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We can't wait to celebrate with you in our happy place!
We can't wait to celebrate with you in our happy place!

Laura & Devin

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The Wedding Website of Laura Alise Traffenstedt and Devin Joseph Merker
We tried to put together a comprehensive list of all items you might have questions about below. If there's something you're not sure about, please contact either Laura or Devin directly.
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When is the RSVP deadline?

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Please RSVP online as soon as you know you can or cannot attend, or by March 25th, 2025 at the latest. If we don't receive your RSVP by March 25th, we will assume you will not be attending.

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Where should I stay for the weekend?

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We strongly recommend staying in Cayucos, Morro Bay, or Cambria for close proximity to the venue and weekend activities! For hotel recommendations, please refer to the travel page. To all of our friends from Cal Poly, we love San Luis Obispo as much as you do, but we really recommend not staying there. You will have plenty of opportunities to visit SLO while in town, but ubers/lyfts are not guaranteed in the area, and it is quite a ways away from the wedding venue.

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How do I get to the wedding venue? Will transportation be provided?

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Since uber/lyft will not be available due to no service on the ranch, we will be offering shuttles from Downtown Cayucos to the wedding venue and back for those that choose not to drive! The exact location and timing of shuttle pickup and drop off has been provided directly to everyone. If you are unsure about this, or did not receive instructions, please contact Devin directly. If you are not staying in Cayucos, please note that you will still be responsible for getting to and from the pick-up/drop-off shuttle location.

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Is there parking available at the wedding venue?

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Yes, there is plenty of parking available at the wedding venue! If you choose to drive yourself and decide to drink at the wedding, please know that you can leave your car overnight at the venue as long as you take the shuttle back to Cayucos and retrieve the car by 12pm on Sunday! Parking instructions have been provided to folks via text. If you are unsure, or did not receive instructions, please contact Devin directly.

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What time should I arrive to the ceremony?

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If you are using your own transportation to get to the venue, please arrive at the earliest by 3 p.m. and no later than 3:30 p.m. The property is rather large, and the ceremony will be held near the top of the hill. A shuttle will take you to the ceremony site from the parking lot. Arriving between 3 - 3:30 p.m. will ensure enough time for you to reach the ceremony site, and get settled before the wedding begins. If you arrive after 3:45 pm, you will not be let up to the ceremony site. If you are using the shuttles being provided by Laura and Devin from Downtown Cayucos, please refer to the shuttle pick-up times provided to you. If you do not arrive on time, you will unfortunately be left behind and will have to find a different way to get to the venue.

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Will the ceremony, cocktail hour, and reception take place indoors or outdoors?

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The ceremony will be held outdoors at the top of the hill overlooking the ocean, the cocktail hour will take place outdoors in the meadow by the barn, and the reception will be held inside in the property’s blue historic dairy barn. Transportation will be provided to transport you from the ceremony site to the cocktail hour and reception area down the hill.

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What is the dress code?

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The dress code is semi-formal/cocktail attire Gentlemen: Suit Jackets, Blazers, Button-Up Dress Shirt, Dress Trousers. Women: Cocktail Dresses, Mid-length and Floor-length Dresses, and Jumpsuits. The wedding will be held on a ranch with uneven terrain, so please be mindful of footwear. Ladies, please consider opting for a chunky heel, wedges, or flats.

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Can I bring my kids?

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We are so excited to celebrate with all of our friends and family, including little ones! When you RSVP online, you will be able to see who in your party/family is invited to celebrate with us.

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Can I bring a plus one?

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Our goal is to keep our very special weekend as intimate and personal as possible. We are choosing to celebrate with our closest family and friends. If the invitation is addressed to you and your partner, then yes! Otherwise, we respectfully ask that you honor our wishes.

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I have dietary restrictions/allergies. What's the best way to let you know?

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If you have dietary restrictions/allergies, please let us know when you RSVP. We will do our best to accommodate everyone’s dietary needs.

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When will the reception end? Will there be an after-party?

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The reception will end at 10 p.m. and an after-party will be held at Schooner’s Bar in Downtown Cayucos afterwards! Please join us at the after party if you would like to keep the party going!! Snacks to be provided with drinks available to purchase.

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What is the weather like in the area?

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Weather channels are predicting a windy day with highs around 60 degrees. We strongly recommend bringing a coat or sweater.

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I'm visiting from out of town. What can I do while I'm in Cayucos?

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We are so excited for you to visit the beautiful Central Coast! The area is filled with lots of fun options. We’ve put together a list of recommendations for things to do in the area under the Things to Do page.

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Do you have a wedding registry?

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Yes, we have put together a wedding registry! Although your presence at our wedding is enough, if you feel inclined, our registry can be found under the Registry tab on our wedding website.

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Can I bring my gift to the wedding?

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Should you wish to bring a gift to our wedding, there will be a gift table for your convenience.

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How will you communicate any updated information and/or changes before the wedding?

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Any updates to events will be communicated on this website.

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What's the best way to contact you if I have additional questions?

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If your questions were not answered here, please contact either Laura or Devin directly.

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