FAQs

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when should I RSVP by?

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Please RSVP by February 15, 2026. This helps us finalize the guest list, coordinate with vendors, and make sure everyone can celebrate together. We truly appreciate your timely response!

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What is the dress code?

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Cocktail attire - dress to impress! That means polished, stylish, and ready to celebrate. For women: Dresses, jumpsuits, or sets are all perfect options. Feel free to show your personal style - Bold colors and fun textures are all welcome. Heels, dressy sandals, or comfortable flats all work (just make sure you can dance in them!) For men: Dress pants and dress shoes with a short or long sleeve button-up shirt is great. A blazer or tie is totally optional, but always appreciated if you're feeling fancy.

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What will the weather be like?

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May in Penn Valley usually brings sunny, comfortable days (mid-60s to low 80s °F) and cooler evenings - bring a light jacket or shawl just in case. Our venue is mostly indoors, with a covered terrace for the ceremony and cocktail hour, so you’ll be comfortable no matter the weather.

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Am I allowed to bring a plus one?

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To keep our wedding as intimate as possible, only the guests formally invited on your wedding invitation will be accommodated. If you received a plus one they will appear when you RSVP.

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Are children invited?

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While we absolutely love your little ones, our wedding will be adults-only with the exception of the children in our wedding party. To help parents enjoy the evening stress-free, we’ll be offering complimentary childcare at our home, just a mile from the venue in the same neighborhood. If you're interested in this option, feel free to reach out to us directly - we’d be happy to share the details.

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what time should I arrive?

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Our ceremony begins at 4:30 PM. Please arrive by 4:00 PM to allow time for parking and seating, and to avoid missing any part of the ceremony.

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will there be an open bar?

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Yes! The drinks are on us and the hangover is on you! Please arrange for transportation from the venue if you plan on drinking.

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What type of food will be served at your wedding?

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The cocktail hour will feature hors d’oeuvres, followed by a buffet dinner with three entrée options, including a vegetarian choice.

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are you having a welcome party?

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While we aren’t planning a full Welcome Party, we’ll be hosting a small Rehearsal Dinner the night before the wedding with immediate family, our wedding party, and a few close friends. If you’re invited to the Rehearsal Dinner, you’ll see the option to accept or decline when you RSVP.