FAQs

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How do I RSVP?

Answer

Please RSVP using the "RSVP" link in the menu options or visit: zola.com/wedding/patrickandrachel2025/rsvp. You can respond on behalf of your entire party and provide your meal choice.

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When should I RSVP by?

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Please RSVP by Friday, March 21, 2025.

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Is there a dress code?

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You have the option of wearing your most formal attire (i.e. an evening gown or tuxedo), but may also choose to wear a formal suit or cocktail dress instead.

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Can I bring a date?

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If your invitation says "and Guest", then yes! If not, we have invited just you.

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Are kids welcome?

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Although we adore your children, we have decided to make our big day an adults-only event.

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What do I do between the church and reception?

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The doors of our reception venue will not open until 5:30 PM. There are local bars close to the venue where you can go and grab a drink. We love Spring Lake Taphouse. You can also take a stroll down Third Ave, which is across the lake from the church and reception, to browse shops or grab a coffee.

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

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There is street parking around St. Catharine's Church and on the surrounding streets for the ceremony. Complimentary valet service is available at the Essex and Sussex (the reception), but you're also allowed to park on the surrounding streets or along Ocean Ave. For valet service, please enter into the parking lot at the back of Essex & Sussex (entrance on 1st Ave).