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We're looking forward to celebrating with you! Please remember to RSVP before May 22nd!
We're looking forward to celebrating with you! Please remember to RSVP before May 22nd!
June 27, 2026
Milan, KS

Ian & Larissa

Wedding Party

The Wedding Website of Ian O’Laughlin and Larissa Wilkins

Ian O'Laughlin

Groom

Ian O’Laughlin is a world-renowned author, philanthropist, GQ model, Pulitzer Prize-winning photographer, Olympic silver medalist, and father to Merlin (the dog). Ian grew up on the rough and tumble streets of Augusta, KS. Growing up, he spent his time playing football, wrestling, and all around overachieving as a straight-A student. What you dear reader may not know about is Ian’s dark past. Ian was a purveyor of illicit materials, M-rated games, which he would distribute to his fellow 15-year old classmates during Joe Conner’s science class. Thankfully, the registrar's office did not get word of this and Ian went on to attend the University of Kansas. While attending KU, Ian threw himself into his studies, if his studies included playing 2K or catching W’s in Fortnite. As a side-hobby he also decided to pursue a major in chemical engineering. After a few years, of virtual sportsmanship Ian missed the physical nature of contact sports. In his junior year he signed up for KU’s club rugby team. A decision that changed the trajectory of his life (and is the reason I am writing this little bio on this webpage). Through rugby Ian was able to travel the globe, perfectly ‘splitting the G’, build lasting friendships, and most importantly meet his equal in Larissa. I know he is excited to share this moment with all of you. --Zach (proofed by Devan iykyk)


Larissa Wilkins

Bride

Larissa's life has been shaped by an indefatigable spirit of adventure. That adventurous spirit led her all over the countryside on the back of a horse during her childhood in NW Illinois. It led her to The University of Montana Western in Dillon, MT to pursue her dream of making a living in the horse industry, and it prompted a nearly ten year journey across eight states while she carved out a life and a living for herself. The same indomitable spirit of adventure also gave her the courage to change course. That's when she settled in Wichita and began working in the aviation industry. That's also when she decided to try out for rugby, and the rest, as they say, is history. Now she stands at the precipice of possibly the most terrifying-and rewarding- adventure of all: marriage. And she can't wait to celebrate the momentous occasion with you! -- Ashley-MOH

Zachary Stanley

Best Man

Zach and Ian got to be really good friends back in college spending many nights in the backyard and playing video games. They continue to stay in touch through weekly Dnd campaigns and the occasional visits. Fun Fact: Ian was Zach's best man, so this one is for bragging rights.


Ashley Wilkins

Maid of Honor

What can be said about a bride and her sister? Ashley has been the bride's 'ride or die' ever since the beginning (even when they fought like sisters do). Ashley and Larissa grew up riding horses together, taking classes together in high school, dying their hair together, plus so much more -- it makes perfect sense they are together on Larissa's wedding day. ♥

Joseph Pomatto

Groomsman

Joe and Ian met through the Wichita Barbarians Rugby club, playing each other's prop counterpart they quickly bonded over back's dropping passes. They often would coordinate their rugby social outfits and were known to be the strong team members for the post-match boat race. Ian even got Joe to pick up Dnd and they play regularly.


Chloe Brackeen

Bridesmaid

It's never really talked about, but it can be so difficult to make great friends as an adult, but by golly, Chloe and the bride have done just that! They have bonded over rugby, long talks about aliens, and all of the random similarities they share. Chloe also gets credit for introducing the bride and groom that random Thursday night after rugby practice. ♥

Neil McMarthy

Groomsman

Neil or "Pops" and Ian met through rugby while at KU. On a tour in New Zealand is when Pops and Ian started hanging out. Whether it's cribbage, a cold beer, or Dnd There's never a quiet moment and many laughs to be had.


Cori Watkins

Bridesmaid

Cori is Ian’s younger cousin, but after graduating high school together and deciding to do it all over again at KU, they quickly became more like siblings. Living together for a few years sealed the deal—Cori was usually the angel on Ian’s shoulder, though she did occasionally help fuel late nights and questionable ideas (all in the name of a good time). No matter the situation, Cori always brought laughter and balance. Even as life has taken them physically farther apart, the closeness—and the bond—has never changed.

Tyler Wilkins

Groomsman

Tyler is the bride's not-so-little little brother. Admittedly, growing up these two got along much like oil and water - always butting heads! Now as adults, Tyler has become the guy Larissa can call when her car is running funny or she needs help moving (even if he lives 8 hours away). Tyler is so dependable, understanding, and supportive -- just a great brother! ♥


Caitlin Duru

Bridesmaid

Caitlin is Ian’s cousin, but growing up just a few years apart, she often felt more like a built-in life roadmap. Ian was always watching to see what milestone Caitlin hit next—learning to drive, heading off to college, and generally doing things the “right” way. She’s long been a role model for how to go all-in on whatever you pursue, a trait Ian has always admired. Of course, no biography of Caitlin would be complete without mentioning the annual Black Friday shopping trips, where her competitive spirit shines and mercy is in short supply. Ian has learned a lot from her so far in life and surely will continue to, he will always look up to his "big" cousin.