooring. We want everyone to look and feel their best.

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Are Children Allowed?

Answer

We are lucky to have so many adorable nephews, nieces, cousins, and friends in our circle! Children are welcome at the ceremony, but our reception will be child-free. Do you need help coordinating childcare? This agency was recommended by our day-of coordinator: https://www.blissbabysitters.com/

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Can I bring a plus-one?

Answer

Our venue has limited space and we want to enjoy our time with all guests as much as possible! Only the individuals listed on your invitation and the online RSVP form are invited to attend.

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How do I watch the ceremony livestream?

Answer

Copy this link into your internet browser: https://livestream.oldstpats.org/weddings-1/events/rafaela-brendan