FAQs
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DEADLINE RSVP
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August 7th, 2026 !! RSVP reminders will be sent out a week prior but after August 7th, our seating chart will be set and not changed. Thank you for your understanding, and let’s be timely for this amazing night to come!
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WHAT TIME DO I ARRIVE??
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Please arrive a half hour before the ceremony which would be 3:30pm - no later than 3:45pm please and thank you!
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WHAT SHOULD I WEAR?!
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It's a Country Chic wedding theme!! You have creative control to button downs or cowboy hats. All that we ask is that ladies, you do NOT wear Yellow or White/Ivory, please! Feel free to have fun with dressing up! -Denim -Bolo ties -Cowboy Hats -Cowboy Boots -Belt Buckles -Fringe Not mandatory by any means, optional
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CAN I LEAVE MY CAR OVERNIGHT?
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Yes, you can! The Lazy J Ranch allows you to park your vehicle overnight if you wish to stay in a hotel nearby. Complimentary parking day of will be provided as well, of course.
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DO I GET A PLUS ONE? WHAT ABOUT MY KID?
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Our apologizes, no plus ones are allowed due to limited seating! We love your children (very much) but this will be a 21+ event only. Thank you for your understanding!
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REGISTRY?!
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We are so blessed to have a lot of household items currently. If you wanted to support and be generous then we will happily accept Cash, Check or Electronic (Venmo, Cash App, Apple Pay) funds towards our future and upcoming honeymoon!!!! VENMO: aliciatrenda APPLE PAY: 248-930-6397 (Alicia) or 248-342-1307 (Pierce) CASH APP: $aliciatrenda There is also a "Registry" tab but if you don't want to pay extra for service fees then feel free to use the above accounts instead! You can drop off any physical gifts at the cards and gifts table on the actual day as well!
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IS THE WEDDING INDOORS OR OUTDOORS??
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Pending weather, the ceremony is outside and the reception to follow (same location) will be inside the Lazy J Barn. Cocktails and appetizers provided.
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ARE PHONES ALLOWED??
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Ceremony is phone free and unplugged! We PLEASE invite you to fully be present with us during the ceremony. Please turn off all mobile phones and cameras and enjoy this intimate moment with us! We promise to share with you all photos and videos from our very special day!! Reception phones will be allowed but be respectful of the paid photographers who will be around. While they are taking photos of you, do you want to be holding your cell phone up or smiling/laughing in the picture <3
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OPEN BAR?!
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There will be alcohol and other soda products provided! Shots and over serving will not be permitted at this venue per their policy. **** must bring your ID to be served ****
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FOOD?!
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We will be providing food, both meat and vegetarian options. Dinner is buffet style but if you have any dietary restrictions or allergies please reach out to Alicia or MOH, Alexis Silver. Alicia: 248-930-6397 Alexis: 248-425-6118
