Simply put, it is the process of the groom and groom's side asking the bride's family for her hand and marriage. It is also an introduction of family members of both sides and a way of honoring their family and ancestors. The groom's side will line up with offerings. When the bride's side accepts the groom and the offerings, the bride's parents will escort the bride to see her partner. This is where the groom will present her bouquet to her. This is also where both sides will introduce themselves with family introductions, a welcome speech and prayer. Family members are assigned to light candles to honor their ancestors and serve tea to their parents, grandparents and elders. After parents and grandparents are served tea, then immediately the family lines up to receive a tea offering from the couple and give them words of luck and wisdom.
If you are attending the Vietnamese Tea Ceremony, please arrive by 2:45PM. If you are coming for the traditional ceremony, please arrive by 4:30PM.
Cocktail attire is the official dress code, but we really want to encourage wearing áo dài for our family members, and we welcome all other cultural attires. This is a celebration of love and culture, and we would love if you shared your culture's traditional formal attire with us!
We welcome significant others, but please do not bring guests without verifying with us first.
Yes, this will be a family friendly celebration.
There is plenty of parking available at the venue.
We are not providing any transportation, but we would be happy to group you up to make transportation plans as easy as possible.