Co-Best Man
Thomas is one of the best friends a guy could ask for. If you want to know more about our friendship, you'll have to travel years and years back to the good ol' playgrounds of Samantha Smith elementary. We became best buds in 4th grade and haven't looked back since. Most activities you can think of, we've probably done together. We've laughed together, we've cried together (me), we've owned together, etc. I couldn't imagine a better guy to be buy my side on such a big day. Thomas is an avid fisher, masterful gamer, and overall great man. He will be joined by his lovely Fiance Katy Holmes, and we're excited for you to meet him!
Matron of Honor
Forever my first second-half. My twin, sister, best friend. She's a beautiful wife and mother, whose love and relationship with Jesus has always inspired, and challenged me. I look up to her. We dislike each-others feet (don't ask me why), we have spontaneous giggle attacks that leave us crying and shrieking (sorry fam) and our non-verbal communication is to be envied (#goals). She teases me relentlessly and loves that Hunter and Stephen strengthen her efforts to that effect. She's an incredible homemaker - constantly cooking, baking, gardening. Somehow finding time to make her own yogurt and butter, have personal devos and be present with her babes and husband. She's heard every dream I've ever had, and I couldn't be more thrilled to have her by my side as one of them comes true. <3
Co-Best Man
Another brother that I couldn't imagine not having by my side on a day like this. Sam and I have also go way back to the younger years of elementary school. If you want more stories on Sam's first impression of me, feel free to ask - it's a good story that he's always excited to share. Sam and I have shared too many laughs to count and I am a better man for knowing him. He's always the life of the party and is never afraid to stand out. The Boucher clan will always have a deep spot in my heart.
Maid of Honor
My sidekick since before we could walk! Outside of my family, I do not share more history with another human being. Not many people can see you through every awkward, happy, heartbreaking, transitional stage of life and stick with you. She's one of the most intentional people I know and constantly serves me with her listening ear, speaking truth, and knowing when to push me. Shes loyal, and lives by conviction and principled values. She’s the queen of Psych references, a phenomenal cook and party-planner, and a self-admitting coffee snob. Kileen is an adventurer, and could be a tour guide wherever she visits. She’s a proud puppy mama to Riley, and a cowgirl to her core. She's my bosom friend. Forever and always!
Groomsman
Many talk about the idea of when you get married, you're also choosing to marry the family. What I would say to that., is that I got a great package deal with Hunter. He's an amazing man of God and the brother of the bride, Casey. He's an avid hunter, fisher, and business man. I'm excited for the future years ahead, as I know Hunter and I will share many memories together. He's one of the most studied men that I know, and I'm excited for you each to get to meet such a great guy. I couldn't be happier to call him a future brother-in-law.
Bridesmaid
I always like to brag that I was friends with Stephen's sisters long before we ever met. I am so grateful for this girl who has stuck with me through my best, and worst times and continued loving me no matter the circumstances. I love her curiosity for and perspectives on life. I can't say the word 'seasons' without thinking of her. She's my hair and fashion go-to, under-the-radar-music-finding-genius and baker of all things sinful. I am SO thankful that this sweet-hearted girl will be standing next to me on our wedding day, and forever as my sister.
Groomsman
Our personal rescue swimmer, Brendan, is one of the best guys I know. I'm so thankful for his friendship and I've been so proud to call him a best bud. He's spent the last few years serving our country, in the Navy, and always has fun stories to share with us when he's home. I've spent many years adventuring and laughing with Brendan and I've shared some of the best memories with him. He's another reason why I feel blessed to be surrounded by so many great guys. If you get a chance, ask him about his cousin Hans, as it's also a great story he has to share.
Bridesmaid
Twin-sister of the groom, and the one I have to thank for helping keep Stephen alive during his younger years. I am grateful for a friend and sister who is just as much a type-a analytical, administrative, introverted-thinker as I am. She embraces who she is, and invites, and inspires those around her to do the same. She stands on her convictions and values, unwavering. She's a deeply loyal and steadfast friend, and I can't wait to call her my sister.
Groomsman
One of my best friends in college, and one of the guys I always look to for advice! Will has always been my go to guy for current event discussions as he has a deep fascination with global politics. He's a man of many talents, and I've shared some amazing memories with him. One memory I'll never forget was a study abroad trip to Morocco and Spain where we got to experience some amazing places together. I knew after getting back from that trip, that our friendship would be life long. So excited to have him standing by my side.
Bridesmaid
Meghan, my dear soul-sister. When I am with her I rest and leave constantly refreshed by her presence. She walks alongside me in faith, encouraging and challenging me in my own walk. For all her sweet, she's got sass that'll surprise you. She's a meal-prepping wizard, gives melt-worthy back rubs, and is always up for an adventure and deep conversation. Megs stands witness to some of the most refining, heart-breaking moments & seasons of my life. And she was always a safe place for me to land and process. This girl is stuck with me for life, and hardly anyone is more qualified to stand next to me on this special day.
Groomsman
There's too much to say when it comes to Scott. He's been one of my best friends from junior high, and I'm so grateful to call him one of my best friends. We've been through so much together, both on and off the football field. That includes sweet victories, heart wrenching losses, linkin park jam sessions in the school parking lot after a game, etc. While he was always such a great teammate, Scott has always been an even better friend off the field. Him and I have enjoying too many good times to count. He just recently became engaged to a close family friend, Kenzie Carlson, so congratulate him if you see him!
Bridesmaid
Em's the friend I consult when I need to know which utensil to use first, how to act at a proper tea party, and how to make sense of the NFL draft or college sports. She's a planner extraordinaire and someday we WILL start our own event planning business when we're married with children. She's all class and sass, somehow coexisting in the same person. I've hardly met anyone more in love with Jesus, and passionate about her faith and ministry. This girls going to go places. We've walked through broken seasons together, mutual gifts from Jesus to encourage us along our journeys. I am so thankful to have this sister stand next to me not only bearing witness to the Lord's faithfulness, but for all the light and joy she carries with her.
Groomsman
Jordan is a guy I can always count on to be there, both with the good and the bad. He's an amazing man of God and I'm grateful to call him a brother in Christ. He's been an integral piece in my own personal faith journey, and he's taught me so much about what it looks like to live a life righteously. We've spent many Tuesday nights learning and growing together, and I'll be grateful to know he has my back on such a special day. I hope you all have an opportunity to meet Jordan as he will definitely impress.
Bridesmaid
Kristen and I's friendship has been forged over many Five Stone Coffee dates, and becoming co-leaders for an incredible group of 8th grade girls. Not only was it a joy to serve together and be partners in ministry, but I got to know this soft-spoken gem of a friend. She is loyal, patient and kind. She's listened to me talk for hours, and always balanced out her care for me with understanding and challenging words/questions I needed to hear. She is strong and vulnerable, steady and faithful. A fellow rule-follower and the one I have to thank for introducing me to Bernedoodles (my now dream-dog), She is also standing next to me on the 7th anniversary of her own wedding (s/o to Erik - HAPPY ANNIVERSARY you two!). If that's not next-level friendship, I don't know what is. Love you, girl!
Usher
I feel so honored to call Andrew a future brother-in-law. He's the type of man you look up to and grow from. He's an amazing father and it's clear that he leads his family well. He will be a role model of mine over the next many years, and I'm so excited to spend more time with him and his family. I know we'll share some great memories going forward, and I'm looking forward to the hunting, fishing, and golfing we'll do together. If you see Andrew, feel free to ask him about his mastery with a bow as he's a phenomenal marksman.
Usher
I will be honored to welcome Michael into the family as a future brother-in-law. My sister Julia and Michael will be getting married in August, and I couldn't be happier to have him join the ranks! He's got such a strong servant heart and leaves me with no doubt that he will take absolute great care of my twin sister and their future family. I'm excited to go through life with Michael and I know we will share many fun memories together. I look forward to having you all meet this amazing guy!
Flower Girl
Our miracle babe. We almost lost Finley when she was four days old. God spared this little love, and has already done so much through her testimony! She's all sweetness and sass. She's sensitive, intuitive, and independent. Now three, she's a good big sister to baby Berit, loves her bunny, and one-on-one quality time with mommy and daddy. She's cautious, responsible, and likes to help. She loves to be silly and make people laugh. Her Auntie adores that, like her, she loves to sing and dance.
Flower Girl
I've never known it was possible to have so much personality in one child! We love our baby B. She gives the biggest smiles (and quiver-lips) and can go hot to cold in an instant. She's all passion and drama, still, you've hardly met a happier girl. She is incredibly social and wants to be a part of everything happening around her. She's affectionate and loves to give cuddles and kisses. She is curious, and always finding ways into things she shouldn't.
Officiant
Jarrod has been a family friend of the Dainsberg's and a big brother to me (Casey) for 9 some years. I served closely in youth group and on worship team with Jarrod for four of those years. He's the worship and student ministries pastor at Calvary Church in Walker, Minn. Jarrod and his wife, Sarah, have four beautiful children. He shreds the guitar and can play any instrument put in front of him. He is a gifted speaker, and uses his God-given authority to boldly declare truth and light in a hurting world full of brokenness. He is in the running for Walker's trendiest person, loves to laugh, and his Type B personality and teasing always kept me on my toes. We are so grateful for him sharing his gifts with us today, and I am so thankful for the 'big brother' he's been to me over the years.
Wedding Planner
Shout out to this girl! Never in a million years did I think I would be able to have a wedding planner, yet, we were gifted with Sabrina and she, along with the rest of the incredible ladies on our team, took a vision and brought it all to fruition, exceeding every dream I ever had. Not only that, but we found a friend in the process. Sabrina was patient, attentive to detail, and quickly understood our vision and offered so many incredible ideas we hadn't even thought of that will make this day extra special. I can't thank these women enough for all they have done on our behalf to make this day a reality. We joke that we're 'promoters for life' but it's true. If you're looking for a wedding planner in Minnesota, I would recommend Sabrina (Adore Weddings & Events) 100 times over.
Owner of NP Event Center & Luminary Fern, Photographer
The first time I saw Luminary Fern, my heart was set. Aimee and Grace are incredible, and we couldn't be more thrilled to have them to shepherd us through our big day. They have made provision for so many details - not only the venue and photography, but the chairs, tables, signage and decor are all their inspirations, working closely with Sabrina and Kate to bring our dream to life. AImee's generosity and support for us and our big day is priceless and beyond what we could have hoped for or asked. She's a hard working wife and mother, who manages these beautiful venues with boundless energy and care. She wears so many hats! We deeply appreciate you. Also, S/O to her hubby who constructed the beautiful hexagon for the ceremony!
Bloom Designs
Kate is the mastermind behind all the gorgeous flowers and arrangements, and the final member of our 'dream team' of women who collaborated closely to make this day happen. I had no idea what to ask, or where to start when it came to flowers, and Kate graciously led me through the process, handling the details and allowing me to just express my vision, and the 'big picture'. She was incredibly flexible, honest, and shared an excitement for my ideas, which in turn just made me more excited. He work is stunning, and I can't wait for you all to see and enjoy it with us!