Frequently Asked Question's

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When should I rsvp by?

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We'd like to have everyone's RSVP by April 27th 2026, ideally, so we can accurately plan food. (That is 1.5 months out.) HOWEVER, If know whether or not you plan to stay on the grounds and camp with us, please let us know that part ASAP, because we need more time for planning what supplies to get! Thank you!

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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Please try to arrive by around 12-1pm at the latest on June 8th to be able to attend the ceremony at 2! If for some reason you're only able to make the reception part, that's okay, just please let us know through the RSVP tab!

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Is there a dress code?

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THIS IS A CAMPING WEDDING! We are bringing a very laid back vibe to this entire thing, because that is who we are, so no. However: THEME: We are planning on having a 70s theme (outfits, music, decorations, etc.), so if that excites you, then by all means come dressed to impress! Our color scheme is loosely oranges, browns & teal/turquoise-type greens, but that is absolutely not required. DRESS CODE: If you would like to have your picture taken with us (and we hope you will!) we request that you dress up a bit (semi-formal or formal) before the ceremony for the photos afterward - BUT! Do plan to change into comfy camping clothes after that! (This is also not mandatory - we want everyone to feel comfy and happy and that's all that really matters.) FOOTWEAR: There is a chance there will be mud and there is a bit of uneven ground, so please wear sensible shoes. We recommend flat soles, not heels, or just plain old hiking boots or other comfortable, stable shoes! Tennis shoes also work (it won't be *that* muddy.) OTHER: The venue is located right on the Siuslaw River and has a small beach with a slow, shallow swimming hole (safe for kids) so please also bring bathing suit/s if you or your kids would like to swim! It does get pretty chilly at night, so if you plan to stay for that portion of the event, please also bring something warm and cozy for everyone to wear. People from the PNW tend to favor wool & down options for warmth, as they work best in this type of environment.

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Is there a wedding party?

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In order to keep the wedding planning and the ceremony simple, we have opted not to have this feature. The grove the ceremony will be in is also rather small, and would not easily accommodate a large number of people in the "pulpit" section. That said, every single one of you are special to us, and we would love to take pictures with any and all who are interested right after the ceremony! (70's attire encouraged!)

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Are kids welcome?

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YES! :) If you have kids, please just let us know who will be coming and their ages, so we know how many we need to feed. We will provide lots of fun things for kids to do, and are planning to hire someone to watch them and keep them busy during the ceremony as well, so the adults can enjoy it. Please do also bring anything they will require for individual care (snacks, special bedding, clothes, toys, etc.) and be aware that there will be no cell or internet reception there, so if you want to have anything for them to watch during downtime, download that in advance. We will be able to provide a room for a kids to nap in as well. **IF YOU NEED A BABY MONITOR** please let us know, as there are limited outlets! If you have a wireless one, please bring that. We may need to have some of the kids sleep in the same room, if the monitor requires an outlet. If you have any further questions about anything accommodations or kids-related, please let us know!

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Can I bring a date along?

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The names of the adult invitees will be printed on the envelopes. If you were sent a solo invite and would like a plus one, please contact one of us and let us know and we will see what we can do, once we have an accurate head count for original invitees!

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Can I make a food allergy or other special request?

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Absolutely. We already plan to have vegan, gluten free & other allergy-friendly options for people, but please let us know (well in advance please) if there's anything in particular you need to be careful of and we will do our best to accommodate! We will be announcing the details of the food at a later date, so stay tuned.

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Do I have to camp at the venue?

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Nope! But we'd love to have you if you want to. :) Here are your options: 1. Tent camp on the grounds. There are two HUGE fields where people can set up tents far enough away from the main reception area that it will be pretty quiet, except for road noise. Please note that there WILL likely be loud music & partying late into the night, however. 2. There are several rustic buildings that have cots in them - some are further away from the main area (more quiet) and some are closer to it. There's one yurt full of cots & bunks, which we will likely use as the kids area. Some cabins are fully indoors and some are semi-outdoor. None are very private sleeping accommodations, so they will likely be reserved for individual families and/or friend groups. The rest are FCFS, and *may* be claimed by those who can show up for the set up party on Sunday, so if you want to stay with us but want the option to be under a roof, PLEASE LET US KNOW so we can plan! 3. Bring a camper van or RV! There is an overflow parking area specifically designated for larger vehicles to park, so if you want to stick around for the whole thing and prefer the glamping lifestyle, this is your best option! 4. Accommodations off-site. We recommend looking for vacation rentals or hotels in Mapleton & Florence if you prefer not to stay on-site, and we do recommend doing your search on that front as early as possible - as this area (especially the beach) attracts tourists this time of year. (Incidentally, there are also other campgrounds nearby, but those are paid sites, and ours is free for you to use.) 5. If you're willing to make the drive back to Eugene in the evening, we may be able to accommodate a few people at our respective apartments there. Please let us know if this option interests you, however please also note that this is a 45m-1hr drive and a very windy road, so if you plan to party with us, we don't recommend driving it without a DD! (Same goes for staying anywhere else.)

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Can you provide camping gear?

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Yes! We assume that those who are flying in won't be able to travel with a bunch of gear, so we plan to acquire extra before the event. (We will donate this gear to a local group who supports the unhoused in Eugene, after the fact.) If this applies to you, please just let us know ASAP so we can plan accordingly! The more advanced notice you give us, the better your chances of us getting everything you need.

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Is it likely to rain?

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Probably not. By this time of year, the rain has usually more or less stopped and it's lovely and sunny during the day - roughly in the low 70s. There *may* be *some* mud however, (nothing crazy) so good footwear is recommended. It may be pretty chilly at night and can get a bit damp around dawn, so extra warm clothes are recommended for that. For the folks unfamiliar with Oregon weather, it's a pretty wet place, so it would not hurt to bring a light rain jacket and a rain shell for your tent, if you plan to camp. It could get foggy/misty overnight. If it's wet, we have a plan for how to do the whole thing indoors, so this is DEFEINITELY A RAIN OR SHINE EVENT! :)

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How "off the grid" are we going to be?

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Minimally. Camp Lane is right on the side of Hwy 126 - meaning it is not at all "off grid." There are, however, some limitations of typical services. What we DO have: - Electricity - Running water - Bathrooms with doors & showers - Fully enclosed indoor spaces (some of them) - Fireplace indoors AND lg. fire pit outside. - Fully-stocked industrial kitchen that can fit like 10-15 ppl at once - Wifi calling in one of the buildings (for emergencies or for guests who need to reach us at the venue ahead of the wedding - limited capacity.) What we DON'T have: - Central heat & AC - RV hookups - Cell phone reception (Sorry, not sorry, we all need a break sometimes!) - Very many outlets. (We'll attempt to set up a charging station, but if you have a portable power bank, it wouldn't hurt to pack it.)

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Do you have any hotel recommendations?

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Not yet, but we will work on this. The venue is slightly closer to Florence, OR (the beach) than Eugene (where we live), so there's an opportunity to turn this into an Oregon Coast trip as well! The coast has TONS of hotels and vacation rentals to choose from, but we DO recommend booking as early as possible in advance! Eugene also has some lovely vacation rentals and hotels. Eugene also has lots of lovely accommodations, and if you plan to come up here during the week before the wedding, or stay for a few days after the wedding, we recommend Eugene so you're near us! If you're already from Oregon, why are you even reading this?

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Is there transportation to and from the hotels to the ceremony?

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While we can't provide transpo from hotels (as guests will individually be choosing where they stay, if not on the grounds with us) we WILL attempt to coordinate 2-3 shuttles from the Eugene airport, for guests flying in on Sunday and Monday! We can provide specific details for this closer to the date, so please let us know the details of your flights if you would like to utilize this service. If you are bringing kids and/or a lot of camping stuff, we recommend renting a car, van, or even an RV. There are no RV hookups (this is a "dry" site w/ regards to that) but there *are* hookups in Mapleton & Florence!

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How can I help?

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We will be serving some cocktails and beer, but if you have anything specific that you like to drink, PLEASE DO BYOB! If you are flying in, there are many grocery & convenience stores en route that you can stop at, but also please don't feel obligated to bring food! If you have specific items or times of day that you need to eat, please bring some extra snacks. There will be two meals served on the day of the wedding (brunch for the setup crew and an early-ish dinner) as well as dinner the night before. There will also be various snacks laid out in between. IF YOU ARE LOCAL, you are more than welcome to bring food to share! We love us a good community potluck! :) If you have access to any of the following that we could rent or borrow, pls let us know! (Will keep updated.) - Sound system for the party inside - Extra camping chairs, tents or other camping oddities you're willing to lend - Comfy chairs, couches, or beanbag chairs for a cozy lounge area (there's not much comfy seating) - A projector & screen for a photo slide show - 70s style decor :)

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Is the site wheelchair accessible?

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Some of it is, yes. The bottom floor of the A-Frame building can accommodate someone with a chair, should they need it, and there is a ramp into the lodge, where dinner will be held. Most of the ground is even, but some is a bit bumpy, so assistance with pushing is recommended in those areas.

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Can I bring my dog/s?

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Unfortunately, no, unless they're a service dog. (Wink wink) Our dog Bmo will be there if you need to get your puppy fix, though! He'll be armed with a million kisses to give away. :)

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Are there any other events around the wedding?

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Yes! A few things: 1. If you are local or would like to show up to Eugene early, we will be hosting family and friends (to the best of our capacity) and working on decorations and other prep in the week before the wedding. We would love to have a small engagement garden party beforehand as well, so if you would like to join us for any of this, please let us know, so we can send you information on that closer to that time! 2. We hope to be able to go to Sweet Creek Falls, which is about a 30 minute drive away, after we pack up the wedding stuff and check out of the venue! This is a relatively short, easy, flat hike to a STUNNING waterfall. Anyone who sticks around to help clean up is more than welcome to join us! We do recommend good hiking footwear for this. 3. Possible beach trip before or after wedding? Let us know if you're interested!

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I want to send a gift or donation but I do not use Venmo, what are my options?

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If you do not have Venmo set up and you are unable to make it, but you would like to send a gift), please let Chris or Michaela know, so we can give you some other options, including our mailing address and other bank transfer options. We will also have a donation box set up at the event.

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A wedding? In *this* economy??

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Yep. Honestly, now more than ever. We believe that cultivating joy in the face of an ever-increasingly turbulent world is a very important form of resistance. Come celebrate the good things with us!!